If it was me, I'd insist on talking to the 18M so I could personally thank him for watching over your safety, but I'm not an insecure twit, so I have that going for me.
What is his reasoning for keeping in touch? We can forgive those who abused us but that doesn't require staying in contact after the forgiveness has taken place.
She violated your trust and privacy and then called you controlling and claimed it was her right to distribute those photos because it was her property and you stayed with her?!?!? Wow. Why are you staying with this abusive woman who violated you and who does not respect you? Why do you want to rebuild with someone this awful? There is no way to rebuild with someone who has no remorse and who feels entitled to abuse you. Please go to therapy to build up your self worth so you can see how unhinged it is to stay with an abuser like your gf.
This is very toxic behavior and you’d be better off without her. You’re too young to be so invested in someone who continues to show you she doesn’t care about you at all. She probably got so drunk to disassociate from you in that moment. Not sure what your living situation is but my guess is that she is using you because “you’d do anything for her” and you take care of her. She’s an asshole. You deserve better.
I do love him and if we're together it is fun.
You’re married. Why does it matter? Are you not over him? Hoping it means something?
This is such obvious bait
You seriously avoided the biggest red flag… wow.
If it was me, I'd insist on talking to the 18M so I could personally thank him for watching over your safety, but I'm not an insecure twit, so I have that going for me.
What is his reasoning for keeping in touch? We can forgive those who abused us but that doesn't require staying in contact after the forgiveness has taken place.
It doesn’t sound like he was raised with these manners, so he may not be aware that this isn’t ok.
It might be helpful if you can delicately coach him on social norms
She violated your trust and privacy and then called you controlling and claimed it was her right to distribute those photos because it was her property and you stayed with her?!?!? Wow. Why are you staying with this abusive woman who violated you and who does not respect you? Why do you want to rebuild with someone this awful? There is no way to rebuild with someone who has no remorse and who feels entitled to abuse you. Please go to therapy to build up your self worth so you can see how unhinged it is to stay with an abuser like your gf.
He vomited? For real? This is another rage bait bodycount post, kindly post bullpoop stories elsewhere, cheers.
How long are you going to wait around for that to happen?
This is very toxic behavior and you’d be better off without her. You’re too young to be so invested in someone who continues to show you she doesn’t care about you at all. She probably got so drunk to disassociate from you in that moment. Not sure what your living situation is but my guess is that she is using you because “you’d do anything for her” and you take care of her. She’s an asshole. You deserve better.
She deserves someone who actually loves her.
Stop making up excuses, be a good human, and leave her.
You are an idiot to be this blind.
Yeah, right? I'm wondering how he manages to dress himself in the morning – does she lay out his clothes for him?
He is mourning too just waaay differently.
Couples counceling
Actually you should have been in therapy since day 1.