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I really understand your concerns. I’m in your daughters age range and I couldn’t imagine what I would have in common with a 45 year old man (in a romantic/sexual way). It’s simply weird to me for a 45 year old to date a woman in her early 20’s.
Still: your daughter is 23. She’s grown. If she wants to date him she will. And if she’s in love with him, she’ll chose him over you in a worst case scenario. All you really can do is talk about your concerns with her.
As long as you are on good terms with her, at least you have the ability to keep an eye out for her and look over the situation and maybe intervene IF it would get toxic/abusive.
If she’s really serious about dating him, you’ll eventually have to meet him. Maybe you can ask him yourself what makes him date your daughter.
Yeah do not go on this vacation. It’s going to do nothing for you other than confuse you and possibly her. If she ended the relationship you MUST respect that. What you need to do is exactly what you wanna do though. If you think this is a good idea then do it. If you want the opinion of somebody outside your situation. I’d disconnect all contact with her for the time being, no texting no callling or emailing. Give yourself a timeframe (like a month or two at least) in my experience, love has no timeframe and if it’s meant to be she’ll either beg for you back. Or you’ll come together naturally
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I missed the wedding dress picking out because we weren't speaking to each other at the time, and I think it hurt me more than it hurt her.
I get that it's her day and totally up to her…I guess a part of me wants to be asked instead of asking and feeling like I'm forcing my way in. I'm typically the proactive one in our friendship who points out issues and brings stuff up whereas she will ignore things. So I keep trying to work things out, but I'm not sure she understands what I'm saying.
So I guess she is important to me, but I don't know if I'm going to continue to be important to her after this is over, and that's where the anxiety stems from.
Sorry for the dump. :X I don't have a lot of people with whom I can talk this through, I guess…
I really understand your concerns. I’m in your daughters age range and I couldn’t imagine what I would have in common with a 45 year old man (in a romantic/sexual way). It’s simply weird to me for a 45 year old to date a woman in her early 20’s.
Still: your daughter is 23. She’s grown. If she wants to date him she will. And if she’s in love with him, she’ll chose him over you in a worst case scenario. All you really can do is talk about your concerns with her.
As long as you are on good terms with her, at least you have the ability to keep an eye out for her and look over the situation and maybe intervene IF it would get toxic/abusive.
If she’s really serious about dating him, you’ll eventually have to meet him. Maybe you can ask him yourself what makes him date your daughter.
Your husband deserves to know what you heard, and you deserve to have him there for you through how you’re feeling now, the way he always has been.
Finally!! Someone said it! And above he says he meet her when she was a “student” at his work. Gross.
Yeah do not go on this vacation. It’s going to do nothing for you other than confuse you and possibly her. If she ended the relationship you MUST respect that. What you need to do is exactly what you wanna do though. If you think this is a good idea then do it. If you want the opinion of somebody outside your situation. I’d disconnect all contact with her for the time being, no texting no callling or emailing. Give yourself a timeframe (like a month or two at least) in my experience, love has no timeframe and if it’s meant to be she’ll either beg for you back. Or you’ll come together naturally
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This is interesting — I know I have issues, so elaboration on others’ perception is helpful in identifying those issues. So please elaborate.
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She's not a child, she has to tell you what you're supposed to have done.
It's probably a load of bullshit, that's why she's ashamed to say.
It sounds like he wants a kid.
My wife and I were “childfree” until we had our daughter around the same age as you are.
I missed the wedding dress picking out because we weren't speaking to each other at the time, and I think it hurt me more than it hurt her.
I get that it's her day and totally up to her…I guess a part of me wants to be asked instead of asking and feeling like I'm forcing my way in. I'm typically the proactive one in our friendship who points out issues and brings stuff up whereas she will ignore things. So I keep trying to work things out, but I'm not sure she understands what I'm saying.
So I guess she is important to me, but I don't know if I'm going to continue to be important to her after this is over, and that's where the anxiety stems from.
Sorry for the dump. :X I don't have a lot of people with whom I can talk this through, I guess…
Sounds like he’s looking for a woman to be the dominant and take the lead.
The greatest revenge is to not be like him that harmed you.
It would have been easier to read if you had punctuated & made paragraphs for such a long post. I was unable to finish it because of that.