It is legal, but not morally right, because you have a stablished career and she is starting her adult life, which is a huge power in balance during a relationship. Thank God you have low sex drive and she will get bored of you.
She told me she’s planning on getting me multiple gifts over time, so that’s really sweet.
Friend, let's be real here – in todays world of Amazon, Etsy and more there's very little excuse to say you “didn't have time”, but even then to plan ahead and just get a bathrobe only is still bad.
I'm pretty sure most of those with partners will agree – Birthdays etc you kinda know are coming and you plan accordingly. That she hasn't even done this and is “busy with work” says something.
You don't give gifts “over time”, you do them on the day or their meaning is diluted to being pointless and effortless unless there's a damn good reason.
She’ll make comments about me getting her gifts being the bare minimum and my job as her bf
That's garbage. Your “job” as a partner is to be a good partner – that doesn't mean you need to get her gifts, she just wants gifts. How often to you get gifts in return? This sounds like a very one-sided relationship so far given you spent over $500+ and she's barely spent $30 on you.
Bottom line is if you're happy with this arrangement not being equal? You do you – but from the outside with the info in your original post, this reads as unbalanced and you're being taken for anything you'll give.
Keep your own beliefs. Honestly, I think you should get your own place as he sounds very controlling. This is not okay and worries me.
It’s my apartment. I’d have to push/kick him out essentially/:
Fuck these stupid religions Jesus Christ! ?
It is legal, but not morally right, because you have a stablished career and she is starting her adult life, which is a huge power in balance during a relationship. Thank God you have low sex drive and she will get bored of you.
Winner how late would react to that black dude cosplaying Luke Skywalker from a couple weeks ago? Why can't people just be cool?
Adult protective services!!
You chose to feel objectified. He bought you lingerie he found sexy. There’s no difference between that and any other lingerie model.
She told me she’s planning on getting me multiple gifts over time, so that’s really sweet.
Friend, let's be real here – in todays world of Amazon, Etsy and more there's very little excuse to say you “didn't have time”, but even then to plan ahead and just get a bathrobe only is still bad.
I'm pretty sure most of those with partners will agree – Birthdays etc you kinda know are coming and you plan accordingly. That she hasn't even done this and is “busy with work” says something.
You don't give gifts “over time”, you do them on the day or their meaning is diluted to being pointless and effortless unless there's a damn good reason.
She’ll make comments about me getting her gifts being the bare minimum and my job as her bf
That's garbage. Your “job” as a partner is to be a good partner – that doesn't mean you need to get her gifts, she just wants gifts. How often to you get gifts in return? This sounds like a very one-sided relationship so far given you spent over $500+ and she's barely spent $30 on you.
Bottom line is if you're happy with this arrangement not being equal? You do you – but from the outside with the info in your original post, this reads as unbalanced and you're being taken for anything you'll give.
Children arent cars To comparé them Thank god your wife doesnt want kids cuz y'all arent prépared
Anon message on discord wth a burner account. And maybe to all his friends, family, work.
One of the few situations where I'd say go all in.
Maybe he took the other week off because that's when he and his wife are taking the kids on spring break vacation
I do feel blessed to have him, I love him a lot