Some people have levels of friendships that are distant enough from them that it can feel awkward to perform daily upkeep, or they choose to prioritize other friendships first. If it bothers you, tell her you're not interested in keeping such a low-maintenance connection.
If it helps, she cares about the friendship enough to not simply let it fade away, but it's okay if you'd rather she did.
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It's easy to forgive but the hot part is getting g over it.
It's been 5yrs and I still think about the cheating daily. There's some resentment and bitterness. Therapy somewhat helps sorting emotions and need for closure
Overall it's a very tough decision to make.
At the very least postpone the wedding while you sort yourself
I can’t really explain the full reason as it’s a very personal issue but one or two of the girls didn’t want her living with them, I don’t know this full reason as it is confusing but I think because of this personal issue they didn’t want her around because they didn’t want someone with low mental health. Sounds horrible but this is what it seemed like
She did make some ways to gain trust however i didn’t feel like much had changed from my end tbh as I still felt lack of trust.
Thank you so much for this reminder! I’ve always known this and I actually have been seeing a therapist for quite some time. But sometimes when you’re deep in your thoughts, what you’ve practised and the changes you’ve already made in your life kind of spirals and that’s what happened to me.
I guess that’s part of the healing process, you move 10 steps forward and go 5 steps back. And that’s okay too.
Uh no..
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If it helps, she cares about the friendship enough to not simply let it fade away, but it's okay if you'd rather she did.
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It's easy to forgive but the hot part is getting g over it.
It's been 5yrs and I still think about the cheating daily. There's some resentment and bitterness. Therapy somewhat helps sorting emotions and need for closure
Overall it's a very tough decision to make.
At the very least postpone the wedding while you sort yourself
I can’t really explain the full reason as it’s a very personal issue but one or two of the girls didn’t want her living with them, I don’t know this full reason as it is confusing but I think because of this personal issue they didn’t want her around because they didn’t want someone with low mental health. Sounds horrible but this is what it seemed like
She did make some ways to gain trust however i didn’t feel like much had changed from my end tbh as I still felt lack of trust.
You will never be able to “ignore” this.
Get a new doctor and get her labelled Disabled like, YESTERDAY.
How exactly is she 400 pounds? HOW? What are you bringing into the house and what is she sneaking when you're not looking?!
Just take her with you. If my stepmom had left my dad when I lived with them I would have gone with her no question.
Thank you so much for this reminder! I’ve always known this and I actually have been seeing a therapist for quite some time. But sometimes when you’re deep in your thoughts, what you’ve practised and the changes you’ve already made in your life kind of spirals and that’s what happened to me.
I guess that’s part of the healing process, you move 10 steps forward and go 5 steps back. And that’s okay too.
Agreed. It’s biting but gets the point across and leaves room for the other folks to do a mea culpa without it being a huge awkward thing.