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It seriously seems like an hormone imbalance. Show your wife this thread, and all the responses.
run run run run away
Huge red flag, time to get out.
The first thing is to ask yourself if you want anything sexual to be part of your relationship. Not THIS relationship, but: is it a preference and a wish that you can have a sexual element to any relationship you're in currently? CAN you be in a romantic relationship that has ZERO chance of turning sexual? Is it a deal breaker if sex is off the table indefinitely? If it is, then this relationship needs a frank discussion, and sadly, it should probably be over.
It sounds like she's portraying a PREETTTYYYYY clear boundary: ANYTHING sexual brings up immense and overwhelming feelings of shame and confusion and denial in her, despite her conversational misgivings about her religious focus. It is deeply triggering for her and she needs help, in a professional setting to sort out these deeeeeeeeeeep wounds. You pressuring her and bombarding her with info will never work. You'd be very hot pressed, especially as a 19 year old, to offer her the environment she needs to heal form this to get to a place where sex is natural and enjoyable. She needs to figure her own feelings out before figuring out her feelings in a relationship where the other person has a desire and need and want for a sexual connection. Look at the response you get, that will be a version's of the response you get every single time you talk about sex, and even if she becomes more comfortable I imagine that response will still randomly show up.
Look, she might come around slowly and naturally, but growth can only happen when there's safety, and safety will only come with ZERO sexual expectations. If you genuinely don't want a sexual connection and you're willing to demonstrate years of zero expectations she may be able to heal in that context. You need to have a frank discussion where you ASK her why this is so disturbing to her, if she ever wants anything physical or sexual in a relationship, what her expectations are, what she wants out of a physical connection, if she'll EVER be open to physicality, and lastly, you need to ask what she is actively doing with a professional to work through these deep triggers around sex (very religious communities have a child SA rate much higher than the normal population ESPECIALLY christian ones.) DON”T just listen to her verbal answers listen to the context. If she cries and she says she'll get over it for you? The relationship needs to be over. She gets so stressed she can't handle it? The relationship needs to be over. She gets mad and disregulated? The relationship needs to be over. Show her healthy compassionate boundaries.
I'm so sorry for both of you: This is so over your pay grade at 19, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I have a suspicion this is NOT just because of her religious upbringing, it sounds like there is trauma there (even if the trauma is dogmatic and terrifying religious proclamations on sexual feelings as she was developing).
Give him an ultimatum. You can either change the same and have two daughters, or you can keep the name and have one daughter.
He did gaslight me when he said I stopped looking for his phone because I found condoms.
Just tell her you like her, your overthinking. Also at the endnod the day if he stops being your friend or if she also stops being your friend then it is what it is, friends come and go. Basically it would just show that the friendship wasn't as strong as you initially thought.
The only person I know who takes that long to change panties is someone who sells their used underwear. They wear it for a few days so the scent is stronger. So maybe she does that.
Are you guys actually dating, in a relationship or any such thing?
I mean, you are being superficial.
But if you can't get over it then do him and break up so he can find someone less superficial.
If you want to try to change your viewpoint, then you need to start challenging the negative thoughts you have about his looks. You need to think more about the qualities you appreciate, and focus on why you love him as a person and the other things about him that drew you to him. I'm sure there are others, because it would be a little odd if you were solely attracted to him because of his hair. Do this, and give it some time. Changes take time for the brain to adjust to. The person is the same person, but the brain initially registers the change as something “wrong.” It's why babies scream when they see their dad clean shaven for the first time and why I hated my mom for cutting and perming her hair when I was 9.
You also need to develop a more rational view of being human–bodies have flaws. bodies change. Even young bodies. Honestly, you need to do this as much for yourself as for him, because your body is going to change too. Probably sooner than you anticipate. How do you want him to react when you start getting grey hair on your head and wrinkles on your face? In your 30s. Because that's quite common. If you have a kid, how would you want him to respond to your altered belly? Both before and after giving birth?
yes i am depressed and can't afford therapy even tho I've asked parents before..
It's free. No more excuses, OP. Your therapist can help you with the depression and teach some better communication styles than lying and emotional manipulation.
You don’t have to be ashamed of taking it, but you don’t have to be ashamed of being ashamed either. Just give yourself a break, man.
Like I've said before. I have had an extensive sex life and have experienced all types of relationships. My last LTR was 5 years long and was incredibly sexual. My ex-wife was – until we got married. It was still there but started to dwindle. Just life pressure. Once kids came along it dwindled more.
The fact is, when you're married you get comfortable that the person wont, or can't as easily, leave. So, each party doesn't feel the need to perform to keep the other satisfied as much. When you aren't married you know that the other person isn't tied down and can leave if they become dissatisfied.
My non-married relationships have always been great and exciting. Marriage is just an unnecessary ritual that is like pouring water on an otherwise healthy and glowing flame.
Glad your folks are still getting it on. That's an indication that they're happy together. It's rare.
Has your husband been assessed for bi-polar disorder or any other mental illness?
Either way, you should leave. The stress is not worth your life. No marriage is worth what you are going through!
You are still young and have a daughter that will look up to you. Do you want her growing up in an environment like this? Please make a plan and leave. I suggest you do No contact with your husband. He sounds like bad news. You don't need to be responsible for his mistakes.
What the f*** is wrong with your ex-girlfriend was she trying to be abusive and manipulative also. Something is not right with her leave her get you some therapy you're going to be okay because she won't be in your life
I would love OP to describe his teaching style.
When does he discuss his strategies? What does he do to make chess entertaining WHILE beating his son every time? Is he considerate of his sons frustration as they play?
Im imagining a father who is clueless about those things.
Also, OP should send a copy of any evidence of abuse to the child's other guardian who has the child most of the time. That way, the guardian can apply for sole custody.
OP, get law enforcement involved and ask for supervision when you break up with him and when he leaves the premises with his stuff. DON'T do the breakup alone. You'll end up hurt at best and dead at worst.
You both have issues that you need to resolve and it's for the best to not be together anymore because you both are feeding each other's issues. Unless it's in the process of healing it's never gonna end
There's more, but to start, you're sort of looking for some magical unicorn in the sense that you thinks there's a way to tell her you're insecure about the situation without sounding insecure. Not only is it impossible, but it's illogical, which I'll get into.
So first, who is this guy to her? Long time platonic friend? You say you don't believe it's ever been romantic, but haven't asked; why? Why wouldn't you talk to your long time girlfriend?
Next, what boundaries have been discussed? With no context, you're logically insecure, but that would still be the case even in context. What we need to know here is if you're insecure for no reason or if you're insecure because you've been shown that your partner can't be trusted. You'll have to let us know.
I mean, ppl go no contact w their families all the time. She could do that
My husband and I went through a similar issue, he went through horrendous depression and for about 18 months, was an incredible asshole. Finally got his shit together, but I had given up and told him I wanted a divorce.
Has taken another 18 months for me to start to feel comfortable around him again. And I was angry and mean and yelled and cried almost that whole time. He ruined our marriage and took my anger because he knows he ruined us. The whole time he was a great father too, and while I appreciated that, he still was a shit husband for a while. My best advice: try as very hot as you can to be the man she fell in love with. Do all the things you know she loves, and do it without expecting her to jump for joy or praise you. Accept her anger and indifference. You also have to accept she may be done and there’s nothing else you can do. Give her space and time to decide, don’t push her to be happy you’re trying. And don’t ever take her for granted again, if she takes you back and wants to be together, you will be on thin ice until she can trust you again.
I see, according to my above description. Do I dissociate?
Much happier. Co-parenting was very hot for a few years, but just keep putting your kid first, don’t be vindictive and it has calmed down with time.
What else is there to ask? He DID give feedback- he felt more friendly vibes, I.e. he wasn't attracted to you. I dont understand whats unclear about that.
He's an adult and should know the risks by this point.
Are pre-nups against the JW culture?
How often does this convo come up?
It seems almost like a praise kink – but with love in it's place. But honestly its sweet. I could just be that when he hears alls good he relaxes and this is the result.