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You offered to pay half and he said you don't have to, so you're upset he wasn't super enthusiastic, even though paying half was your idea? You've made your own problem here.
LMFAO…
If you believe that bullshit I feel sorry for you. Your “girl” was open to fucking another dude, plain and simple. If the opportunity arose, she was gonna take it.
Leave her immediately.
Lol so do I. If my partner/friends complimented me on my “evil eyes,” I would take it as a compliment.
So I think you just go very low contact with your mom.
Of course you need to adjust and try to get back to “normal” but it is not the same normal, it is a new normal.
As a stranger, let me say that you are doing great. You are taking your diagnosis seriously and getting all the medical help you can. You are applying for all the benefits you can for that, and it is amazing that you have people in your life who can help you financially and emotionally. And it is okay to need that help and to accept it! Often times, applications for yourself can feel hot and overwhelming, even though if a friend asked you to fill it out, you could do it easily. Lean on your people!
And your mom has made it clear she is not one of your people. She may be in denial, she may just lack empathy, that is for her to figure out. You focus on yourself.
Having seen a few friends deal with long term illnesses, you have to first accept that things will be different, and that isn't easy, but not accepting it and just being blind to it only makes it worse. So my optimism is to tell you that things will get better. You are doing all the right things, including relying on people who can and are willing to help you, and things will improve as long as you keep on the path you are on-accepting your limitations, accepting help, adjusting, and then once you have some of this stuff settled, you can think about the next set of adjustments and progress.
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I totally know what you mean I have struggled with this too
If you both agree to this and abide by this and happy with this arrangement, you should not care about what other people say. BUT, it is correct that this is quite controlling and signals that, you don’t trust each other.
There is a lot for you to sit down and talk about with your Husband.
Is there literally nobody else close to her that can support her? Are there any services available or help for her to on-line without this inarguably huge move etc?
First of all – well he's your Husband and as you live! together, you 100% need to talk about this and not just say “yes”. Nail down what you're both happy and comfortable with, from the length of time that she'll be staying as well as ensuring there is a plan in place to get her on her own feet, otherwise this could become a nightmare to, in the nicest way possible “remove” her in a good way.
Secondly – unless you have a really big house with an annex for her, it's safe to say that this is going to drastically alter your dynamics at home. There'll be getting woken up by the noise, not having peace & quiet for a while and generally all the things that come with sharing your home with not just another person, but also a baby.
It should go without saying also that if you're trying to have a baby as well this is going to potentially make life very hot for you to then have your own baby if this goes on long enough.
How is your Sister going to on-line? Will she work? How? How will finances be handled for all her needs and if the baby needs further medical care for any reason? Will she have access to other support and help if she moves in with you?
Who'll be taking care of childcare if she does find work? How will this affect your husband and you? What if she doesn't want to move out?
There are some very real and massive implications here to be considered and thought of well in advance of a quick “yes” based on being helpful without considerations.
Tell her to bugger off or get over it
The classic thought is that no woman wants to know that her man is having sex with another woman. If she is truly asexual, not just not turned on by you, then it really is very loving and sacrificing to overcome that resistance to see that your needs are met. Relationships are too complicated to do the complete black and white view. My thoughts on that have changed dramatically over years of observation. Some things remain absolute, but others not so much.
So that's the answer? Women should just sacrifice everything so the kids they don't even have yet can be financially comfortable?
Or, get this, women (and men) can both wait longer to marry, see the world or whatever if they want, take their time choosing a compatible partner, and then have kids, and they'll probably both be better off financially by then anyway.
Hold on.
You TEXTED your husband this?
Why aren’t you two talking like human beings IN PERSON over something that shouldn’t be discussed via cold text?
Besides bringing in your income together what the hell else does the husband do? Does he even tell you thank you for cleaning the house or cooking dinner for you two? Has he ever spontaneously told you that he’s grateful to be a part of your life?
Have you said any of these things to him? Have you guys simply just held each other’s hands without saying anything?
Relationships/marriages are a two way street and all he’s listing are semantic bullshit. Him caring more about a clean home than your feelings is what makes me angry for you. Especially when you say he’s aware of your bouts of depression.
Why not pick up a hobby while you’re home? Surely it doesn’t take you ALL DAY to clean the house.
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Well. You’re the one who has to on-line with him. Doesn’t sound like a safe environment though. And you have considerable contempt for him.
If I were you, I would calculate the exact dollar amount that is needed every month to cover your expenses without him and figure out a way to raise the money.
I would break up with him, ask him to move out, and then find a new roommate. Even if it’s a stranger in need of a month to month living situation. I’d also look for a side job too. It’s only temporary until your father’s estate is settled.
This situation is just untenable and is only going to get worse. It’s not worth the money.
Personally I wouldn’t accept it.
Giving oral and having sex is so personal.
My boyfriend asks my permission if he wants to watch porn during sex and if he notices I’m not into it he turns it off immediately.
Does your boyfriend care about your feelings?
Run away from him rn. Just block him and never look back.
he is a jackass! thats why. I bet his is not even a 5/10. just because he is a doctor women/gold-diggers wants him & he is oblivious to it as its an ego booster so he cheated. what a prick!!
How the hell would you hurt the kids she did by cheating on you this is not yours to fix she has to on-line with that with the kids…move on brother…you have been had
Handing out your number and pursuing women isn't something a guy who is being sexually exclusive would do. Are you sure you're exclusive?
He knows you love him, so why won't he put a label on the relationship?
I would discuss what exactly it is that you want, figure out what his hangups are that keep him from labeling you his girlfriend, and if he's not willing to give you what you want, don't bother pursuing this.
Let him read this