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You got your eyes opened about what? You have literally not mentioned anything wrong about your relationship with your gf.
It's nice to be wanted, so enjoy it and bask in this attention. You don't have to act on it especially since there is not much to act on. You are not even attracted to this girl, there are zero reasons to break up your current functioning relationship. Smh.
I know you like to think his tones and things didn’t sound like he was bragging. But he was. No one just tells people they flew first class and it was $17k. That amount of money is unobtainable by most people. He was bragging, even if you don’t want to believe it.
It's weird that you think that's rational. 29 weeks along is long enough to feel a bond and I know a girl who was born before 29 weeks along, I tutored her. So, this is past the point of viability and past the point where it's legal to end the unborn child's life in most places.
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Honestly I would let her come to you. Because most people would contact the person and ask if you seen it or had taken it. Then if you didn't answer come see you. But to call the cops? That's very over the top. She got crazy eyes?
You know this isn’t logical. Just because her sister and mother don’t turn you on, doesn’t mean you won’t cheat with someone else, just that you won’t cheat with them. Like I said, she sounds insane. All you can do is keep refusing and let her break up with you. All she can do is tie you down, strip you hot and force her relatives on you. If that happens, get as hard as possible so she will have the excuse she wants to break up with you. But do not marry her because she will just get worse. She is going to accuse you of cheating with every woman you see and that is not the life you want. You will never convince her so don’t even try.
I think a good old sit down about specifics… he needs to spell it out for you as if you need every single thought and feeling spelled out. He needs to say out loud what the issues he has are. He needs to be transparent.
You’re trying, he should too.
Also you’re correct, he IS making his personal problem your issue. On top of that.. anyone who would forbid you to do something is also got bad habits. The fact that he even thinks he can just say “no you aren’t allowed to do this” and you then in turn do not do it, that’s a problem.
No I don’t think so. The message was just “The stress level ?”. And he reacted with the “!!”. Nothing crazy at all. But just the fact that I couldn’t find that text anywhere in their convo means it was deleted
Every person deserves to utilise the birth control they are most comfortable with. For her it’s rhythm, for you it’s condoms. No harm in two different types, just like we double up on the pill and the pull out method/or condoms
Same industry, you gotta assume there is overlap. Imagine hearing from an old coworker that a guy quit in an over the top move fashion and he says he’s going to work at your place of work now. Shit will travel fast.
Confrontation and conversation. I would expect marriage counseling would help. Maybe she was having a fantasy, and it spilled into the real world. The question is why not delete that shit if she knew it was wrong?
If you two are not sexually compatible, end the relationship. He’s allowed to be happy with his current situation and he’s allowed to not want surgery — you don’t have to agree. If you’re dissatisfied with his inaction and lack of solutions and you’re disassfified with your sex life with him, end the relationship. You both deserve to be in a healthy relationship where you’re both happy with the sex.
I hope for your sake he does not come back. Would you really want to marry a guy who runs from you and any future children you have at every little illness or other stress? He sounds selfish, childish and irresponsible. This is not a partner for anybody. please stay away from this guy.
I have been going to therapy myself. My schedule was a response to her being so busy, I didn’t want to be waiting around for her but I do make myself available for dates and I’ve been saying I want to be included in her hobby more.
I know everyone says that you should take time after a separation to better yourself, but I feel like I’m always in that mode. Going to the gym, killing it in career, exploring hobbies, going to therapy.
She has just been so faithful, stable, committed, and reassuring for so long that now her change of heart is really affecting me.
I’m not sure if I would believe this. Usually fake accounts are fine being anonymous but have some sort of evidence. Screenshots, badly taken photos, or more details.
I received a Facebook message once saying my husband was cheating. That if I didn’t believe it to go to x building because that’s where he was spending his lunch and author was claiming he was right there now since they witnessed him leave. He actually wasn’t even at work that day, and was sitting right beside me during the exchange.
Of course — plan your own party. You already have plenty of evidence that your guy isn't the guy who is going to fashion huge birthday “ordeals” for you? You already say that he gets you nice & thoughtful gifts, but you want more? Expectations in general are the enemy of having a good life. Your dude does x for you, you expect more. That's just a recipe for unhappiness, if your feeling “special” rests upon his doing this one particular thing he's obviously not going to do? Plan your party, make it a big “ordeal” and enjoy the other things your guy does for you (if, of course, there is anything). Good luck.
You got your eyes opened about what? You have literally not mentioned anything wrong about your relationship with your gf.
It's nice to be wanted, so enjoy it and bask in this attention. You don't have to act on it especially since there is not much to act on. You are not even attracted to this girl, there are zero reasons to break up your current functioning relationship. Smh.
Is this the internet's Christmas gift to us?
OP, leave him.
So he set the goalposts, you reached it, and so he moved them?
Sounds to me like he wants to find a reaon to leave and not be the bad guy.
But for your own mental health, I hope you recognize that the small amount of weight he claims is a deal breaker for him has nothing to do with you.
Be the weight you want to be, and if the peron who is supposed to walk with you through life thinks this is the reason he wants out, I say let him.
You'll never make him happy because he doesn't want to be happy.
Make yourself happy instead.
I know you like to think his tones and things didn’t sound like he was bragging. But he was. No one just tells people they flew first class and it was $17k. That amount of money is unobtainable by most people. He was bragging, even if you don’t want to believe it.
Am I the only rational person here?
It's weird that you think that's rational. 29 weeks along is long enough to feel a bond and I know a girl who was born before 29 weeks along, I tutored her. So, this is past the point of viability and past the point where it's legal to end the unborn child's life in most places.
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it was my responsibility as a woman to take care of our child…
Yep, this asshole is never changing a diaper. OP needs to plan out her future as a single parent.
Nah, I’ve already asked why it’s such an important thing to everyone when it means literally nothing at all.
I don’t know what writing prompt you are working from says but this story needs a rewrite. Nothing seems plausible.
Honestly I would let her come to you. Because most people would contact the person and ask if you seen it or had taken it. Then if you didn't answer come see you. But to call the cops? That's very over the top. She got crazy eyes?
Literally why do that? What’s the point? Wait there isn’t one. Just leave
You know this isn’t logical. Just because her sister and mother don’t turn you on, doesn’t mean you won’t cheat with someone else, just that you won’t cheat with them. Like I said, she sounds insane. All you can do is keep refusing and let her break up with you. All she can do is tie you down, strip you hot and force her relatives on you. If that happens, get as hard as possible so she will have the excuse she wants to break up with you. But do not marry her because she will just get worse. She is going to accuse you of cheating with every woman you see and that is not the life you want. You will never convince her so don’t even try.
I think a good old sit down about specifics… he needs to spell it out for you as if you need every single thought and feeling spelled out. He needs to say out loud what the issues he has are. He needs to be transparent.
You’re trying, he should too.
Also you’re correct, he IS making his personal problem your issue. On top of that.. anyone who would forbid you to do something is also got bad habits. The fact that he even thinks he can just say “no you aren’t allowed to do this” and you then in turn do not do it, that’s a problem.
I guess I didn't really realize what kind of link I was asking for, maybe just proof of that blog? I don't even know. But that is wild.
Asexual.
No I don’t think so. The message was just “The stress level ?”. And he reacted with the “!!”. Nothing crazy at all. But just the fact that I couldn’t find that text anywhere in their convo means it was deleted
Every person deserves to utilise the birth control they are most comfortable with. For her it’s rhythm, for you it’s condoms. No harm in two different types, just like we double up on the pill and the pull out method/or condoms
Same industry, you gotta assume there is overlap. Imagine hearing from an old coworker that a guy quit in an over the top move fashion and he says he’s going to work at your place of work now. Shit will travel fast.
Confrontation and conversation. I would expect marriage counseling would help. Maybe she was having a fantasy, and it spilled into the real world. The question is why not delete that shit if she knew it was wrong?
You fucked up. Take the lesson and move on.
“Mind your own business” or “I don't care about your opinion” or “are you her doctor? No? then fuck off”
If you two are not sexually compatible, end the relationship. He’s allowed to be happy with his current situation and he’s allowed to not want surgery — you don’t have to agree. If you’re dissatisfied with his inaction and lack of solutions and you’re disassfified with your sex life with him, end the relationship. You both deserve to be in a healthy relationship where you’re both happy with the sex.
I hope for your sake he does not come back. Would you really want to marry a guy who runs from you and any future children you have at every little illness or other stress? He sounds selfish, childish and irresponsible. This is not a partner for anybody. please stay away from this guy.
Thank you saclayson I really appreciate the perspective from a MIL
I have been going to therapy myself. My schedule was a response to her being so busy, I didn’t want to be waiting around for her but I do make myself available for dates and I’ve been saying I want to be included in her hobby more.
I know everyone says that you should take time after a separation to better yourself, but I feel like I’m always in that mode. Going to the gym, killing it in career, exploring hobbies, going to therapy.
She has just been so faithful, stable, committed, and reassuring for so long that now her change of heart is really affecting me.
this. you need to record the bullshit he says to you and show her. if she doesnt cut him off after that, she needs to be cut out instead.
I’m not sure if I would believe this. Usually fake accounts are fine being anonymous but have some sort of evidence. Screenshots, badly taken photos, or more details.
I received a Facebook message once saying my husband was cheating. That if I didn’t believe it to go to x building because that’s where he was spending his lunch and author was claiming he was right there now since they witnessed him leave. He actually wasn’t even at work that day, and was sitting right beside me during the exchange.
Of course — plan your own party. You already have plenty of evidence that your guy isn't the guy who is going to fashion huge birthday “ordeals” for you? You already say that he gets you nice & thoughtful gifts, but you want more? Expectations in general are the enemy of having a good life. Your dude does x for you, you expect more. That's just a recipe for unhappiness, if your feeling “special” rests upon his doing this one particular thing he's obviously not going to do? Plan your party, make it a big “ordeal” and enjoy the other things your guy does for you (if, of course, there is anything). Good luck.