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I want this level of problems in life!
What exactly was he doing to groom her? Do you even know what being groomed means?
First, please let me say I am so sorry for your loss, and the fact that you seem to have gotten NO care or compassion from your life mate. I am sending you virtual hugs ans strength.
You need to accept the fact that you are married to a very selfish and inconsiderate person. This is not going to change. In all actuality, therapy probably only helped to give him more tools to manipulate arguments so that he gets his way. That is his main concern, and the only thing he really loves. Getting his way. You are just an obstacle, without any feelings, needs or anything of value. I am sorry if this sounds harsh, but the sooner you come to terms with this, the sooner you can try and live a life where you can be happy.
Make a plan, and get away from him.
My worldview could be wrong. I keep an open mind in case it is and I’ve had to change it before. But OP asked for advice and I’m giving it based on the worldview and experience – limited as it is – that I have. Not sure what else you want from me. I put the ‘early 20s male’ tag there for a reason. I’m not hiding that I’m young.
Anyway, everyone has to pass judgement and take actions based on their own morals. Me (or OP if she decides to) “meting out justice” is literally just acting on what I feel is right. It’s not a matter of feeling better than anyone. It’s a matter of knowing what my morals are and sticking to them. And that’s what I’m advising OP to do. She sees this as wrong. She should act on that. Simple as that. If she chooses not to because it doesn’t align with her morals, that’s also a valid choice.
You’ve been making a lot of pretty wrong assumptions of me. That I’m religious, that I’m conservative, etc. You know you could like…ask, right? Like I’m getting that we’re very opposite on the whole moral compass thing, but damn you jump to insults and assumptions very quick
I feel like your ex dodged a bullet here…if you are letting your friends influence your decisions like that then you are not ready to be in a relationship…..
He said in a previous comment that she did help raise the youngest somewhat.
Yeah, I’m pretty sure I’m not gay for using the shared gym showers lol
Give him the choice of either paying market price for rent (for his half) or splitting all costs as s percentage of your incomes, (ex. He makes 60% of the household total income, so he pays 60% of the bills).
I think you also need to have a talk about the current and future status of your relationship before making this choice.
I don’t think she will be going in for a treatment but I agree with her being vulnerable under the influence that she doesn’t know what she is doing but I have doubts regarding how much control she has when she is drunk.
Oof, sorry but lots of red flag in this story
Man, men like to act like women are crazy or needy or whatever complaints they have and then they turn around and pull this. Marriage is supposed to be in sickness and in health, not only so long as you're nude and your body never changes.
Also its fucking disgusting he conflates you w his mom because you're pregnant with his children, do all pregnant people get the mom treatment of just you? Like that doesn't even make sense
60% of the time, it works every time
Couples therapy
Tell her she has 2 choices.
Choice number 1 she gets therapy for her mental issues, and you both go to counselling as a couple to see if the relationship can be saved after she has nearly destroyed it. Also she is banned from your place of work until she has her mental issues under control.
Choice number 2 divorce, and if she picks that one she leaves now.
Thanks again. It's been helpful to me to hear what others think, it has helped me to think things through and yes you're right. She believed me back when I told her I wanted an exclusive thing but she herself admits being insecure.
I hope for the better because we just clicked from day one and it felt just natural. We don't share a taste in music or political views, but I could talk with her for hours about literally anything.
Fuck, I miss her.
OP,
I am sorry this happened to you and only you can decide if you want this to move on or to end it. I first want to say congratulations on having nothing to hide. If it were me and you really love him, if you think you could move past this then do so. If you don't think you can then drop him like an atom bomb and move on.
You could the next time you see him, Take his phone and look through it without giving him prior knowledge. Just walk up to him, put your hand out and ask for his phone. If it is password protected have him open it and hand it to you and read everything of his so your even. If he even hesitates on giving it to you or opening it, then you know your relationship is one sided. If he has to run to the bathroom or anything he could be clearing out things, just end it.
You see where I am going here.
It's not you, it's him. He has an anxiety disorder. Good for you for wanting to stick it out, but he has to do the work.
This is a long distance relationship. He’s currently in another state, so getting away physically isn’t the issue. It’s getting away mentally that’s the difficult part. I don’t really have any close friends I can talk to about the situation. Any time I’ve spoken to my other live friends about it, they’ve encouraged me to give him another chance, because “He seems like a good guy.” And he is for the most part, but this relationship very obviously isn’t healthy. I’m starting to wonder if it’s my fault.
People in high end buildings don’t like free food?
I would confront him but not tell him how you found out – just say you 'heard it from reliable sources and saw the proof' and then tell him that isn't the issue here, because it's not.
I would look into marriage counselling considering you've been together so long. It may be that he is going through an insecure period of time and is looking for confidence boosts, it may be an indicator of your relationship no longer being viable, or it may be something we hadn't even considered.
Well that’s unfair.
Not to encourage whataboutism, but if she wants to be humbled real check, check the date analytics on her phone.
Games>scrolling imo.