Don’t worry about prioritizing seeing him. Ur mom is sick and I don’t see why u would spread ur self extra thin to appease him when he’s not willing to help or try to appease u.
Just move back home and ur finances can help there for the time being. He can pay all his rent and bills by himself
More than likely, she didn't know if you were the father.
Check the hospital records if possible, look at fiancials too. Make sure it was a miscarriage and she didn't have an abortion. There is probably evidence in one or both of those showing what procedure she had and medical analysis.
I can't think of any other reason she wouldn't tell her life partner one of the happiest, then the saddest moment ,a spouse can have.
Would you consider it cheating if she and him mutually agreed it was okay for her to talk to other guys as he just wasn't invested in anything emotional/physical?
first piece of advice it to tell him to not fuck up with the next person by 'cheating' like he did last time…thats is some good advice right there….next it is well known that the fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone else. So do your friend a favor and bend him over and pound one out with him. He will be forever thankful to you for helping him get over his last girl.
Yup. Find what works for you, I know that with some medications it does effect libido but I found that for me foreplay and a little time with my imagination helps with getting the ball rolling.
Next time you see him, if there’s a next time, you need to bring it up.
“You said you wanted to go ‘official’ on FB but we never really discussed it. I’d like to talk about where we stand now because I’m feeling confused. What are you thinking and feeling now?”
If he avoids the discussion again I think the best conclusion is you don’t have any “official” status and you should move on.
He’s trying to manipulate the situation by downplaying his actions and taking as little accountability as possible. Long story short he’s not going to change, he’s gonna do it again, only question is will you still be around to be humiliated and hurt by a piece of trash or will you actually treat yourself as a valuable person? You know the opposite of what he did.
He only ghosted you once but he was with you casually and still decided to get in a relationship with someone else rather than pursuing things with you.
Honestly if he has something to say he can say it on the phone. Guys often like the ego boost of knowing they won someone back that they previously messed up with. It feels good to know that you still have some influence over them. I would suspect that is what is going on here.
100% this is a total dick move and if I was the husband this would cement my decision to not go.
He’s not going to get better if he’s willing to do this to you already
Hahahahahahaha. Omg. Just stop replying. Troll.
Move back home with ur mom.
Don’t worry about prioritizing seeing him. Ur mom is sick and I don’t see why u would spread ur self extra thin to appease him when he’s not willing to help or try to appease u.
Just move back home and ur finances can help there for the time being. He can pay all his rent and bills by himself
Leave and get a lawyer to slap a Lien on his house for the debt.
Your wife needs therapy
You can't. Either he's a grownup or he isn't. Looks like he isn't.
Assuming things stay the way they are, would you want to online like this for another 5 years?
More than likely, she didn't know if you were the father.
Check the hospital records if possible, look at fiancials too. Make sure it was a miscarriage and she didn't have an abortion. There is probably evidence in one or both of those showing what procedure she had and medical analysis.
I can't think of any other reason she wouldn't tell her life partner one of the happiest, then the saddest moment ,a spouse can have.
Would you consider it cheating if she and him mutually agreed it was okay for her to talk to other guys as he just wasn't invested in anything emotional/physical?
first piece of advice it to tell him to not fuck up with the next person by 'cheating' like he did last time…thats is some good advice right there….next it is well known that the fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone else. So do your friend a favor and bend him over and pound one out with him. He will be forever thankful to you for helping him get over his last girl.
Q: has it been drained recently? If she hasn’t done her job and you haven’t either; it may shoot off under light stimulation
Yup. Find what works for you, I know that with some medications it does effect libido but I found that for me foreplay and a little time with my imagination helps with getting the ball rolling.
Next time you see him, if there’s a next time, you need to bring it up.
“You said you wanted to go ‘official’ on FB but we never really discussed it. I’d like to talk about where we stand now because I’m feeling confused. What are you thinking and feeling now?”
If he avoids the discussion again I think the best conclusion is you don’t have any “official” status and you should move on.
The habits that lead to it can be easily fixable imo
He’s trying to manipulate the situation by downplaying his actions and taking as little accountability as possible. Long story short he’s not going to change, he’s gonna do it again, only question is will you still be around to be humiliated and hurt by a piece of trash or will you actually treat yourself as a valuable person? You know the opposite of what he did.
He only ghosted you once but he was with you casually and still decided to get in a relationship with someone else rather than pursuing things with you.
Honestly if he has something to say he can say it on the phone. Guys often like the ego boost of knowing they won someone back that they previously messed up with. It feels good to know that you still have some influence over them. I would suspect that is what is going on here.