Reminds me of my grandparents. My grandpa was a physician and they were very comfortable. But they would go to Costco on the weekends and have coats, shirt, hats, or whatever to interchange so they could go around to get multiple food samples for free without getting recognized and get their exercise.
She sounds thirsty for attention. A good gf doesn't continue to speak to strange men who hit on her. Also meeting new men and speaking to them while in a relationship is kinda a red flag too.
You need to gtfo before it gets worse. It’s only going to get worse, it will never get better. He’s insecure, controlling, and wants to keep you wrapped around his finger. You. NEED. To. LEAVE.
There are ways to prevent the toilets from clogging, they typically don't clog because of just the #2, either your pipes need professional help or someone needs to learn to not use too much TP. Either way, this is disgusting and I would hold firm on your stance. He is being woefully ignorant and inconsiderate.
Yep this is about control, especially since he doesn’t even have his own. He wants you to suffer and struggle because he doesn’t think you should have it easy. He paid for it just to take it away from you. That’s insanity.
What other mind games will he play with you and your child?
His verbal abuse is inexcusable. Policing his profile and 7 year old photos on a waning social network is concerning. It's controlling, and a fixation rooted in insecurity. People are allowed to have a past.
Info: why do you think he’s different? Is it because he was hesitant to start it (you mentioned in another comment)? Because his hesitation is due to his self preservation and image, and not for your wellbeing.
If he was really different he would have never started it
That's so nice of him /s, and here you are complaining about how lonely you are without him. You're a gross cheater, and he's a love sick puppy, great couple goals here.
Thank you I appreciate this. I definitely don’t think I should meet his kids any time soon. It’s just hard to fall for someone knowing there’s a whole other side and life to them that I’ve never seen.
Who’s on the lease in the apartment? If you are, kick his ass out. Go no contact. Make him pay the price. Don’t be a doormat. And don’t take him back. Pack him off.
If you keep pressing for it that’s coercion and you will most likely get broken up with. Either you accept it or move on
Can't I live! with my parents and I don't wanna tell them ever
I knew I had to hang up my party boy suit by 30 because I had too much adult shit to do
At 49 every guy around me that didnt do the same and went on into their 30's
Is a fuckup or dead
Let this guy go, he missed the adult platform when the stop came up a few years ago
sit down and talk to him. but also if your not comfortable you need to think of your next steps
She can f#%€ all the way off.
Reminds me of my grandparents. My grandpa was a physician and they were very comfortable. But they would go to Costco on the weekends and have coats, shirt, hats, or whatever to interchange so they could go around to get multiple food samples for free without getting recognized and get their exercise.
I think he stated in the comments that they were married men but this is precisely my point.
Shouldn’t people be allowed to have that information BEFORE they begin a relationship?
She sounds thirsty for attention. A good gf doesn't continue to speak to strange men who hit on her. Also meeting new men and speaking to them while in a relationship is kinda a red flag too.
You said it yourself, your relationship was toxic. Sounds like you need to work harder at moving on from it.
I’m so sad and i feel sorry for him. What do you think? Will this relationship last?
This is toxic too.
Good take back the control over your life – nobody should have that power to control another 🙂
You need to gtfo before it gets worse. It’s only going to get worse, it will never get better. He’s insecure, controlling, and wants to keep you wrapped around his finger. You. NEED. To. LEAVE.
There are ways to prevent the toilets from clogging, they typically don't clog because of just the #2, either your pipes need professional help or someone needs to learn to not use too much TP. Either way, this is disgusting and I would hold firm on your stance. He is being woefully ignorant and inconsiderate.
You couldn't make it up lol
Yep this is about control, especially since he doesn’t even have his own. He wants you to suffer and struggle because he doesn’t think you should have it easy. He paid for it just to take it away from you. That’s insanity.
What other mind games will he play with you and your child?
100%. It's like violently lashing out and calling her a bitch, it's utterly inappropriate.
His verbal abuse is inexcusable. Policing his profile and 7 year old photos on a waning social network is concerning. It's controlling, and a fixation rooted in insecurity. People are allowed to have a past.
Cheaters rarely tell you the truth. They’re liars. Good luck.
Info: why do you think he’s different? Is it because he was hesitant to start it (you mentioned in another comment)? Because his hesitation is due to his self preservation and image, and not for your wellbeing.
If he was really different he would have never started it
That's so nice of him /s, and here you are complaining about how lonely you are without him. You're a gross cheater, and he's a love sick puppy, great couple goals here.
…she has anxiety…she’s literally medicated for anxiety…and is vomiting from anxiety….
You assuming this is for attention makes it pretty evident why she gets so anxious when the two of you get into an argument/disagreement.
wow, didn't see this coming
Vietnamese, no arranged wedding. although his parents did set up dinner with a girl
Thank you I appreciate this. I definitely don’t think I should meet his kids any time soon. It’s just hard to fall for someone knowing there’s a whole other side and life to them that I’ve never seen.
She wasn't my best friend, I didn't say that. I was way closer to him (as a friend).
your hormones are lying to you
Somehow this is the wisest thing I've read today
Who’s on the lease in the apartment? If you are, kick his ass out. Go no contact. Make him pay the price. Don’t be a doormat. And don’t take him back. Pack him off.
You got this OP.