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Many will be quick to say “end it” on Reddit but it’s not that simple. You’ve spent nearly an entire decade with this woman.
When an argument breaks out, what is it generally about? Does it escalate to yelling pretty quickly to yelling and contempt?
I’m not an attorney but I come from a family of attorneys. And yes, holidays are quite… interesting. Here’s what I’ve noticed: always keep your voice calm even if they’re raising it. If she starts to raise you could say “I don’t think this will be productive if we continue yelling” and suggest talking about it at a later time. Less is more in these sorts of engagements. Don’t get caught in semantics. Stick to the point. Yes, couples have issues but it should always be “me and you against the problem” not “me against you”
Finally, she’s an attorney so she is absolutely capable of seeing two sides to an argument. It’s more about “winning” for her though, which is what her entire career is based on! So of course the argument is going to escalate until she wins and you feel powerless. But you are not her work, nor should she ever make you feel that way. Explain your perspective and look into CBT communication. Basically “I hear you’re saying this _____ and I understand where you’re coming from.” Then explain your perspective.
This is a tough situation, I just think a little more communication effort on both of your parts would work wonders.
You are under reacting. Bf reaction was to hit your dog. Your dog will never forget that and will never be able to trust him. Your bf needs to really change his behavior, and not just on the surface. His lack of remorse and the way he is explaining it away with you cuddling the dog too much is soooo wrong. Your dogs behavior sounds normal considering it's past and could eventually be trained away or not show as often. He put that dogs progress back, and it will be harder to “fix.” If you don't leave your bf or don't give up the dog. You need to think hard on how you can protect the dog. That's your responsibility. Bf needs to fix his behavior, and you need to be very clear on your boundrarys when it comes to the dog. Don't be quiet about what's happened, either. Talk with others about it, like his family. If he is going to work on it, he bloody well will do it too with everyone.
Well of course he seems cheerful, he's a middle-aged creep who's bagged a girl half his age, and he will be able to use her naivete to his advantage, getting her to wait on him hand and foot like the bangmaid she is. This is not your fault, and your sister will discover (if she hasn't already) that she is better off without him. I feel sorry for all the kids, though, including the one who isn't born yet. Their dad is a complete asshole.
This guy that doesn’t pay attention to you enough has flat out told you he’s wanting to sleep with someone else but not be in an open relationship with you? He’s trying to break up with you, and he’s making a plan to sleep with Alyssa.
She has also been though a lot with you in 3 years and probably felt a bit trapped by the situation. She knows she would have looked very bad if she left when you were ill and that puts enormous pressure on her to 'stick by you' especially during quiet times when your lack of things in common felt more pronounced. She may also have felt like your carer and that is not a romantic or sexy situation.
You are still only 24 and that is too young to deem your life is over because you broke up with your first love. The idea you'll be alone forever is ridiculous unless you have actually decided to spend your life wallowing over her. It seems like your concern is more about her looks than anything and you not being handsome enough to find such a hard girl again. Ugly people date.
She was your safety net but you were matbe her prison. She deserves her freedom and you might need to re-learn your independance to become an equal partner again. That requires more than sitting home not looking at other girls. Good luck op
As a fellow dude who has been in this scenario a few times:
Nothing to worry about. I learned early on when I would approach a woman, and instead of giving me her number, she took mine, that I was never going to hear from her again.
And I have never been the kind of guy that if I approached a woman and she wasn't interested, that I would keep bothering her. I'd politely say no worries and move on, I can't fathom doing anything else. But, many men won't take a hint or straight up aggressive rejection and flat out terrify women.
The easy out for a woman in this situation is to politely take the guys number, delete it later (or save it for identification purposes ie.: Creepy guy at gym don't answer) and never contact him.
She did right by you by what she did with him directly, and did even better by being transparent. She's a good one bro!
Somehow I don't think there is enough Hail Mary's or Our Father's to atone for the grievious sin of pre-cheating. Hide them in the yard next door? In the attic/basement? Pretend to keep them after they trick-or-treat at the house on Hallow'een?
I appreciate this so much. Our situations seem very similar and I can see my husband and I benefitting from a system like this. It sounds a lot like the 'Fair Play' method/game that we are going to start working on this weekend.
You make a good point about relaxing standards – that is something I've been working on this past year, and it has been very challenging finding that right balance of compromise. I guess finding out what our mutually acceptable compromises will be, aka figuring out what our system will be and maintaining it, will be the ultimate challenge of whether we make it or break it.
Thank you again for sharing your experience and insight. Much appreciated.
Many will be quick to say “end it” on Reddit but it’s not that simple. You’ve spent nearly an entire decade with this woman.
When an argument breaks out, what is it generally about? Does it escalate to yelling pretty quickly to yelling and contempt?
I’m not an attorney but I come from a family of attorneys. And yes, holidays are quite… interesting. Here’s what I’ve noticed: always keep your voice calm even if they’re raising it. If she starts to raise you could say “I don’t think this will be productive if we continue yelling” and suggest talking about it at a later time. Less is more in these sorts of engagements. Don’t get caught in semantics. Stick to the point. Yes, couples have issues but it should always be “me and you against the problem” not “me against you”
Finally, she’s an attorney so she is absolutely capable of seeing two sides to an argument. It’s more about “winning” for her though, which is what her entire career is based on! So of course the argument is going to escalate until she wins and you feel powerless. But you are not her work, nor should she ever make you feel that way. Explain your perspective and look into CBT communication. Basically “I hear you’re saying this _____ and I understand where you’re coming from.” Then explain your perspective.
This is a tough situation, I just think a little more communication effort on both of your parts would work wonders.
God only knows, but be cautious. This doesn't sound good. If she wants to get back together, I hope you will be strong and say no.
You are under reacting. Bf reaction was to hit your dog. Your dog will never forget that and will never be able to trust him. Your bf needs to really change his behavior, and not just on the surface. His lack of remorse and the way he is explaining it away with you cuddling the dog too much is soooo wrong. Your dogs behavior sounds normal considering it's past and could eventually be trained away or not show as often. He put that dogs progress back, and it will be harder to “fix.” If you don't leave your bf or don't give up the dog. You need to think hard on how you can protect the dog. That's your responsibility. Bf needs to fix his behavior, and you need to be very clear on your boundrarys when it comes to the dog. Don't be quiet about what's happened, either. Talk with others about it, like his family. If he is going to work on it, he bloody well will do it too with everyone.
I didn’t think he would. But it’s literally what he told me he does…. But yes no surprise he watches porn.
Well of course he seems cheerful, he's a middle-aged creep who's bagged a girl half his age, and he will be able to use her naivete to his advantage, getting her to wait on him hand and foot like the bangmaid she is. This is not your fault, and your sister will discover (if she hasn't already) that she is better off without him. I feel sorry for all the kids, though, including the one who isn't born yet. Their dad is a complete asshole.
This guy that doesn’t pay attention to you enough has flat out told you he’s wanting to sleep with someone else but not be in an open relationship with you? He’s trying to break up with you, and he’s making a plan to sleep with Alyssa.
She has also been though a lot with you in 3 years and probably felt a bit trapped by the situation. She knows she would have looked very bad if she left when you were ill and that puts enormous pressure on her to 'stick by you' especially during quiet times when your lack of things in common felt more pronounced. She may also have felt like your carer and that is not a romantic or sexy situation.
You are still only 24 and that is too young to deem your life is over because you broke up with your first love. The idea you'll be alone forever is ridiculous unless you have actually decided to spend your life wallowing over her. It seems like your concern is more about her looks than anything and you not being handsome enough to find such a hard girl again. Ugly people date.
She was your safety net but you were matbe her prison. She deserves her freedom and you might need to re-learn your independance to become an equal partner again. That requires more than sitting home not looking at other girls. Good luck op
As a fellow dude who has been in this scenario a few times:
Nothing to worry about. I learned early on when I would approach a woman, and instead of giving me her number, she took mine, that I was never going to hear from her again.
And I have never been the kind of guy that if I approached a woman and she wasn't interested, that I would keep bothering her. I'd politely say no worries and move on, I can't fathom doing anything else. But, many men won't take a hint or straight up aggressive rejection and flat out terrify women.
The easy out for a woman in this situation is to politely take the guys number, delete it later (or save it for identification purposes ie.: Creepy guy at gym don't answer) and never contact him.
She did right by you by what she did with him directly, and did even better by being transparent. She's a good one bro!
Somehow I don't think there is enough Hail Mary's or Our Father's to atone for the grievious sin of pre-cheating. Hide them in the yard next door? In the attic/basement? Pretend to keep them after they trick-or-treat at the house on Hallow'een?
He should be a partner, not a parent role.
Please break off this abusive relationship!
I appreciate this so much. Our situations seem very similar and I can see my husband and I benefitting from a system like this. It sounds a lot like the 'Fair Play' method/game that we are going to start working on this weekend.
You make a good point about relaxing standards – that is something I've been working on this past year, and it has been very challenging finding that right balance of compromise. I guess finding out what our mutually acceptable compromises will be, aka figuring out what our system will be and maintaining it, will be the ultimate challenge of whether we make it or break it.
Thank you again for sharing your experience and insight. Much appreciated.