I think my biggest concern is finding friends outside of work. It really isn't that great of a place to make friends in and once you leave, those friends disappear pretty quick.
Yeah, there’s only like 10 or so. Just super snarky and sarcastic. Calling the child an it and saying something like “ did you just assume the gender of my child “
Well you're not happy in the relationship… leave. It seems like an emotional affair is occurring, the affair for those who can't do the physical stuff but want to. It may be he's also bored in his relationship and is enjoying the attention she's giving to him. Personally I'd leave no matter what houses I have. As I can get them back but not any more time I'm wasting in an unhappy relationship… it'll just descend into a toxic relationship soon.
When I started dating a close friend of mine after knowing him for over a decade, my butterflies felt a lot like yours, and I’m someone who gets them early and easily and strongly with every other relationship I’ve ever really been into.
The difference between the butterflies and what I feel with him is this sense of peace and comfort, of “this is so very right”, of security and certainty and affection – it”s something so strong that I think it overpowered the butterflies and immediately put me into this cozy zone with him that just feels like and has always kind of felt like home since we started.
I don’t know if you have anything like that going on, but that’s my take on it. Butterflies sort of always seemed to happen for me when someone I didn’t know well but was crushing hot on was living up to or exceeding my idea of them in my head.
Now there is a decision you can, (should) take some pride in. Well done.
Did you move from the U.S.?
I think my biggest concern is finding friends outside of work. It really isn't that great of a place to make friends in and once you leave, those friends disappear pretty quick.
Make it clear to the mother that what she’s doing is destroying her daughter’s life.
Flip the genders and this sub would gladly call him controlling and borderline emotionally abusive.
Yeah, there’s only like 10 or so. Just super snarky and sarcastic. Calling the child an it and saying something like “ did you just assume the gender of my child “
You literally just posted the hypothetical. Now you’re shit posting like it happened and she cheated. Stop lying.
Well you're not happy in the relationship… leave. It seems like an emotional affair is occurring, the affair for those who can't do the physical stuff but want to. It may be he's also bored in his relationship and is enjoying the attention she's giving to him. Personally I'd leave no matter what houses I have. As I can get them back but not any more time I'm wasting in an unhappy relationship… it'll just descend into a toxic relationship soon.
dont know why you are getting down voted, this is probably spot on.
When I started dating a close friend of mine after knowing him for over a decade, my butterflies felt a lot like yours, and I’m someone who gets them early and easily and strongly with every other relationship I’ve ever really been into.
The difference between the butterflies and what I feel with him is this sense of peace and comfort, of “this is so very right”, of security and certainty and affection – it”s something so strong that I think it overpowered the butterflies and immediately put me into this cozy zone with him that just feels like and has always kind of felt like home since we started.
I don’t know if you have anything like that going on, but that’s my take on it. Butterflies sort of always seemed to happen for me when someone I didn’t know well but was crushing hot on was living up to or exceeding my idea of them in my head.