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Is 5-10 minutes really a time that requires compromise? I just feel like a compromise should be both of us getting something we want and his attention doesn’t seem to be on me when he cuddles me while browsing on his phone.
Valid, thank you. It's ultimatum time
Inviting someone to a party where people may choose to drink is not inviting them to get shitfaced and embarrass themselves.
Should OP never be invited to an event where alcohol may be present?
He's soaking up the attention you're giving him. Nothing more. You were expecting him to reciprocate your feelings, but he doesn't see you like that, or he would have jumped all over the opportunity to date you. He already told you he wasn't in the right headspace, and you think his flirting means he's sending mixed signals. He isn't. Not only that, but he rejected you. Move on.
It's either a fuck yes or a fuck no. There is no in between, and you're looking for hope. Flirting doesn't mean shit. I tell guys this all the time. Some people are just flirts. Doesn't mean they're interested. He told you straight out that he doesn't want to date you.
Abort It why would you want to be a single mother that’s insane.
He needs to be your ex boyfriend. Dude considers you the safe option.
Thanks, that’s my feeling too. I’ve already given her a lot
Bro, the only ones making a big deal about height here is you and OP's bf. I have never dated a tall man in my life. All my boyfriends have been 5'9″ or shorter. This whole thing where you think women only want tall men is a chronically live! take. Get over it.
The loneliness might be a result of some childhood issues that you keep acting out on. So if you got therapy you might get that figured out and then when you are alone, (honestly a universal reality), then you can just do hobbies, errands, clean or cook, or watch TV/video games. Which is how the rest of us deal with alone time.
Yeah man, it sounds like this isn’t working for you.
You need to communicate clear boundaries and then decide what to do if they aren’t respected. It’s not asking too much to have a general idea when your partner will be back. That’s not controlling.
If you were demanding he share his location that’s demanding. If you were limiting him to specific uses or times he could use the car (that weren’t based on logistical needs but just because you felt like it) those things could be argued to be controlling. (Maybe)
You are so young. Do not stay in relationships that don’t make you feel safe and happy and important. If this relationship doesn’t work that’s ok!
I found it interesting that you made this post and then every single person tells you to break it up with her and you fight each and every person that says that. Why are you post this? Why come and ask peoples opinion if you’re not going to even consider them? she’s going to do what she’s gonna do and you’re going to do what you’re gonna do and all you’re going to do is hurt yourself
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He was only 3 three years too late to go to jail over you. That's creepy in and of itself he is not the exception.
Why aren't we married? No idea.
That's a very odd question and answer pair when you'd just noted down that you're in a mediocre, at best relationship. You let yourself get into this thing where you're with a guy you met at 21 and neither of you have matured or even thought about what you really want, and are just now able to realize “wow, my not-great life choices have led to a not-great life”, and are stuck between being miserable in the way you've gotten used to or throwing things to the wind and possibly being more or less happy.
Good luck.
But if you think “marriage” will somehow make things feel better, you're delusional. You and your partner have both made poor choices and either you BOTH decide to make things better or you resolve to leave.
You had a one night stand with an 18 year old? You are disgusting. No wonder she wasn't ready to raise a child!!!!
I mean. Lots of good advice.
Maybe start with asking her what she thinks is a good gift for a bf and a good gift for a gf. Does she just expect her BF to spend loads of cash on her without reciprocating? Does she just not have any money? Is this going to be a one-sided relationship, or did she not get you much because you didn't ask for much and she wants lists?
On the surface, she seems selfish. But. Benefit of the doubt. Let's ask her about why the discrepancy, but not accuse her of anything and see what she says. Move on from there.
A partner should be a source of strength, not a source of insecurity or stress. You gotta decide if being with her is worth her effect on your self image. Personally, I'm so vain I would've broken up with her on the spot lol
I’m seeing someone, while married? Lmaooo i will think my husband has a second person if he doesn’t say explicitly “I am married”, seeing someone it’s at the beginning of a relationship, not when you live! together and plus kids… lol
Stay away! She did you a favour!
Yes, this is out of line. She is flirting with him and clearly wants something and he isn't stopping it.
Have a serious talk with your boyfriend about boundaries.
And cut her out. Both of you. She doesn't respect you or your relationship. This isn't a friendship worth keeping.
UpdateMe! Please
My fiancé’s best friend works as a cook and regularly does cocaine and gets high and drunk every night playing video games when he comes home.
Just because you think you both are regular smokers doesn’t mean he ain’t doing more..
My advice would be to do some reading up on ADHD – one of the things with ADHD is that what works for neurotypical people oftentimes actually can be very destructive and counterproductive to someone with ADHD. You have lots of failures in life because of this, lots of shame, lots of guilt, etc. There are emotional components, practical components, etc.
Understanding the way your partner's brain works and talking to her about how things are different for her, and believing her are all really important things if you really want to be helpful.
One of the key things to understand is that with ADHD, your likelihood to succeed with something isn't always tied to your desire to succeed at it, or the motivation you feel. I've found that I basically have to trick/hack my brain into doing things. I break chores into really small parts and don't force myself to finish. I have organized things in my home to make my likelihood of doing things I want to do higher and to make it harder to do things I want to avoid.
I struggle with my finances as well – I cannot keep up with the minutiae of a traditional budget. What works for me pretty well is having 2 checking accounts and having one for fixed expenses and auto-withdrawals and stuff , and then another one that is for my more discretionary spending. I only move as little as I want to spend into the account, and that's the only card I carry with me when I'm out, for example. It's not a great system, but it's a basic system that I can follow consistently, which is way better than a fantastic system that I can't keep up.
TLDR – understanding and finding ways to work with her disability will be key to helping – if you desire to help her, and pushing for her to do things in ways that work for you can be actively harmful.
Girlll a guy this obsessed with your virginity is gross as hell, smart move would be breaking up with him yourself, this is not a small thing
I'm no contact with a younger sister. I acknowledge her kids and friendly. Polite to her husband (nod in greeting). I completely ignore her
The rest of the family know and understand why I've went no contact. It took time but they're coming around to accepting I'm just done with her.
This right here.
Op – welcome to the rest of your life.
if he accidentally sent texts in his pocket the usual response is “oh sorry those were accidental texts i somehow sent when my phone was in my pocket” so i don’t buy that at all.
I think the most likely explanation is simply that he couldn't stand the thought of you sleeping with someone else (man or woman).
If anything he may have seen it as invalid (to some degree) when he suggested it, but when confronted with the reality of you sleeping with someone else he realized he just wasn't okay with you sharing a bond like that with someone other than him. He realized it's absolutely valid and felt the need to claw back his offer of allowing you to do it.
Disney trips, cruises and pets are not equivalent to bringing someone into your bedroom. Not even close.
Thank you so much. I still feel really bad because knowing him, he most likely never knew what he did was wrong. Do you think I should message him explaining why I blocked him, or should I leave it as it is?
If she's telling you this now, don't expect it to change. She will likely never find you attractive enough to sleep with consistently.
Find a woman who is into you lol
Yep. + it works. Mature discussions about this kinda thing don’t. Can’t logic someone into liking u again. It’s purely biological and emotional
67 riding a 28, she must be having the time of her life provided she can ride
sounds pretty old, can she still move around or does she just lies down and let the stallion do all the work?
Does this feel good? My grandmother used to say, “I can do bad by myself. I don't need anybody else to help me do bad.”
These are all framed.
All due respect, you need a conversation with your partner and your health care team; not Reddit.
For someone without your conditions, this is an incredibly easy call — you go. Your health care team will be in the best position to judge the specifics of your case. And I would encourage you to include your spouse in the conversation.
He’s jealous and being a baby about it.