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YES. YOU ARE BEING GROOMED
Congratulations! I’m so happy for you. It sounds like you are doing great. My advice would just be to keep being awesome. You got this!
Dude that is weird, just leave. There are women out there leaving dudes in the dust because she doesn't like the shirt he wore.
Yes. You can't predict the future, and people change their minds all the time. OP may eventually want a relationship with the kid, or the kid may push for a relationship with him one day. Even without a kid in he picture, a lot of people are uncomfortable knowing that their SO had a child with someone else. It's all about personal preferences.
Dude, I don’t have the time, energy or crayons to give you the flow chart of just how terrible this idea is.
Your wife is away, you want to keep secrets and meet an ex? Are you hoping she dumps you, because that’s what your playing with.
Sounds like he’s got some resentments surfacing. Is he expecting you to get a full time job? How old are your children? Sit down and discuss bills vs income and come up with an equitable solution.
Well, you should probably ask her what's going on, simple as that.
She got distant from you and closer to her BSF clearly, but it doesn't necessarily means she has feelings for him : It's just one possible explanation. However there is clearly something that push her away from you currently, and the best way to figure out what it could be is to ask her.
If she refuse to tell you, then you could tell her what your theory is : Maybe she'll react to that and either correct you, or confirm it. If she completely refuse to communicate whatsoever, there isn't much you'll be able to do except for looking for infos from her friends, giving up or break up
Hi! I’m in a large age gap relationship (larger than OP). You made some great points. Age gap relationships are not for everyone. You really need to have a complete understanding of who you are.
At 25, OP May have had the life experiences needed for that relationship. I certainly did. And I knew who I was and what I wanted. I wasn’t looking for a partner, it just happened.
OP definitely needs to be on the same page as her boyfriend. My SO and I have different thought processes, but we arrive at the same conclusion almost every time. There are some things we have different opinions on, but nothing that’s a deal breaker or red flag.
The way he treats her is key. My SO has never tried to persuade me. They have never talked down to me. They listen to my opinion and respond accordingly. They have never twisted my words, or took my words out of context. They really truly respect me, and I respect them.
Not being financially stable is a tough one. When I met my SO he was financially stable. Then COVID happened and their credit was ruined and they got behind on bills.
Overall, this is the best relationship I have ever been in. I’ve been in relationships with guy my age, and I could never connect with them. We grew up in the same time, but had completely different expectations and views/plans on life. My SO and I grew up in completely different generations, yet I understand him better than people my age (besides some of his jokes lol). And whatever I don’t understand I ask him to explain, and vice versa.
Idk, thought I’d give some perspective on large age gap relationships. I never thought I’d be in one, I was not planning on entering a relationship when I met my SO (this almost sounds like he talked me into it, which he didn’t. It was 100% my decision.)
Oh, also, not all men who end up with a younger woman are searching for that. My SO was in a relationship with a woman older than him when we met, he’s always dated around his age until me.
It is really nude to do basic things like cook a full meal or shower when you are trapped in that feeding/pumping schedule. Babies that young ear every 3 hours sometimes more frequent. Are the grandmas actually doing anything or are they just present? If she has to ask them for help she may feel like she shouldn’t. Mom guilt is a really thing where we new moms feel like failures for needing help. They need to help you help her, schedule times of the day where they feed and hold the babies, they need to tell her they are taking over so she can shower or eat or whatever.
Also, I’d caution you on not listening to old ladies regarding what’s a normal amount of work for a new mom. Men didn’t do shit back then and new moms struggled and suffered. As a generation they’re not very receptive to husbands helping because they would have to acknowledge they should have had help.
Now I understand your job hours are insane and hopefully Not permanent, so I understand you not pitching in – there are other to do that. So just keep in mind it’s almost impossible to not resent your husband at that stage, even if it’s irrational.
Hey guy. You just said it yourself, she has PPD and has been a couple of months. Is she seeing anybody about this? If you expected her to sing your praises this soon, you are barking up the wrong tree.
I am still trying to understand why so many people are upset by this. In the talking stage, you are potential. That means you aren’t owed anything. Not even information on who else the other person is dating. It’s not your business.
Once you are exclusive then you get some additional considerations and then once married you get additional considerations but the talking stage is just that, interviewing to be a partner.
If you are grossed out about then that is a you problem. If any grown man asks me and is upset about what I did when he was just interviewing then I am dumping him. How childish can you be. You didn’t own her then and you don’t own her now.
Therapy should be required for the entire planet to deconstruct this dumb ass ideas that a human being is somehow less worthy because of sex. So stupid.
A bit late to the party. It's not really ok to leave someone in this situation after the window of opportunity for an abortion has passed but like, better late than really late.
If your leaving makes your wife decide she doesn't want the baby because she doesn't want to do it alone then at least she can opt for adoption at birth rather than later. There's a point at which it's too late to morally leave as well once the kid is old enough to be attached to you.
If you don't love your wife enough to stay now it's unlikely to get any better with time.
I agree, do it as an obvious apology. People who own their mistakes and rectify them will always be fine with others. Get the same kind of pizza as well!
It slightly goes up and stays up, but goes down within seconds if he puts a condom on or puts it in me.
I have very low self-esteem and he’s my first ever relationship 🙁 the thing is he keeps insisting constantly that he isn’t addicted to porn, and he HAS gone ages without watching it and doesn’t seem bothered by it at all, I have very bad anxiety so I struggle to differentiate between legitimate / irrational thoughts, so when he says he doesn’t have a porn addiction despite the conflicting evidence in my mind, I can’t help but believe him 🙁 I feel so broken and alone
Good point
You made bad decisions, these are the consequences. Yes, keep the debt on, it has to be paid and of course he should help with it but I doubt he will, he sounds a right asshole. Look at getting some advice on managing it going forwards.
Yeah that is a dealbreaker. I couldn’t imagine bringing someone into our home overnight without getting my wife’s OK.
I am offended by your very existence.
So first DO NOT try to lose the weight for her.
If you do not do it for yourself, you will end up resenting her, which will eventually end your relationship.
So decide what you want, and if you want the relationship, decide if you can make the changes that you will need to.
Also do not try everything at once. Start with small changes, and add more as you are able
I think it's important to note that that's what he's told you, but based on this information you can't necessarily believe anything he's told you and he might be telling her something different.
She may be thinking she's moving out there with the baby as soon as finances are ready to make that happen.
I say this as someone who is literally from a different country to her spouse and had to really jump through hoops with him to remain physically together. At any point we could've literally been separated by the Atlantic, but we would've remained together and dealt with that. Long-term distances sometimes occur.
I think it's probably going to be better to let her know regardless in this situation, personally. Even if you did it anonymously. There's no guarantee he's going to tell you the truth about anything.
What an immature douche. Sounds like he wants to make you feel insecure. And he killed the romance.
What an unnecessary comment. I'd be put off him tbh.
For a lot of places, both parties have to consent to the use of embryos. Idk if OP is in a place with those laws but it may not be as simple as her making that choice for herself.
Go no contact. You don’t even like you like her that much
So you want him to do manual labor for 13 hours a day, come home and do house chores, then hand over the majority of his paycheck for the bills? All while you spend just five hours a day working from home and putting your money away? A relationship is a partnership. The arrangement you seem to want is not a boyfriend but an indentured servant.
Get off the buss Gus.
Not normal. This is pretty odd and it's like her family wants to keep him around “just in case”.
That's not something I'd put up with and if you want him out of their lives, it's going to be a tough road to get there and eventually might never happen.
Is that what you've signed up for?
Hello no.
What exactly do you expect him to do? Do you want him to get into fights and potentially have himself charged? If your boyfriend chooses to peacefully de-escalate situations rather than getting into disputes that’s a green flag. Honestly if he was getting into fights/arguing back I would consider it a bigger issue. Because as soon as you guys got in a fight he would do the same to you.
This comment makes me feel seen. Because I’ve felt like maybe she does have this negative view of me that she hides.