He knows it isn’t ok, the whole world knows it isn’t ok, my cat knows it isn’t ok. How much has he gaslit you? Messed with your head? Come on, stop doubting yourself. You know what he did, he knows, your 18 year old sister knows, and your mum knows. Trying to act innocent or reframe it won’t cut it. Get some individual counselling. You need help. I’m so sorry.
I agree! And this was part of my request to my sister. I told her that if she wants to fuck these kinds of characters, then don't share that information with me. I don't think it's cute or cool.
If she just kept the app cuz you didnt have a convo, she wouldnt have felt the need to open it and alter her bio.
Ive dated a girl in the past who had Tinder on her phone 4 months after we had the exclusivity talk. The number of notifications changed in the 4 months. Plus she lied about keeping in touch with her exes. And she kept pics of her exes on her phone. I still didnt wanna believe it. What I learned from that experience is to always trust your gut.
Honey, you do not salvage. You get your car back and recognize that the reason a 26 year old is dating an 18 year old college student is because nobody that is their age would deal with their bullshit, and you’re easy to control. Case in point her taking YOUR car.
I totally agree with you. In fact this is almost exactly what she said to me. I tried to explain this to the boys and I was hit with “bro, even girls do this. It’s not like we’re cheating. It’s just entertainment. Sometimes I share this stuff with my wife as well and we have a laugh. When you’re secure in your relationship, this stuff doesn’t matter”
i will repeat. your Bf is telling trying to tel you something and for some reason you refuses to acknowledge it. you can ask “why was the sudden change in attitude?” all you want. the problem and even your tone in your post is as clear as day. you thinks it is his job to do whatever make you happy. BUT clearly there is an underlining issue. i can only guess what they are. and he is telling them to you. pay attention already.
… if not, you can msg me when he dumps you and i will explain to you why he wasn’t happy in this relationship.
Sounds like an anxious attachment style, and also a lot of emotional repression. I would recommend you encourage him to see a therapist. Aside from that, it’s a sign he loves and feels comfortable with you that he’s able to blow like that (not a lot of men can).
He knows it isn’t ok, the whole world knows it isn’t ok, my cat knows it isn’t ok. How much has he gaslit you? Messed with your head? Come on, stop doubting yourself. You know what he did, he knows, your 18 year old sister knows, and your mum knows. Trying to act innocent or reframe it won’t cut it. Get some individual counselling. You need help. I’m so sorry.
u/ThroRAx11 here put yourself in her headspace. You're being a coward.
I agree! And this was part of my request to my sister. I told her that if she wants to fuck these kinds of characters, then don't share that information with me. I don't think it's cute or cool.
It’s essentially an induction procesure
If she just kept the app cuz you didnt have a convo, she wouldnt have felt the need to open it and alter her bio.
Ive dated a girl in the past who had Tinder on her phone 4 months after we had the exclusivity talk. The number of notifications changed in the 4 months. Plus she lied about keeping in touch with her exes. And she kept pics of her exes on her phone. I still didnt wanna believe it. What I learned from that experience is to always trust your gut.
Tell him to fuck off, that's what you do.
Yikes man! What was her explanation?
That’s some pretty sociopathic stuff like others have said.
It sounds like you need to break up again and stay that way.
Honey, you do not salvage. You get your car back and recognize that the reason a 26 year old is dating an 18 year old college student is because nobody that is their age would deal with their bullshit, and you’re easy to control. Case in point her taking YOUR car.
I totally agree with you. In fact this is almost exactly what she said to me. I tried to explain this to the boys and I was hit with “bro, even girls do this. It’s not like we’re cheating. It’s just entertainment. Sometimes I share this stuff with my wife as well and we have a laugh. When you’re secure in your relationship, this stuff doesn’t matter”
80% of the population watches porn
A gathruple if you will
Whoops, so sorry. My reply was cut off
i will repeat. your Bf is telling trying to tel you something and for some reason you refuses to acknowledge it. you can ask “why was the sudden change in attitude?” all you want. the problem and even your tone in your post is as clear as day. you thinks it is his job to do whatever make you happy. BUT clearly there is an underlining issue. i can only guess what they are. and he is telling them to you. pay attention already.
… if not, you can msg me when he dumps you and i will explain to you why he wasn’t happy in this relationship.
Sounds like an anxious attachment style, and also a lot of emotional repression. I would recommend you encourage him to see a therapist. Aside from that, it’s a sign he loves and feels comfortable with you that he’s able to blow like that (not a lot of men can).