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Dude.
He is saying that every act that does not conform to masculine stereotypes is homosexual, and thus should not be Done by straight men.
It's homophobic and also quite idiotic.
Yeah he’s a terrible person working his ass off so she can spend his money and complain he isn’t doing enough for her. Or maybe she could take some responsibility and help out instead of just complaining?
Are you able to imagine a future with your husband knowing that he doesn't feel it is necessary to include you in who he is texting or communicating with? In your original post, he commented that she was “just a friend” but now he refuses to explain this friendship. There are ways that you can access his data on his phone and or computer and then you will know everything that you want to know about it. But before you do, realize that once you read it and it burns itself into your memory that you can never erase it. And regardless of the wording, you will never look at him the same way again.
You also mentioned you were in a worse place than before. You need to protect yourself. If you know in your gut what is going on you have the choice of trying to make it work or protecting yourself.
If he agrees go to couples counseling to work on the marriage. Choose a counselor who excels with couples. Not every counselor is skilled enough to do this.
Most importantly – Start to work on an exit plan.
LAWYER – Find a good lawyer – Most will meet you or speak to you over the phone for a complimentary call to answer some questions. Be prepared for the call by writing down any questions you have beforehand. Nothing is off limits to tell the lawyer so that they can best represent you.
FINANCES – start a new bank account away from your normal bank. Start saving whatever you can. Takes copies of all financials (Both his and yours) – mortgage, bank, any investments, tax returns, etc and keep them in a safe place (Away from your home). Consider renting a very small storage unit in your name only. Pay for the storage unit in Cash, so he does not know that you have it. You may have to secure it with a credit card. But you can pay with cash so that he doesn't know what you are doing. This will allow you to securely have access to items.
Consider purchasing a small moveable safe (Sentinel safe looks like a briefcase) for your most important documents. (Passport etc.). keep copies only in this at home for easy access. Keep the originals in the storage unit that you will be renting. Make sure you have your marriage certificate. And a recent photo of your husband alone in the picture.
Make sure you have copies and originals of your and your children's, birth certificates, health care, blood type, and medical records. All records that are nude or costly to get re-issued. Take copies of your husband's passport, driver's license, etc. DO NOT take any of your husband's original documents. (Take copies but leave him the originals). Remember to keep an original photo of just your husband, with no one else in the photo. Your lawyer will need this to serve him if it gets to that.
Save photos or items that are most sentimental to you again in a safe place away from your home.
Begin to look for an affordable place to stay. Or get feelers out where you might be able to stay. Don't rent it yet, but get all of your applications and any possible viewings, etc taken care of. You don't have to fill out the applications just have them ready. In case you need to move in a short time frame.
If your home is in joint names – DO NOT move out of the home. Wait for instructions from your lawyer. Make sure you have originals or copies of the mortgage information.
If you both have vehicles, take yours in for servicing. Tires etc. Make sure any work that needs to be done on it gets done while you have the joint financial account.
Nothing needs to be done until you are ready, but prepare yourself mentally in case he moves first.
Above all – keep speaking with your sister, a counselor, or a close friend. Your emotions will be all over the place and your judgment may become clouded by the things he tells you.
Protect your children and maintain a family atmosphere around them. But continually look out for yourself.
There is no easy way to get through this. But trust me you will; it will take time and you will find that you are stumbling along. But in the end a stronger, smarter, and wiser you will emerge from all of this.
Good luck and Hugs From A Far. DM me if you need to talk or if you need more information.
You need to sit down and tell her that the ring she wants is an impossibility. If she refuses to compromise, that is a catastrophic red flag for your relationship and you need to run
this isn’t an aita but YTA, also you need therapy
She might also be in one of the countries where it's illegal
Yesterday. Have fun.
Shes wanting a break for half the time you've already spent together? I honestly don't think she will come back to you. Breaks are usually a soft way to break up. Wanting time to herself isnt a reason for a break. You can still be in a relationship and have time to yourself.
Tbh in my honest opinion yes it's unreasonable as it's not something unique to you.. It's HIS body.. HIS beard.. And thus HE gets to decide what to do with it.
If you want something unique to you, talk to him and pick something actually unique that isn't attached to his body..
Our you could… You know.. Be more mature and not play any weird games.
He loves you “most”
It went from DIFFERENT types of love… to now its just you are #1?
He hasn't accepted it? Yet you had to accept him treating your sister like a better girlfriend for months.
The first person he told was probably your sister. And they both are wondering what to do now because it seems like the house would kick them out if they go together.
I think that OP would just use the therapy in a way that would back him up as a parent, (i.e. getting a religious based therapist or just a bad therapist). OP needs to get therapy for himself so he can learn to stop trying to micro manage & control his adult child.
No. Splitting 50/50 in situations where one person has significantly more assets or income is exploitation.
That's one more thing that men have screwed for themselves: you seem to think you can only be affectionate to your partner. Well, newsflash: not the case. You can absolutely hug or kiss a friend. The problem in this is you indeed. Ask yourself what you see as wrong here because there is nothing there.
Not wanting to see your current bf for two weeks because your ex is getting married seems to be a big indication of where her heart really lies. And maybe her ex changed, maybe the new girl is the love of his life or maybe she is pressuring him to get married, who knows. There might be tons of reasons why he is getting married which we will never know.
I’m gonna go with he wanted to go hunting with his buddies. You got upset with him and broke up. He blew up your phone trying to find a way to fix it but you ignored it. He accepted your breakup and now being sad and single, went with his buddies to a strip club. Your part in this story ended when you broke up with him. It has nothing to do with you anymore. I hope you weren’t just playing break up games trying to manipulate him. Anyway, you should have left when he cheated on you the first time. He showed you who he is and where you stood.
She wants you for financial support. It's sad how common this appears to be.
There’s literally no reason to have the app other than to keep that line open..
Not at all haha. Living together means incoming bills, home repair, furniture (as stupid as it sounds), dealing with providers or landlords, sharing space together (so not just your dorm, it’ll be both of your spaces), financial discussions, arguments, chores etc. There’s a reason why 40-50% break up after living together, you see a side of someone you never fully get to see.
I thought after renting a house for a month i’d see my “true” partner, but even that wasn’t enough. Once you’re like half a year to a year in, that’s when the adrenaline and excitement calms down and “regular” life starts.
But it’s a good start! I don’t want to be a debbie downer lol, I know how excited you must be to start life with your partner.
Having a gender reveal party doesn't mean you have a preference.
Exactly. I graduated in 2018 and people who dated freshman when they were juniors or seniors were bullied to fuck for rightful reasons. I was preyed upon by a 19 year old when I was 14 year old. All these people in here excusing it are nauseating. Just because it happened, doesn’t mean it’s okay.
Was your husband also very drunk? It doesn’t excuse their actions, but if he was sober and she was wasted, that sounds like he took advantage of her.
Unless that’s what happened, all you can really do is take time to yourself to recoup and decide what you want to do. Your husband cheated, can you get over that? Most couldn’t. You should think about divorce.
Your sister betrayed you. Can you ever forgive her for that? I wouldn’t be able too.
It would be better to have these people out of your life then in it if this is how they’re going to treat you. No real loss in my opinion.
I think he’s trying to figure out how to drop off your thing and you’re being difficult about it. Text him when and where to drop it off, tell him “No, I don’t need to talk” or “Yes, I want to talk.”
I was kind of understating when I said I'm not very experienced, I actually have barely any experience at all and that was my first time actually going that far with someone. I've dated people and done some stuff but just not that. I feel really stupid that it was such a bad experience. I know losing your virginity doesn't have to be a big deal but it still sucks that that was technically my first time. I still feel quite bad and ashamed about it. I do realise it's not supposed to hurt that much and I should have tried to stop him when he didn't slow down.
Yep he has a drug problem as well
Yeah, this reads like someone playing it up a little
lol OK enjoy being used by cocaine bear, friend
Also if I’m not too late, remind him that you are going to be (or basically are) his family before anyone else is and that no one else matters besides the two of you.
It doesn’t sound like his family respects him in ways that he tries to show respect and needs reciprocated. He probably gets what he needs from you and he needs to remember that you’re there to build each other up.
But tell him he needs to do it for himself too and strongly urge him to go to therapy. In fact, if this continues and you are getting tired, make therapy a condition.
Actually knows some people are just like that they line up their relationships like dominoes so by the time that the ready to leave one they’ve got another back up. I will get as far away from him as you can, and I would never take him back, no matter what because you’re setting yourself up for repeats of this if you do.
Tell her she must be seeing ghosts and that you can't date mediums as they're too scary and may bring some bad juju to your life lmao.
He slapped you without consent. Nothing good is going to follow if you continue to date him.
The cornerstone of BDSM is consent. Your guy is just abusive.
Run, don’t walk
Mental help. You’re a sick individual.
Who fed Baxter when you were gone?
If it was bf baxters behavior is very understandable. Cats are not stupid, they like being fed.
Yeah, not remotely funny.
I'll make relationship jokes at my expense, but I've never joked about divorcing my wife.
I was mostly with Anne till the story about her going behind your back to give a group gift to your folks by herself. that is just a shitty thing to do to you.
in terms of how to proceed, i would say just do holidays with Beth, and tell your parents/Anne they are welcome to come over after.
also – if you dont like going to Anne's for holidays, just start hosting your own. invite whoever you want, and have fun. if people cant/wont come, then dont sweat it.
Why post asking for advice if you are just going to be rude and antagonistic to the people who respond?
If you know how to deal with it better than anyone else then why are you even asking?
Wasn’t asking you.
For starters? She did not tell him she was tracking him! Think about that. There's more. But think about that. I'm sorry. Respectfully.
Best revenge id ever got with something similar was cold shoulder and never even slightly entertained the idea of letting her know what I knew, not only was I hurt about the lies and all, it pissed me off knowing that she was going to try to blow smoke up my ass with excuses and the whole “poor me” bs when I already knew everything that was going on. Shed come into my work trying to get an explanation bawling and wanting to talk and all that and had the regional manager escort her off the property which felt fucking awesome at the time. She got it from all angles also because the dude she was seeing didnt know about me either until then, so we both said nope at the same time. Apparently she was “engaged” to both of us. I realize its different for you giving the tight friend group dynamic and living situation, but youll save your dignity and self esteem and appreciate it later down the road if youre already emotionally detached when you decide what to do.
He’s been cheated on in the past a couple of times so i think that’s why he was worried that I could’ve been lying about being on insta. I would never cheat on him but we’ve only been together for about a month so I think it’s still too early for him to let those worries go