If you're being sensible, realistic, mature and respectful then go at a steady pace. Don't hide things or be secretive. You're still kids and you don't need to be tied down that soon in a relationship. You need to figure yourselves out and understand your own worth before you can offer things to partners.
Lady, this guy is a predator abusing a position of power and clearly had 0 second thoughts about it. Find someone better and report him, this goes against ethics policy.
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4 years and now single is better than a lifetime of unhappiness. This will not get better and you have the army of reddit as your support. Dump him and get on with moving on.
Full no contact. Right now you are hurt because all you can think of are the good times. Every time you think of something good, immediately think of her lying to your face, and cheating on you. Every single time. Never go back to her. She has no respect for you. She is a bad person. I’m glad you aren’t married. I know it’s so painful. I’ve been through this. It was my first person and 4 years of my life wasted. It was so brutal… However. I moved on to a wonderful person. I started dating my best friend a year later…and then I could never imagine being with that loser. We’ve been together happily 26 years, married 18 this September. You’ll get through this. No contact is the way. Keep yourself super busy…and replace happy thoughts with her hurting you. Don’t back slide.
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So you teext her before rubbing one?
And then
You don't?
So no, I'm not talking about OP and I don't know why you'd think I would be.
If you're being sensible, realistic, mature and respectful then go at a steady pace. Don't hide things or be secretive. You're still kids and you don't need to be tied down that soon in a relationship. You need to figure yourselves out and understand your own worth before you can offer things to partners.
Just be very careful.
Lady, this guy is a predator abusing a position of power and clearly had 0 second thoughts about it. Find someone better and report him, this goes against ethics policy.
Why?
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If you wouldn’t leave for yourself, think of any possibly kids you may want or have this w immature man.
It would show them harmful ways to show any emotion
Same here. And if I'm being honest, I sorta side-eye people who aren't.
4 years and now single is better than a lifetime of unhappiness. This will not get better and you have the army of reddit as your support. Dump him and get on with moving on.
What happiness has do with it? You claim you were happy, and yet have been cheating.
Full no contact. Right now you are hurt because all you can think of are the good times. Every time you think of something good, immediately think of her lying to your face, and cheating on you. Every single time. Never go back to her. She has no respect for you. She is a bad person. I’m glad you aren’t married. I know it’s so painful. I’ve been through this. It was my first person and 4 years of my life wasted. It was so brutal… However. I moved on to a wonderful person. I started dating my best friend a year later…and then I could never imagine being with that loser. We’ve been together happily 26 years, married 18 this September. You’ll get through this. No contact is the way. Keep yourself super busy…and replace happy thoughts with her hurting you. Don’t back slide.