Your brain isn’t even fully developed yet lol. Your are saying exactly what someone who is groomed says. No matter how established you were professionally and financially, there is still a gap in brain development and maturity.
Make sure he didn't have video of you..if needed screenshot the video cause he might gaslighting you..it would be rude to keep the video.. unless the video is taking from angel that could be unnoticed by the women..
Break up? The same issues that caused your first break up are still there. You get to decide what comprises you're willing to make in a relationship, 'you're racist but that's ok because it doesn't affect me' shouldn't be one of them. It's been said over and over but it bears repeating, when someone tells you who they are you should listen.
Have you asked him why he expects you to do all the housework when you work full time like he does? He says he's tired. But you're also tired. So why is it fair that you do things and he doesn't?
Someone smart said that if you have a good life, things are going well and you STILL feel this way, you may be depressed. Maybe there is a trigger you are unaware of. What has changed from the time you felt calm around him to now?
Breathe work and CBD gummies have changed my life.
I think the long distance relationship was a bad idea. Let it go. You’re very young and you will find better guys.
You say you worry you won’t find anyone lie him. But he’s literally the only guy you’ve tried dating. Get out there and find someone who actually wants to make an effort to be with you.
I’m sorry to say, but it strikes me that you’ve become the third wheel in your relationship. You need to have a serious conversation about his timeline. And right now, it’s HIS timeline and not yours, unfortunately.
Have the conversation away from the house. Go get coffee (no alcohol) together or go for a walk or go to a park. WITHOUT his brother. Tell him you are in it for the long haul, but right now you feel like the third wheel. Tell him you love that he and his brother are so close, but that you feel as if his relationship with you is more roommate than romantic.
Ask him outright when he believes he’ll have saved enough money to no longer live as 3 people. Ask him outright if he plans to live! separately from his brother. Ask him outright if there is room for you in his life.
Don’t give him an ultimatum. But make sure he knows the current situation is untenable in the long term.
But don’t forget about you. Are you willing to wait for him to maybe one day no longer online with his brother? What if he doesn’t ever intend to on-line without his brother? Are you okay with that being your future?
Does he even care about you in any way? He sounds misogynistic as fuck when his poor ex wife even went so far to buy him a sex doll. The fact that you know that so he told you and is not ashamed of his behavior is a red flag on its own.
yes girl. you deserve so much better than that and you’ll find someone who will give you the world. screw him
No she's crazy you're fine man. Just jokes
I love when men fuck up, we don’t accept it and they’re like “oh my god you’re such an uptight bitch”.
Your brain isn’t even fully developed yet lol. Your are saying exactly what someone who is groomed says. No matter how established you were professionally and financially, there is still a gap in brain development and maturity.
Thankyou, I think you are correct. It seems maybe we were idealistic and not realistic
He doesn't trust you. Otherwise you hanging up the phone quickly wouldn't be sus.
He basically accused you of doing something wrong and that's why you ended the call.
Make sure he didn't have video of you..if needed screenshot the video cause he might gaslighting you..it would be rude to keep the video.. unless the video is taking from angel that could be unnoticed by the women..
She found someone with more money.
Only reasonable reply here
Break up? The same issues that caused your first break up are still there. You get to decide what comprises you're willing to make in a relationship, 'you're racist but that's ok because it doesn't affect me' shouldn't be one of them. It's been said over and over but it bears repeating, when someone tells you who they are you should listen.
Have you asked him why he expects you to do all the housework when you work full time like he does? He says he's tired. But you're also tired. So why is it fair that you do things and he doesn't?
Someone smart said that if you have a good life, things are going well and you STILL feel this way, you may be depressed. Maybe there is a trigger you are unaware of. What has changed from the time you felt calm around him to now?
Breathe work and CBD gummies have changed my life.
I'm confused by the “total womanizer”comment. Is he sleeping with some one else? Did I miss that part?
That's literally aggravated assault
I think the long distance relationship was a bad idea. Let it go. You’re very young and you will find better guys.
You say you worry you won’t find anyone lie him. But he’s literally the only guy you’ve tried dating. Get out there and find someone who actually wants to make an effort to be with you.
I’m sorry to say, but it strikes me that you’ve become the third wheel in your relationship. You need to have a serious conversation about his timeline. And right now, it’s HIS timeline and not yours, unfortunately.
Have the conversation away from the house. Go get coffee (no alcohol) together or go for a walk or go to a park. WITHOUT his brother. Tell him you are in it for the long haul, but right now you feel like the third wheel. Tell him you love that he and his brother are so close, but that you feel as if his relationship with you is more roommate than romantic.
Ask him outright when he believes he’ll have saved enough money to no longer live as 3 people. Ask him outright if he plans to live! separately from his brother. Ask him outright if there is room for you in his life.
Don’t give him an ultimatum. But make sure he knows the current situation is untenable in the long term.
But don’t forget about you. Are you willing to wait for him to maybe one day no longer online with his brother? What if he doesn’t ever intend to on-line without his brother? Are you okay with that being your future?
I still can't advise someone to even consider staying, even in the ideal scenario.
Does he even care about you in any way? He sounds misogynistic as fuck when his poor ex wife even went so far to buy him a sex doll. The fact that you know that so he told you and is not ashamed of his behavior is a red flag on its own.
Your boyfriend is insecure and jealous of a child.
Oh hun, you couldn’t hurt my feelings.
You on the other hand need to learn how to cOPe because of tattoos on another person’s body. Good luck