It isn't easy and it isn't nice to be the one doing the hurting, but consider that you are probably limiting the damaging. Good luck to you and the young lady.
While I am sorry that's you got scared in the situation. Like most people posted here, you found out the strength of your man. I think that when he let you go quickly when you freaked out, is it good sign that he wasn't going to take it further. I suggest you continue to play fight, it's kind of just like role-playing. But what you have to have when you do that, is it time out word. A word that when spoken, you have to shut down the role play. Pick like, peanut butter. Just something that when either one of you yell out a word, whatever you're doing has to stop. I don't think he intentionally meant to endanger your safety. All good relationships have to have good communication. Please talk to him, and reset, and go have fun. That's what a relationship is about. Good luck
When my grandfather passed, my grandmother never wanted anyone else in the same way, he was her one and only, but she had a friend, who also lost his wife, they remained the best of friends until the end for him.
After 53 years with your wife, I hope you find, at a minimum, that friendship again because a successful relationship is built on a strong friendship.
So he's playing the whole turn it around to blame you game so that he can do what he wants in the future and you won't say shit in order to not upset him. He should be the one feeling shame for his actions. If he can't respect your boundaries, he's not worth much.
It’s a can of worms being opened. There have been multiple posts where a partner gets cheated on, they sweep it under the rug, is willing to participate/have their partner meet someone else and then when it happens, they regret it. Wow, who could have seen that coming? Only people with self respect.
Also I'm not dumb I'm socially stunted with many illnesses. I'm sorry
It isn't easy and it isn't nice to be the one doing the hurting, but consider that you are probably limiting the damaging. Good luck to you and the young lady.
I feel like he's definitely an edge case. Majority of men, unless they're conservatives, aren't like that
While I am sorry that's you got scared in the situation. Like most people posted here, you found out the strength of your man. I think that when he let you go quickly when you freaked out, is it good sign that he wasn't going to take it further. I suggest you continue to play fight, it's kind of just like role-playing. But what you have to have when you do that, is it time out word. A word that when spoken, you have to shut down the role play. Pick like, peanut butter. Just something that when either one of you yell out a word, whatever you're doing has to stop. I don't think he intentionally meant to endanger your safety. All good relationships have to have good communication. Please talk to him, and reset, and go have fun. That's what a relationship is about. Good luck
This made me tear up.
When my grandfather passed, my grandmother never wanted anyone else in the same way, he was her one and only, but she had a friend, who also lost his wife, they remained the best of friends until the end for him.
After 53 years with your wife, I hope you find, at a minimum, that friendship again because a successful relationship is built on a strong friendship.
Again, I have yet to understand where you are seeing the guilt trip? Especially since I know I would never want that!
Wrote it on a 34in ultrawide. It wasn't so massive then. But on the mobile app, it definitely is.
Absolute joke we cant protect our families in our own house without worrying about getting charged. Its the same way here in Canada
Im glad you're over, no one should waste their time on an insecure prick like you lmao
My mother is the same way. 9/10, it’s a control thing. The last thing a control freak parent will do is kick their kid out. Why?
They lose control over them.
So he's playing the whole turn it around to blame you game so that he can do what he wants in the future and you won't say shit in order to not upset him. He should be the one feeling shame for his actions. If he can't respect your boundaries, he's not worth much.
It’s a can of worms being opened. There have been multiple posts where a partner gets cheated on, they sweep it under the rug, is willing to participate/have their partner meet someone else and then when it happens, they regret it. Wow, who could have seen that coming? Only people with self respect.