Exactly, age is certainly not 'just a number' because I would bet any amount of money that if her age was a higher number he would not be interested. He is using you for your age, OP. He does not respect you at all and is a selfish, creepy PoS. You don't deserve any of this.
Are you and your bf on the same page about birth control, accidental pregnancy and abortion? Have you discussed what will work best for you with your sexual health care provider?
Do you both masturbate and know your own bodies? Have you done heavy petting in bed together? Have you had the chance to explore each other's bodies yet?
Are you able to insert a tampon, fingers etc. without any issue?
We both chose this path, so age gap isn’t the issue here.
We were in an exclusive relationship of almost 3 years, so I think she disrespected me and the relationship twice and probably every time she was going to a party.
That is not a way of behaving when you’re having a long term relationship. What do you think?
I can't keep going down this rabbit well of unclicking the downvoted OP replies. It's sufficient, OP sincerely could not accept something nice from his GF due to his own (likely) chauvinistic sense of pride.
Uhm, well, … happy (belated, I presume) birthday!(?)
Yeah, sometimes life sucks. :-/ Things can be kind'a random too.
Well, at least you had the one friend show up.
And … no shortage of good food! 🙂
And … probably not too many squabble s about what to do or chose or such … with only 2 people having input, rather than about 17. And much easier cleanup with 2 rather than 17, eh? Oh, and no shortage of yummy leftovers. You get to continue celebrating for … what, a good week or more with all that food?
I don’t even know how to react or what to answer
Don't sweat it … there will always be other days … and other birthdays … at least until there aren't. 😉 But no rush on that.
Oh, and rain checks can be good too.
And … sometimes I've had great birthdays (last one was pretty awesome … very small number of folks, but still excellent) … decade before that … meh … whole day, didn't even meet with anyone I knew … oh well, went for a nice long walk at least. So, … stuff varies, … sometimes better/great, … sometimes not so great. And sometimes kind'a randomly.
This is so twisted and disrespectful to go to your bestie to do that, not only did he want to hurt you on an emotional level but he also wanted to make sure your self-esteem would take a huge hit as well.
And please, do not under any circumstance keep talking to this girl. She is worse than your BF in my book and didn’t tell you out of guilt, she just wanted to rub it in your face. A real friend would have never entertained your boyfriend/ex. She is NOT your friend.
for real – at least in high school theres the close vicinity and everyone knows everyone excuse. in college, worst case scenario some frat dudes know u hook up with someone and talk about you behind your back and you easily have the choice of never going back to their house
Eh. He still lied. He may have change his mind but never told op. Seemed like he was just hoping to outrun her biological clock.
Exactly, age is certainly not 'just a number' because I would bet any amount of money that if her age was a higher number he would not be interested. He is using you for your age, OP. He does not respect you at all and is a selfish, creepy PoS. You don't deserve any of this.
And the definition of gold digger or leach. Take your pick. Count your blessings she left
Husband in past posts, now boyfriend?
What couldn't you explore with the man you supposedly love?
nope
Are you and your bf on the same page about birth control, accidental pregnancy and abortion? Have you discussed what will work best for you with your sexual health care provider?
Do you both masturbate and know your own bodies? Have you done heavy petting in bed together? Have you had the chance to explore each other's bodies yet?
Are you able to insert a tampon, fingers etc. without any issue?
I think you responded to the wrong comment.
We both chose this path, so age gap isn’t the issue here.
We were in an exclusive relationship of almost 3 years, so I think she disrespected me and the relationship twice and probably every time she was going to a party.
That is not a way of behaving when you’re having a long term relationship. What do you think?
I can't keep going down this rabbit well of unclicking the downvoted OP replies. It's sufficient, OP sincerely could not accept something nice from his GF due to his own (likely) chauvinistic sense of pride.
He hasn't spoken to you in 5 months. You have already lost him. I know ending stuff sucks but you've gotta start moving on.
Uhm, well, … happy (belated, I presume) birthday!(?)
Yeah, sometimes life sucks. :-/ Things can be kind'a random too.
Well, at least you had the one friend show up.
And … no shortage of good food! 🙂
And … probably not too many squabble s about what to do or chose or such … with only 2 people having input, rather than about 17. And much easier cleanup with 2 rather than 17, eh? Oh, and no shortage of yummy leftovers. You get to continue celebrating for … what, a good week or more with all that food?
I don’t even know how to react or what to answer
Don't sweat it … there will always be other days … and other birthdays … at least until there aren't. 😉 But no rush on that.
Oh, and rain checks can be good too.
And … sometimes I've had great birthdays (last one was pretty awesome … very small number of folks, but still excellent) … decade before that … meh … whole day, didn't even meet with anyone I knew … oh well, went for a nice long walk at least. So, … stuff varies, … sometimes better/great, … sometimes not so great. And sometimes kind'a randomly.
Quick, someone absolve that woman of the consequences!!
Of course you need to leave!
This is so twisted and disrespectful to go to your bestie to do that, not only did he want to hurt you on an emotional level but he also wanted to make sure your self-esteem would take a huge hit as well.
And please, do not under any circumstance keep talking to this girl. She is worse than your BF in my book and didn’t tell you out of guilt, she just wanted to rub it in your face. A real friend would have never entertained your boyfriend/ex. She is NOT your friend.
I don’t think that’s it he doesn’t pay anything to online here
leave leave leave leave
for real – at least in high school theres the close vicinity and everyone knows everyone excuse. in college, worst case scenario some frat dudes know u hook up with someone and talk about you behind your back and you easily have the choice of never going back to their house
All of this