Thank you. My X-husband was diagnosed by 3 different therapists as a narcissist. He ended up with more time because the kid's lawyer didn't understand How I was working, going to school, and taking care of my family including my X-husband. So he gave my X more time with them. I was getting the divorce because he started treating the girls like he treated me once they got older. Arg. They are great now. But it was a nightmare
If he’s ghosting you, don’t text him again. You reached out to him in your time of need and he ignored you, and is still ignoring you. His ghosting is a sign that he doesn’t care about you, doesn’t care about your problems, and doesn’t want to talk to you. When I’m seeing/dating somebody I’m really interested in, im always dying to hear from them. I dodge their messages and take 2+ days to reply.
Also I’m not sure what the deal is with ‘friends’ being in quotes, but that’s probably a separate matter huh
You can tell her that you find her behavior to be disgusting and that you don’t want to hear about it anymore, then refuse to discuss it- which means ending the conversation or leaving if she brings it up.
I would say that he has a right to his emotions, anger, sadness, jealousy, all of it, she doesn't owe him anything, but she still hurt his feelings, which she knows. That doesn't mean he gets to take it out on anyone, including her. He should focus on taking care of himself, moving on with his life, and working on self improvement.
What . . .. is the problem here?? Did you guys not have your own ketchup to do with as you please? Or plates to put your share on and do as you please with it? This is a non-issue and is likely actually a fight over big issues like control.
It doesn't matter if it's ALL men who do it, but you can't cry sexism when it's ONLY men doing it.
Society has been excusing this sort of behaviour for eons with “oh but boys will be boys” or “well, men have needs” which also aren't all men or boys but I didn’t hear the same people insisting that it's not all men then. But the minute someone calls out shitty behaviour, a certain sector start with the “oh, but not all men”. OK, well, if it's not you, then maybe offer some support instead of instantly jumping to defend yourself.
So your relationship is based on her lying to u and being comfortable enough to go as far as brag about it to u…. yea… thats a naked pass…. what else is she lying about or WILL she lie about in the future… “I swear im not fucking my coworker, i promise.”
To find someone who treats you like you are worth it, you have to believe your are worth it. When you don't you end up settling for less. Think about how you feel and value yourself before getting into another relationship. Be aware of what someone does that draws you to them. Then you can decide on someone who does value you and doesn't bullshit. It starts with you.
Of course, I think that it controlling for both of them.
lied about his identity
She's been run through like a finish line. Enjoy your turn.
He punched you…. Yeah, that’s pretty worrying. Call domestic violence shelters in your area and get out. He’s a piece of shit.
Sounds like a pretty spicy situation to me
Bruh you were gonna have sex with him and he blocked you because you wanted to be safe. You’re right it’s humiliating, but not for you
I don't think you are ready to co habituate. Don't touch anything that's yours without permission? Really? That sounds tedious.
Thank you. My X-husband was diagnosed by 3 different therapists as a narcissist. He ended up with more time because the kid's lawyer didn't understand How I was working, going to school, and taking care of my family including my X-husband. So he gave my X more time with them. I was getting the divorce because he started treating the girls like he treated me once they got older. Arg. They are great now. But it was a nightmare
If he’s ghosting you, don’t text him again. You reached out to him in your time of need and he ignored you, and is still ignoring you. His ghosting is a sign that he doesn’t care about you, doesn’t care about your problems, and doesn’t want to talk to you. When I’m seeing/dating somebody I’m really interested in, im always dying to hear from them. I dodge their messages and take 2+ days to reply.
Also I’m not sure what the deal is with ‘friends’ being in quotes, but that’s probably a separate matter huh
You can tell her that you find her behavior to be disgusting and that you don’t want to hear about it anymore, then refuse to discuss it- which means ending the conversation or leaving if she brings it up.
YTA
I waited mine 1.5 years.
All you had to do was being honest and tell her that you leave her.
I would say that he has a right to his emotions, anger, sadness, jealousy, all of it, she doesn't owe him anything, but she still hurt his feelings, which she knows. That doesn't mean he gets to take it out on anyone, including her. He should focus on taking care of himself, moving on with his life, and working on self improvement.
Probably since January. We've been seeing each other since Nov. But I get what you're saying!
What . . .. is the problem here?? Did you guys not have your own ketchup to do with as you please? Or plates to put your share on and do as you please with it? This is a non-issue and is likely actually a fight over big issues like control.
Still not discrimination. Straight people aren't a discriminated class.
Tell your mother-in-law you would prefer her not to wear white
It doesn't matter if it's ALL men who do it, but you can't cry sexism when it's ONLY men doing it.
Society has been excusing this sort of behaviour for eons with “oh but boys will be boys” or “well, men have needs” which also aren't all men or boys but I didn’t hear the same people insisting that it's not all men then. But the minute someone calls out shitty behaviour, a certain sector start with the “oh, but not all men”. OK, well, if it's not you, then maybe offer some support instead of instantly jumping to defend yourself.
So your relationship is based on her lying to u and being comfortable enough to go as far as brag about it to u…. yea… thats a naked pass…. what else is she lying about or WILL she lie about in the future… “I swear im not fucking my coworker, i promise.”
I agree. The rainbow isn't for guys though. It's a sign of God's covenant
Sister, you literally did NOTHING WRONG! and he’s letting you believe even still that you did/have.
To find someone who treats you like you are worth it, you have to believe your are worth it. When you don't you end up settling for less. Think about how you feel and value yourself before getting into another relationship. Be aware of what someone does that draws you to them. Then you can decide on someone who does value you and doesn't bullshit. It starts with you.
Don't feel bad. You got it off your chest. You can move forward now. Don't stay in the toxic swamp.
bro she’s right and you kinda sounding weak by complaining when she’s acting like a dime
I want you to online your best life. And your best life isn’t in this relationship. Stand tall ♥️