You are kind to say that, but I will never find anyone like her. We've known each other a long time. We were good friends before we got together. The thought of finding someone else is just… completely unfathomable to me. She was my only chance of happiness.
How in the world is intentionally becoming the second choice what you “need”? You’re going to welcome her with open arms once she’s had her fun with someone else and got it out of her system? I’m so lost on how you will repair your marriage after your wife decides the grass wasn’t greener. But good luck with that plan.
Barring some traumatic circumstances, I'd be curious if your attitude changes. Because honestly when I was in my early 20s (enjoy it, you've only got a year left to be able to say/be called that lol) I think I probably felt more like you do. Now that I'm just slightly SLIGHTLY older, I've come back to very much appreciating my mothers opinion. For the most part, they really do want the best for you and that's the source of everything (a good mom) does. Even if it feels like overbearing controlling micromanaging nonsense lol
Together 7 years and he could keep his d**k in his pants for 4 months while you were long distance. Maybe you don't want to brake up with him now, but atleast do it when he cheats on you the second (or third what do we know) time…….
Be careful. You are getting ready to enter a marriage that will entwine your financial and legal life with someone whose values are fundamentally different than yours.
Tbh, it sounds like you're being pretty immature about this. Did you ask him to elaborate? Does he think frogs are cute? What about you looked like a frog? Its such a non-issue, it does seem like you're being incredibly sensitive.
Maybe he's just not great with words. Don't assume malicious intent just because you took it a certain way.
You are kind to say that, but I will never find anyone like her. We've known each other a long time. We were good friends before we got together. The thought of finding someone else is just… completely unfathomable to me. She was my only chance of happiness.
i mean what did you honestly expect he’s a single parent and she’s a toddler
How in the world is intentionally becoming the second choice what you “need”? You’re going to welcome her with open arms once she’s had her fun with someone else and got it out of her system? I’m so lost on how you will repair your marriage after your wife decides the grass wasn’t greener. But good luck with that plan.
Everyone here is saying this. What am I missing?! How often to cheaters repeat their actions?! He cheated on me with men too but says he’s straight
Barring some traumatic circumstances, I'd be curious if your attitude changes. Because honestly when I was in my early 20s (enjoy it, you've only got a year left to be able to say/be called that lol) I think I probably felt more like you do. Now that I'm just slightly SLIGHTLY older, I've come back to very much appreciating my mothers opinion. For the most part, they really do want the best for you and that's the source of everything (a good mom) does. Even if it feels like overbearing controlling micromanaging nonsense lol
What advice are you looking for?
How manipulative 🙁 I’m sorry.
Your right mate. I've not had any issues. If they say no just move on. It's no big issue.
Together 7 years and he could keep his d**k in his pants for 4 months while you were long distance. Maybe you don't want to brake up with him now, but atleast do it when he cheats on you the second (or third what do we know) time…….
So his income difference from you is gonna be even bigger then. And he still wants 50/50. Wow. The entitlement on this guy.
Block all of them. There is better guys out there. He is still a child.
Be careful. You are getting ready to enter a marriage that will entwine your financial and legal life with someone whose values are fundamentally different than yours.
Tbh, it sounds like you're being pretty immature about this. Did you ask him to elaborate? Does he think frogs are cute? What about you looked like a frog? Its such a non-issue, it does seem like you're being incredibly sensitive.
Maybe he's just not great with words. Don't assume malicious intent just because you took it a certain way.
Actually follow through with the break up this time