I would say, “great happy you had a good time.” You're in a relationship, not you are mine you cannot go anywhere near other women or bars entrap relationship. And if you are like that, then your gf should run. If you don't trust your gf then thats a you issue. Nothing wrong with going out and having fun. As long as you are both trusting of one another. But it sounds like you don't like your gf to go to bars or get drunk, esp if their gay ones? And if that is a deal breaker, find a gf who dont go to bars or go out.
Not sure where you got this “calendar” rule, I always used the 7 days starting counting from the period day, but this is not a scientific way to avoid pregnancy. You could have gotten the “next day pill, just in case!
There's not much you can do except enjoy the relationship since you bombed the friendship for it. While he technically didn't have any claim on her, you knew how he felt and still decided to pursue it weeks later.
Doesn’t sound like your daughter speaks to you anymore maybe the way you determine her success is dependent on how well she treats a man (any and every man apparently)
People cheating has NOTHING to do with the person they were committed to. It has nothing to do with your worth. A person who doesn't cheat wouldn't cheat on a stone either. She's a peace of shit. Just look at all the celebrities who got cheated on. They have money, the looks, a lot of them are putting a lot for their family and yet someone will throw away their marriage and family for an Instagram influencer… continue therapy and i hope you can heal from this
I’m seeing this very much. Nothing I say or do will ever be able to break his own narrative of things. It’s really heartbreaking.
Thanks for all you’ve said, you’ve given me a lot to think about.
He decided to tell me at 2am he’s moving out tomorrow (we’d agreed this would happen but as far as I was aware he was still looking). I hope the space will be healing for us both
Thank you for your detailed response. Yes I know why I'm feeling like this, and how that behaviour triggered my dopamine uptake…I just chose to ignore everything because I wanted the status of a relationship. I like your suggestion on focusing on what he did, rather than the good parts…I'll definitely start doing that from today, and I'll look for that book too…thank you again. ?
So you are both immature… got it.
I would say, “great happy you had a good time.” You're in a relationship, not you are mine you cannot go anywhere near other women or bars entrap relationship. And if you are like that, then your gf should run. If you don't trust your gf then thats a you issue. Nothing wrong with going out and having fun. As long as you are both trusting of one another. But it sounds like you don't like your gf to go to bars or get drunk, esp if their gay ones? And if that is a deal breaker, find a gf who dont go to bars or go out.
So if you've been together five years and you have a three year old, you'd only been together about a year when you first got pregnant?
That's not a lot of time. How did you manage to travel the world and live! in different countries and run businesses together?
Yeah I'd dump his ass. Not only is he being disrespectful but he shows absolutely 0 effort in learning your native language.
Not sure where you got this “calendar” rule, I always used the 7 days starting counting from the period day, but this is not a scientific way to avoid pregnancy. You could have gotten the “next day pill, just in case!
There's not much you can do except enjoy the relationship since you bombed the friendship for it. While he technically didn't have any claim on her, you knew how he felt and still decided to pursue it weeks later.
Doesn’t sound like your daughter speaks to you anymore maybe the way you determine her success is dependent on how well she treats a man (any and every man apparently)
Well shit
And then she'll get pregnant and won't be allowed to have a male OB….
She’s not a sweetheart. She’s immature, rude, and disrespectful.
Well she insulted you for opening up to her. So clearly respect and communication aren't big priorities for her.
You do know I was talking about when we first started dating. ?
People cheating has NOTHING to do with the person they were committed to. It has nothing to do with your worth. A person who doesn't cheat wouldn't cheat on a stone either. She's a peace of shit. Just look at all the celebrities who got cheated on. They have money, the looks, a lot of them are putting a lot for their family and yet someone will throw away their marriage and family for an Instagram influencer… continue therapy and i hope you can heal from this
I’m seeing this very much. Nothing I say or do will ever be able to break his own narrative of things. It’s really heartbreaking.
Thanks for all you’ve said, you’ve given me a lot to think about.
He decided to tell me at 2am he’s moving out tomorrow (we’d agreed this would happen but as far as I was aware he was still looking). I hope the space will be healing for us both
Thank you for your detailed response. Yes I know why I'm feeling like this, and how that behaviour triggered my dopamine uptake…I just chose to ignore everything because I wanted the status of a relationship. I like your suggestion on focusing on what he did, rather than the good parts…I'll definitely start doing that from today, and I'll look for that book too…thank you again. ?
This is a very serious red flag.
Sounds like a man-child.