I have a huge issue with people in their 40s dating people in their 20s but I see that that is a very small issue considering everything else. Get out while you can.
I know not everyone celebrates Christmas, but it's kind of a big deal to most people in the western world and clearly a very big deal to OP, and the dude you're replying to acts like boyfriend missed a casual lunch date at McDonald's on a random Tuesday.
You two aren’t compatible. You’ve had religious experiences which he’ll never believe. You know there is a God. He knows there isn’t one. There’s no middle ground. He actually believes you are mentally ill.
We’ve talked about it a lot together. I’m attracted but we can’t date because of living in other countries. It’s more just wanting to help than anything, it sounds like it’s something he struggles with and I don’t know what to say.
He spends money he doesn’t have. He needs to get rid of his debt and not accrue more. Do not mix your finances with a person who is irresponsible with money, you’ll drown.
If you can afford it, buy a car that’s 2-3 years old with low-ish mileage. You’ll get almost all of the benefits of a new car at a fraction of the price; and never pay more for a car than your rent/mortgage.
He also found this out by snooping through her phone. He might not be the most trustworthy of individuals either if you ask me. I would never go through my Partner's phone, that too is a breach of trust. People do coparent without getting it on. I'm not saying she's completely innocent but I am saying there are valid reasons she might have hid this. Either way I am pretty sure this relationship needs to end because he can't trust her and she doesn't feel comfortable enough to tell him what's going on in her life with her ex and kids and co-parenting.
I have a huge issue with people in their 40s dating people in their 20s but I see that that is a very small issue considering everything else. Get out while you can.
It's like the equivalent of someone dating their drug dealer.
Is it stealing?
Yet another snowflake learns that sex comes with emotions. Grow up and stop deluding yourself.
I know not everyone celebrates Christmas, but it's kind of a big deal to most people in the western world and clearly a very big deal to OP, and the dude you're replying to acts like boyfriend missed a casual lunch date at McDonald's on a random Tuesday.
She’s a bad person, and to be honest if you’ve kept this up knowing she’s a cheat, your not much better.
Cut her off, tell her bf the truth and work on yourself.
Your girlfriend is a monster, I would reconsider the relationship.
Use this as your wake up call.
The worst part is, he is very big on people telling the truth.
Did you ask him why?
You two aren’t compatible. You’ve had religious experiences which he’ll never believe. You know there is a God. He knows there isn’t one. There’s no middle ground. He actually believes you are mentally ill.
Because she’s crazy, my friend
He cheated on you, that's why he can't look you in the eyes.
I think most guys out there would love to have a gf that wants to explore her sexuality. Many, at least pretend not to want to.
Beautiful post. Hope op reads this!
We’ve talked about it a lot together. I’m attracted but we can’t date because of living in other countries. It’s more just wanting to help than anything, it sounds like it’s something he struggles with and I don’t know what to say.
I’m sorry but this is absolutely NO excuse for him to speak to her in such a degrading horrible way that he did.
Yeah and the twist in the second paragraph was……interesting
Then why make a post complaining about your situation???
Cause if he loved you that much, he wouldn't do something that bothered you so much, you needed to post about it on reddit.
He spends money he doesn’t have. He needs to get rid of his debt and not accrue more. Do not mix your finances with a person who is irresponsible with money, you’ll drown.
If you can afford it, buy a car that’s 2-3 years old with low-ish mileage. You’ll get almost all of the benefits of a new car at a fraction of the price; and never pay more for a car than your rent/mortgage.
I want to know too. I hope it goes well man. Would like to help.
Please leave him now while you still can
He also found this out by snooping through her phone. He might not be the most trustworthy of individuals either if you ask me. I would never go through my Partner's phone, that too is a breach of trust. People do coparent without getting it on. I'm not saying she's completely innocent but I am saying there are valid reasons she might have hid this. Either way I am pretty sure this relationship needs to end because he can't trust her and she doesn't feel comfortable enough to tell him what's going on in her life with her ex and kids and co-parenting.
Ya she’s lying to you and that’s never okay. This relationship isn’t healthy. Her seeing her ex isn’t bad but her lying about it is bad bad