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She and I had discussed the possibility of me ‘sharing’ her with another guy before, or her getting a guy worked up somehow.
Also, it was not appropriate for him to take his dick out.
She went to a club with him and one of his friends. The friend had booked a hotel suite for the night, for the three of them.
You aren't going to be able to control this, OP. If you want your girlfriend to fuck other people, and she does, you got what you asked for. Expecting her to go right up to the edge and not go over is kind of absurd.
If he's already in therapy for his gambling addiction but lies to the therapist's face and continues to do it… I'm sorry, I'm not sure there's much else you can do. He needs to make real effort towards positive change but all his effort seems to be going toward finding creative ways of lying to everyone involved.
All I can say is, the longer you stay in this mess, the worse it's going to become. You have to protect yourself because as soon as he hits rock bottom financially, your credit and bank accounts will start to look real juicy. And given his track record of lying and manipulating, he most certainly will go that far.
So.. if she kisses a girl and thinks she likes that, what's she going to do then? Keep dating you, or ask to sleep with a woman to be sure?
I'm all for people figuring out who they are. They don't do that while in a committed monogamous relationship though. And even if she is bisexual, if her goal is to stay with you, she really doesn't need to go be physical with someone else.
If she absolutely wants to go experiment, tell her she can only do so as a single woman. I'd never ask this of any man.
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I think you’re right, I was so happy when he asked and how I’m feeling trapped so that should’ve been the first sign to leave
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You’d think people can’t possibly be this dumb, but here we are.
What? That nurse needs to go back to med school. It can absolutely lie dormant with no symptoms for years in some people.
She and I had discussed the possibility of me ‘sharing’ her with another guy before, or her getting a guy worked up somehow.
Also, it was not appropriate for him to take his dick out.
She went to a club with him and one of his friends. The friend had booked a hotel suite for the night, for the three of them.
You aren't going to be able to control this, OP. If you want your girlfriend to fuck other people, and she does, you got what you asked for. Expecting her to go right up to the edge and not go over is kind of absurd.
If he's already in therapy for his gambling addiction but lies to the therapist's face and continues to do it… I'm sorry, I'm not sure there's much else you can do. He needs to make real effort towards positive change but all his effort seems to be going toward finding creative ways of lying to everyone involved.
All I can say is, the longer you stay in this mess, the worse it's going to become. You have to protect yourself because as soon as he hits rock bottom financially, your credit and bank accounts will start to look real juicy. And given his track record of lying and manipulating, he most certainly will go that far.
So.. if she kisses a girl and thinks she likes that, what's she going to do then? Keep dating you, or ask to sleep with a woman to be sure?
I'm all for people figuring out who they are. They don't do that while in a committed monogamous relationship though. And even if she is bisexual, if her goal is to stay with you, she really doesn't need to go be physical with someone else.
If she absolutely wants to go experiment, tell her she can only do so as a single woman. I'd never ask this of any man.
Jesus ghost hun, he’s already treating u as a disposable back up option