uh, i did mention that i sent a message explaining how he hurt me. i wrote that despite knowing about this fear (if want to know more about it, read another comment i made, maybe thus clears it up a little) he still made that comment and that he hurt me like this.
I'm pleasently surprised by the comment section. People usually forget about my body my choice when the vasectomy conversation comes up. Good on you today reddit for being consistent with your idéology.
Daisy's past relationships have biased her opinion of Colin so take her opinion of him with a grain of salt. She needs a lot of therapy to get over all of her baggage. Don't go to her for relationship advice. Especially since she turned on you for not taking her advice. Instead when the opportunities present themselves suggest that she might benefit from therapy. Odds are at some point, you'll have to choose your relationship over her friendship.
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Ok so you don't want to end the relationship, you also don't want to open it up.
She doesn't want to get mental health.
Why is she waiting until March to switch her birth control? Did she have the shot or an implant?
Have you thought about sex toys for self care? That way you meet your needs , but not with another person.
They have all kinds of affordable self care toys out now.
But seriously if after March things don't change then you know it's not the birth control, and she either needs therapy and work on the issue or you need to leave if sex is something you need
The fact that you are asking here is a sign of trouble. You just ask her to grab coffee or something, play it cool, make sure you have your life in order, and things will work out in the end
Mixed signals are a no. Your confusion tells you everything you need to know. Someone who genuinely likes/loves/wants to be with you will make it known.
You’re a convenience to this guy. He doesn’t want to spend any valuable time or money on you. Time to move on.
She's in love and an idiot. We've all made stupid decisions based on love, and I can only hope she doesn't end up following through on it, cause OP is as unsupportive of her as the friend and Sarah are.
And nah, you really don't get it at all if you think she's “butthurt” and “jelly”. You sound as toxic as all the other people in this story tbh.
Never pretend to be interested in someone you aren’t. Be you. Are you really wanting to get revenge? Not a good idea. Not nice. Is that who you want to be? He’s never going to believe you weren’t interested. I don’t believe it. Otherwise you wouldn’t have such strong feelings about feeling rejected. Everyone gets rejected romantically in their life. Move on. You are giving him a lot of power which I don’t think is what you want.
How old is this child? Even more importantly, is your bf even disciplining this child when he does things like this? If so, it doesn’t seem like it’s at all effective. This behavior is beyond normal, this child needs a lot of work and help. However, you are more than justified parting ways over all this. It isn’t what you signed up for and your bf tricked you into the relationship by hiding him.
you have bigger problems then hair. starting with What the hell is a 45 year old man doing with a woman 14 years younger then her, on top of trying to change her into his ex…
You get a red flag! you get a red flag! You all get a red flag!!!!
uh, i did mention that i sent a message explaining how he hurt me. i wrote that despite knowing about this fear (if want to know more about it, read another comment i made, maybe thus clears it up a little) he still made that comment and that he hurt me like this.
Here is how you break up. You leave and go get a police escort to get your things if you online with him. Your soon-to-be ex is a creep!
I'm pleasently surprised by the comment section. People usually forget about my body my choice when the vasectomy conversation comes up. Good on you today reddit for being consistent with your idéology.
Daisy's past relationships have biased her opinion of Colin so take her opinion of him with a grain of salt. She needs a lot of therapy to get over all of her baggage. Don't go to her for relationship advice. Especially since she turned on you for not taking her advice. Instead when the opportunities present themselves suggest that she might benefit from therapy. Odds are at some point, you'll have to choose your relationship over her friendship.
Eat lots of fruit! And then fuck
34? Look, you are an adult and as such can do what you want, but that's not normal and likely not healthy.
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Ok so you don't want to end the relationship, you also don't want to open it up.
She doesn't want to get mental health.
Why is she waiting until March to switch her birth control? Did she have the shot or an implant?
Have you thought about sex toys for self care? That way you meet your needs , but not with another person.
They have all kinds of affordable self care toys out now.
But seriously if after March things don't change then you know it's not the birth control, and she either needs therapy and work on the issue or you need to leave if sex is something you need
The fact that you are asking here is a sign of trouble. You just ask her to grab coffee or something, play it cool, make sure you have your life in order, and things will work out in the end
It was literally randomly said. We weren’t having a conversation or anything. Sorry there isn’t much context, but it is what it is. ?♀️
Mixed signals are a no. Your confusion tells you everything you need to know. Someone who genuinely likes/loves/wants to be with you will make it known.
You’re a convenience to this guy. He doesn’t want to spend any valuable time or money on you. Time to move on.
Right, she can, but that's leaving her with zero savings/fun time/money. That's why I suggested to downsize
She's in love and an idiot. We've all made stupid decisions based on love, and I can only hope she doesn't end up following through on it, cause OP is as unsupportive of her as the friend and Sarah are.
And nah, you really don't get it at all if you think she's “butthurt” and “jelly”. You sound as toxic as all the other people in this story tbh.
Never pretend to be interested in someone you aren’t. Be you. Are you really wanting to get revenge? Not a good idea. Not nice. Is that who you want to be? He’s never going to believe you weren’t interested. I don’t believe it. Otherwise you wouldn’t have such strong feelings about feeling rejected. Everyone gets rejected romantically in their life. Move on. You are giving him a lot of power which I don’t think is what you want.
My advice would be to block him, have your locks changed if he has a key and report him for harassment if he shows up at your house.
He doesn’t get to simply ignore your breakup and force you to remain with him. It doesn’t have to be an intense fight.
You gave him ways to work it out with you, and he chose not to. That's really all you need to know.
How old is this child? Even more importantly, is your bf even disciplining this child when he does things like this? If so, it doesn’t seem like it’s at all effective. This behavior is beyond normal, this child needs a lot of work and help. However, you are more than justified parting ways over all this. It isn’t what you signed up for and your bf tricked you into the relationship by hiding him.
you have bigger problems then hair. starting with What the hell is a 45 year old man doing with a woman 14 years younger then her, on top of trying to change her into his ex…
You get a red flag! you get a red flag! You all get a red flag!!!!