Did this all start after she started taking birth control? In long-term relationships, you might acquire some unhealthy habit from your partner, but not enough that would make you go like “hey, you are becoming worst than me.” My fiance switched birth control once and her persona changed by a lot. I'm a guy and don't want to assume is due to birth control, but if the changes happened after taking meds, that could be the reason, since she also mentions that she also thinks it could be the birth control. Anyways, to answer your question, no, is not you, but try to be more positive and be more like her 🙂
All those likes on that comment had me ?. What the hell is a chat gonna do that him just not being mental isn’t? This shouldn’t even be a thing going on.
I think you got a lot of advice yesterday all saying the same things. This is definitely cheating – there’s no way that your wife went along with this for months without consent and didn’t say anything UNTIL she found out she wasn’t the only one. Her sudden confession just sounds like jealousy that she wasn’t his one and only- and she found a convenient lie to tell to cover her tracks. She was cheating on you, I HIGHLY doubt that anything non-consensual happened. Obviously her work has avenues that she could have explored to get him fired immediately, but she decided to keep her mouth shut? Common. Open your eyes. It’s obvious that she’s lying to you.
She can get food from other sources. You maybe should suggest dinner nights where you comebine your food together or take turns sharing the cooking duties.
You are gonna have to speak up for yourself but in a nice way.
Okay, you can stop acting stupid now and stop trolling now. There is absolutely no way that you don’t know what it means to be called a troll on the internet, can honestly think someone misspelling troll as “trill” was referring to Star Trek, not know that “Life finds a way” was said by Jeff Goldblum’s character Dr. Ian Malcom in the movie Jurassic Park, and think that anyone would believe that you would have a single “friend” offering to “boycott” this wedding for you, given the way you’ve been acting and stealing money they specifically gave for this specific bride. And your claims of writing a memoir for your PHd? No. You’re an internet troll and you need to get a life.
Wow really? That's her response? She has absolutely no sympathy for you. In situations like this you support your partner, not dismiss their feelings. Your gf is a bitch and you should dump her.
OP, this situation is deeply toxic. I have been in a similar relationship, and without him working on himself it will not get better. It’s not healthy for you, and his violent reactions will only escalate. Please consider choosing your own wellbeing over these unhealthy repeating patterns.
This man needs therapy, as soon as humanly possible. It’s not your fault at all, he consented and then regrets it. How were you supposed to know that he would regret it later on?
Oh, I'm definitely fair to myself. I've been through a lot in my life, and have DID, so there are times when life gets messy and frustrating. We have a wonderful relationship, but we have our ups and downs like anyone else. We both take good care of each other, and recognize that having our privacy for venting is essential to that.
Not really sure why you're even asking this here op tbh
Did this all start after she started taking birth control? In long-term relationships, you might acquire some unhealthy habit from your partner, but not enough that would make you go like “hey, you are becoming worst than me.” My fiance switched birth control once and her persona changed by a lot. I'm a guy and don't want to assume is due to birth control, but if the changes happened after taking meds, that could be the reason, since she also mentions that she also thinks it could be the birth control. Anyways, to answer your question, no, is not you, but try to be more positive and be more like her 🙂
All those likes on that comment had me ?. What the hell is a chat gonna do that him just not being mental isn’t? This shouldn’t even be a thing going on.
So you were patient with him and understanding but he is not returning the favour.
I think you got a lot of advice yesterday all saying the same things. This is definitely cheating – there’s no way that your wife went along with this for months without consent and didn’t say anything UNTIL she found out she wasn’t the only one. Her sudden confession just sounds like jealousy that she wasn’t his one and only- and she found a convenient lie to tell to cover her tracks. She was cheating on you, I HIGHLY doubt that anything non-consensual happened. Obviously her work has avenues that she could have explored to get him fired immediately, but she decided to keep her mouth shut? Common. Open your eyes. It’s obvious that she’s lying to you.
Almost 3! I was 18 🙂
She can get food from other sources. You maybe should suggest dinner nights where you comebine your food together or take turns sharing the cooking duties.
You are gonna have to speak up for yourself but in a nice way.
She's wrong for not telling OP about the sexual history, that's about it.
And yet she has asked him not to tell her. So he should not tell her.
Okay, you can stop acting stupid now and stop trolling now. There is absolutely no way that you don’t know what it means to be called a troll on the internet, can honestly think someone misspelling troll as “trill” was referring to Star Trek, not know that “Life finds a way” was said by Jeff Goldblum’s character Dr. Ian Malcom in the movie Jurassic Park, and think that anyone would believe that you would have a single “friend” offering to “boycott” this wedding for you, given the way you’ve been acting and stealing money they specifically gave for this specific bride. And your claims of writing a memoir for your PHd? No. You’re an internet troll and you need to get a life.
Is he taking medicine and or seeing a therapist over his anxiety?
You also have consider that he’s catfishing you. That’s sadly happens all the time.
First thing. Do not buy a house with someone you are not married to.
Second, do not go into debt for someone who can’t understand financials. You should not be 50/50 if you are living together.
Wow really? That's her response? She has absolutely no sympathy for you. In situations like this you support your partner, not dismiss their feelings. Your gf is a bitch and you should dump her.
IIRC, the sister did cheat with him. Far as I'm concerned they deserve each other.
INFO
did you tell him “no” specifically, or did you just tell him “you were way too drunk”. did you say, i dont want it, or no?
I'd choose my cats over my husband, sorry hun
OP, this situation is deeply toxic. I have been in a similar relationship, and without him working on himself it will not get better. It’s not healthy for you, and his violent reactions will only escalate. Please consider choosing your own wellbeing over these unhealthy repeating patterns.
Party deez nuts
This man needs therapy, as soon as humanly possible. It’s not your fault at all, he consented and then regrets it. How were you supposed to know that he would regret it later on?
Right? I was about to comment. If she was waiting for marriage, it would be one thing, but “waiting for the right time” is not promising.
You are dumb
Oh, I'm definitely fair to myself. I've been through a lot in my life, and have DID, so there are times when life gets messy and frustrating. We have a wonderful relationship, but we have our ups and downs like anyone else. We both take good care of each other, and recognize that having our privacy for venting is essential to that.
We are in an open relationship for me. Husband suffered from cancer and sex became impossible. Not cheating.
Before you cheated?