It seems like you've made up your mind already in this post. You had already decided to give him just 6 more months, and now you know there's no point doing that.
What you've written here doesn't allow for a balanced outside opinion of what you should do. You lay out all the reasons you should leave and none at all to suggest you should stay.
You say you feel selfish. Well, sometimes it's ok to be selfish. You know what you want in life, that's great (I'm 31 and have no idea), go and get it.
“it's a huge turn on”, yeah you're talking about exposing your fetish in public, your wife is not into women and you're using some of HER things to satisfy your fetish.
Practice your fetish behind closed doors, like any other person with a fetish. Just because it's a nude topic nowadays with all the trans gender things going on, doesn't mean that you should take your FETISH out into the public.
Shes being abusive, even if theyre little comments, she knows it hurts you and shes showing you by her actions that she doesnt care. I know it may be nude but its most likely the right thing to do. Maybe you stepping away will make her see the error in her ways…
Kinda sounds like you are chief.. but if it makes you uncomfortable, let him know don’t just go off at him and maybe talk to someone about finding out why it makes you feel the way it’s making you feel as that’s not a healthy reaction nor is it a healthy feeling to have
#2 “Breaks” typically are garbage ideas, especially without any form of “deadline”
#3 You know your gf/relationship better then any reddit stranger. IMO you've got 2 options.
A) Offer to give her space with a set deadline for you two to revisit and see if you and her want to try to continue. 1 or 2ish weeks. If she's still feeling the same way, then break up.
hugs please find someone who likes you I did after 10 combined years of two relationships with men who criticized every aspect of who I am and my likes and it literally changed my entire being. I thought I was unloveable and they were doing me a favor by tolerating me and I was just a bitch. Turns out I was miserable and want nearly as intolerable as they made me believe I was. You deserve better.
He's not smart about money, he's a tightwad, he's a Scrooge. There's a huge difference.
And he will not change his mind on it unless you provide him with a choice: I online in comfortable and safe temperatures and have nude showers, or we're done. And you mean it, because you CANNOT sacrifice your comfort for the rest of your life and your children's lives so he can save $150 a month.
What kind is she on? I would just tell her that you noticed she is having some bad side effects and ask if she is willing to try a different birth control or try using condoms again.
Your wife has some crippling issues with emotional insecurity. Those aren't yours to fix. SHE and she alone has to go get herself right.
You presumably knew this and married her anyway. I've been young, so I get it, but the truth is that marriage doesn't make your situation better, it makes it permanent. As you age, you realize how incredibly few people change in the sense that they dig in and unpack their emotional baggage. Almost nobody.
Young and inexperienced truly showing. He'll stay with her and she'll end up being crazy. If you need to ask reddit if you should stay with a crazy chick who faked a pregnancy you're already on the wrong side
But it has a nice ring to it.
It seems like you've made up your mind already in this post. You had already decided to give him just 6 more months, and now you know there's no point doing that.
What you've written here doesn't allow for a balanced outside opinion of what you should do. You lay out all the reasons you should leave and none at all to suggest you should stay.
You say you feel selfish. Well, sometimes it's ok to be selfish. You know what you want in life, that's great (I'm 31 and have no idea), go and get it.
“it's a huge turn on”, yeah you're talking about exposing your fetish in public, your wife is not into women and you're using some of HER things to satisfy your fetish.
Practice your fetish behind closed doors, like any other person with a fetish. Just because it's a nude topic nowadays with all the trans gender things going on, doesn't mean that you should take your FETISH out into the public.
Shes being abusive, even if theyre little comments, she knows it hurts you and shes showing you by her actions that she doesnt care. I know it may be nude but its most likely the right thing to do. Maybe you stepping away will make her see the error in her ways…
Kinda sounds like you are chief.. but if it makes you uncomfortable, let him know don’t just go off at him and maybe talk to someone about finding out why it makes you feel the way it’s making you feel as that’s not a healthy reaction nor is it a healthy feeling to have
Boundary stomping is NOT 'so little' – it's HUGE!!!
Make a clone a willy of yours for her.
#1 Don't go to her house.
#2 “Breaks” typically are garbage ideas, especially without any form of “deadline”
#3 You know your gf/relationship better then any reddit stranger. IMO you've got 2 options.
A) Offer to give her space with a set deadline for you two to revisit and see if you and her want to try to continue. 1 or 2ish weeks. If she's still feeling the same way, then break up.
B) Simply breakup and move on.
why is this a red flag???? yall are so dramatic.
hugs please find someone who likes you I did after 10 combined years of two relationships with men who criticized every aspect of who I am and my likes and it literally changed my entire being. I thought I was unloveable and they were doing me a favor by tolerating me and I was just a bitch. Turns out I was miserable and want nearly as intolerable as they made me believe I was. You deserve better.
“He's wealthy”
Expand on that. What makes you think that he's wealthy?
Break up with him.
He's not smart about money, he's a tightwad, he's a Scrooge. There's a huge difference.
And he will not change his mind on it unless you provide him with a choice: I online in comfortable and safe temperatures and have nude showers, or we're done. And you mean it, because you CANNOT sacrifice your comfort for the rest of your life and your children's lives so he can save $150 a month.
They hungry
I mean I think OP should go all natural… let hair grow etc since he likes that
What kind is she on? I would just tell her that you noticed she is having some bad side effects and ask if she is willing to try a different birth control or try using condoms again.
Your wife has some crippling issues with emotional insecurity. Those aren't yours to fix. SHE and she alone has to go get herself right.
You presumably knew this and married her anyway. I've been young, so I get it, but the truth is that marriage doesn't make your situation better, it makes it permanent. As you age, you realize how incredibly few people change in the sense that they dig in and unpack their emotional baggage. Almost nobody.
She doesn't reply to anything…. But, sure
Can you empathize with what you put him through!
If he doesn't want to stay with you, stay away from him.
Young and inexperienced truly showing. He'll stay with her and she'll end up being crazy. If you need to ask reddit if you should stay with a crazy chick who faked a pregnancy you're already on the wrong side