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She does. The only thing I paid was her hostel. Because I didn't want her to leave with her relatives at the time. I know I rushed I to things. I dated this girl a while back. 10 years ago. She was a different person back. I hoped she was still the same person but unfortunately she changed a lot.
I mean, what are you supposed to bring up and when? Especially if the other person doesn’t ask.
My SO operates on a strict Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy. He is 45 years old and isn’t naive. He simply does not believe there is any benefit to knowing my past. He just judges based on current behavior and that’s worked well for us over the last 5+ years.
“What if he changes” now there is a classic line people use all the time. People don’t change so deeply. He will say he will change but it’ll be temporary.
She needs to be more self sufficient- it sucks- but I think you should break up if anything. She needs to learn to provide for herself instead of just trying to attach herself to someone else
Nah, break the hell up with your current bf immediately. Stop letting him stay in a relationship with someone that does something that could traumatize him. If you have a “what if?” mindset (so basically, a grass is greener mindset), then you aren't ready for a committed relationship regardless. That mindset isnt going to just go away.
If you felt awful for cheating, you wouldn't be doing it. If you had compassion and respect for your bf, you wouldn't be doing it. Grow the fuck up and let your bf find someone that will actually treat him well.
As for going back with the ex, honestly, you sound like you shouldn't be in a relationship at all, and neither should he. You're both cheaters, and you both need to learn to work on yourselves before entering relationships. If you had a toxic/clashy relationship with him in general, why go back to him? Why even go back to him when he's a cheater as well lol? Wouldn't you guys just cheat on each other the moment you have any kind of issues or outside interest?
Work on your impulse control. You really need it. If you have any kind of empathy, you'd leave your bf as well. Even if you were to stop cheating with your ex, if you have a problem with abstaining from sex (which I dont know why youd agree to if you literally struggle with it), you're likely just going to cheat with someone else who can provide sexual gratification. Genuinely just leave and let your damn bf find happiness with someone a million times better.
she needs time to wallow and grieve. This is probably her first big loss of life at her age.
I don't think you'll lose her. Just be with her. Even if you don't talk just sit with her. She will appreciate it. When you see her again give her a big bear hug and let her know you care. Her feelings about the loss do not mean she doesn't care for you.
You sound like a well balanced young man. You got this.
Your crappy family clearly feels helpless in this situation. To try and regain some control over this they're lashing out at the one who introduced him into their lives. This is undoubtedly an easier thing to put the energy into, rather than helping your sister and the grandkids out of an abusive and potentially lethal situation.
Curious about what other favoritism they have going on with your sister to be honest.
My mother tried to wait until my brother and I were grown to leave. It literally nearly killed her, she’s lucky to still be alive. My brother is low contact with both of them, because he can’t forgive her for staying. I believed that she was horribly homophobic for years because she stayed with my father, and it has meant that I don’t trust her with a huge part of my life.
Get out now, get out early. He will never change enough to be a healthy partner, and your children need at least one supportive parent. You can’t be that for them in this relationship.
I’m all for second chances in a lot of situations. He had his chance to step up for you. He didn’t. He would have if he wanted to. He lead you to believe he did want to. But he didn’t. What’s different now? This man fucked up his second chance too much. He doesn’t deserve a third chance. Everything is and will always be about him and what he wants.
She does. The only thing I paid was her hostel. Because I didn't want her to leave with her relatives at the time. I know I rushed I to things. I dated this girl a while back. 10 years ago. She was a different person back. I hoped she was still the same person but unfortunately she changed a lot.
The dog I grew up with just passed away a few days ago. I’m so sorry for your loss and I wish healing for you during this time
If a woman said that to me after 3 dates I'd be too suspicious to even waste any of my time on her, especially if she's still “celibate”
I mean, what are you supposed to bring up and when? Especially if the other person doesn’t ask.
My SO operates on a strict Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy. He is 45 years old and isn’t naive. He simply does not believe there is any benefit to knowing my past. He just judges based on current behavior and that’s worked well for us over the last 5+ years.
Playing games is fine. Hanging out, even live!, one on one reaches weird territory, fast.
The fact that this man wants to meet irl is the reddest of flags.
“What if he changes” now there is a classic line people use all the time. People don’t change so deeply. He will say he will change but it’ll be temporary.
She needs to be more self sufficient- it sucks- but I think you should break up if anything. She needs to learn to provide for herself instead of just trying to attach herself to someone else
Nah, break the hell up with your current bf immediately. Stop letting him stay in a relationship with someone that does something that could traumatize him. If you have a “what if?” mindset (so basically, a grass is greener mindset), then you aren't ready for a committed relationship regardless. That mindset isnt going to just go away.
If you felt awful for cheating, you wouldn't be doing it. If you had compassion and respect for your bf, you wouldn't be doing it. Grow the fuck up and let your bf find someone that will actually treat him well.
As for going back with the ex, honestly, you sound like you shouldn't be in a relationship at all, and neither should he. You're both cheaters, and you both need to learn to work on yourselves before entering relationships. If you had a toxic/clashy relationship with him in general, why go back to him? Why even go back to him when he's a cheater as well lol? Wouldn't you guys just cheat on each other the moment you have any kind of issues or outside interest?
Work on your impulse control. You really need it. If you have any kind of empathy, you'd leave your bf as well. Even if you were to stop cheating with your ex, if you have a problem with abstaining from sex (which I dont know why youd agree to if you literally struggle with it), you're likely just going to cheat with someone else who can provide sexual gratification. Genuinely just leave and let your damn bf find happiness with someone a million times better.
i was asking a question not giving you feedback.
You were being an ass and now it’s his fault. Heterosexual relationships in a nutshell.
Why on earth would you fight a guy that your mom was sleeping with lol
she needs time to wallow and grieve. This is probably her first big loss of life at her age.
I don't think you'll lose her. Just be with her. Even if you don't talk just sit with her. She will appreciate it. When you see her again give her a big bear hug and let her know you care. Her feelings about the loss do not mean she doesn't care for you.
You sound like a well balanced young man. You got this.
Jumping in to throw in this:
Your crappy family clearly feels helpless in this situation. To try and regain some control over this they're lashing out at the one who introduced him into their lives. This is undoubtedly an easier thing to put the energy into, rather than helping your sister and the grandkids out of an abusive and potentially lethal situation.
Curious about what other favoritism they have going on with your sister to be honest.
My mother tried to wait until my brother and I were grown to leave. It literally nearly killed her, she’s lucky to still be alive. My brother is low contact with both of them, because he can’t forgive her for staying. I believed that she was horribly homophobic for years because she stayed with my father, and it has meant that I don’t trust her with a huge part of my life.
Get out now, get out early. He will never change enough to be a healthy partner, and your children need at least one supportive parent. You can’t be that for them in this relationship.
I’m all for second chances in a lot of situations. He had his chance to step up for you. He didn’t. He would have if he wanted to. He lead you to believe he did want to. But he didn’t. What’s different now? This man fucked up his second chance too much. He doesn’t deserve a third chance. Everything is and will always be about him and what he wants.
He’s a creep,ya