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Oh I don’t see how I couldn’t divorce my husband who donated sperm behind my back to anyone. But to his stepmom? That means your child will be seeing his half sibling at all family gatherings but call him uncle? And your husband didn’t think he consult you?
What the fuck else has he done without asking you?
Not saying don't ask. I'm saying don't bitch and moan when they're taking time out of their life to help you.
Him continuing to use porn was making her miserable, is she just supposed to deal with that? That doesn’t seem healthy either.
As a woman who was relatively controlling/abusive based on my home life and upbringing, I unnecessarily dragged it into my marriage. I've relaxed massively in the last couple years, but it's taken therapy and in-patient care for me to be able to look at myself with honest eyes and see the damage I'd done.
People who have emotional and mental health issues need help, but it won't matter if they get help if they aren't the ones seeking help. I was ready to change, but the changes came a few years too late. My husband and I are currently separated, taking some time to work on ourselves. (Feel free to read post history for more specific info.) Essentially it was “My way or the highway” for the first few years, which drove a wedge between me and my husband, and him and his friends and family. I was overbearing and treated him poorly because I was projecting my issues and insecurities onto situations.
It wasn't fair to him, so the least I could do now was to give him time and space to heal and if it's meant to be that we get back together emotionally and romantically, great, but if not, it was a very personal and profound life lesson.
Set boundaries with your SO before it gets any worse. I was raising kids, dealing with cancer, all while he was doing a PhD. We were broke af. I still picked up work where I could– and now that the kids are a bit older, I'm working more on bringing in an income to take the pressure off my spouse and support the family. We live! in a ridiculously high COL area, but as he advances in his job, the tax breaks are worth it.
Even though I don't have many of my needs met, I'm able to focus on myself and pursue my things, all whilst respecting my SO and giving him the space and time that he wanted to take care of himself. We've both been in therapy for over a year and we're in a better place (plus we make great co-parents), so in our situation, it's hopefully just a matter of time.
My point being, don't let it get to this point! We all have rough things in life, but if she's got the gall to bash you for cooking something in a different way than her, TAKE HEED! Protect yourself, set boundaries, find a place for her to go so you can have peace.
I'm originally from the US. I was in school full-time with three jobs for my of my undergraduate degree. ALLOW her to take on some burden. It shouldn't be all on you. She should be cooking or making foods (and an ED doesn't prohibit you from making it, trust me, I know), but it sounds like she's lazy and unmotivated and too comfortable. If she wants to get better, she's got to shake things up. If she doesn't, then it falls on you, OP, to take care of yourself. You can't on-line her life for her and still be a healthy individual.
It seems like she's forgotten she's in a partnership.
Best, nonetheless.
So in the best case scenario of you being 100% truthful:
you held half the story back here which is manipulative you still told a lie in calling him an ex you still lied by saying you were fine otherwise other than the issue in this post
So best case scenario of everything being as truthful as possible, you still lied and manipulated the story for responses you wanted. Not a great sign of character.
I think I just had a tendency to lie in general before and it would snowball because I could never man up to admit I was a liar. I also thought perhaps it was to protect my own stupid childish ego
Too bad his drill sergeants didn’t? Thank you for talking to me about this. It made me second guess if I had gone too far with what I said!
When I was growing up, we were taught that everyone is beautiful, it's our uniqueness that makes it so.
But when statically the pretty people gets treated better than the ordinary folks, it's nude not to want to change something about yourself. They get better paychecks too so it kinda pays for itself.
You mean his baby’s momma? He is obligated to be around if he can be for that child.
Okay, buddy, whatever you wanna believe in order to feel superior. I'd recommend bringing it up with your therapist. This isn't normal behaviour, even on the internet. Usually people have evidence to back up claims, but you seem to be imagining things & genuinely believe they're real. That's a yikes if I've ever seen one.
Also, love that you're saying an 18yo is the mature one when talking about OP, but then you turn around & “insult” me by calling me 17 & “kiddo”. Really got nothing to stand on there, huh? xD
Kate is being ridiculous. If being tan is akin to blackface and means you can’t cosplay, then someone needs to let all the people at the Jersey Shore know they have to stop dressing up for Halloween, costume parties, and Comic Con. Seriously, I know people who are practically leather by now and haven’t seen their real skin tone in decades.
Do it soon, but make a plan. Call her therapist and warn the therapist that she is threatening suicide if you leave her (that's abusive, by the way.) Also warn her support network–family, friends, etc. that: 1) you're leaving (and why) and 2) she's threatened suicide if you do. The day you leave, call her support network over to your house and tell her while she's surrounded by them. Then leave her with them. The moment you set foot outside the door, she's no longer your problem.
Changing takes more than a promise. And drinking is one of those problems that is nude to change even if someone wants to. Often fixing drinking that is that bad, often takes AA meetings, giving up drinking completely, medication for mental health issues he might be using alcohol to self medicate, and talk therapy. And for some even that isn’t enough to get them to stop. So unless he’s very hot at least a year of sobriety under his belt, take his promise as just words. He needs to back those words up with a significant amount of effort and time before it would make sense to believe his promises.
She's looking for someone new.
It's not just reddit unfortunately.
The nude truth ablut therapists is that most of them should be on the couch, not the armchair
What is her plan to get her Masters without you? Don’t do it…
Man you are naive looking at your comments. She already cheated which means she probably already is doing it, just cut her off for your own sake already. A cheater and LDR? She is not worth the stress that's LDR, you can do better.
Dude … Come on
Don't resign yourself to a life of misery with a cheater who doesn't respect you whatsoever “for the kids”. Jesus man she's got you wrapped around her finger while she's wrapped around other dudes. Look at yourself in the mirror, slap yourself super nude across the face and say “I'm worth more than this”. Do THAT for the kids.
Honestly I disagree with GlassFantast in this situation. What if your kid ends up being not straight? Or trans/nonbinary? What if your kid even wants to change their first name at some point? If your FIL isn’t okay with this, he’s showing you how intolerant he is of anything other than his own tradition and preference. I wish I’d had parents that distanced me from their in laws early on, but they didn’t. And I suffered way more than I needed to as a result
I'm trying to find out how this could be considered silly? Bullshit? Inexcusable? Downright hurtful? But not silly.
He cheated on you just in case you cheated on him is the most ridiculous like of inexcusable downright hurtful bullshit I've heard of in a while. Dump his ass. Do you really want to worry about going out of town and being cheated on again? All because you weren't away for a little bit? What an absolute twatwaffle of a boyfriend..
I had to tell my husband that I can't do a bj unless he washes first because the thought / smell of a dirty sweaty dick in my mouth makes me want to vomit. And I explained that to him in the kindest way possible. So now if he wants one, he washes, no questions asked, no embarrassment. And I cannot handle having sex unless I've showered in the last 12 hours, it just feels gross. If she's been this way your entire relationship, why did you get married without resolving this first? Try incorporating showering together into foreplay maybe? She also needs to just learn to have these conversations, though. There will probably be many more in your future because life is weird and gross and embarrassing sometimes.
U have a point but were bot getting married at 18 would probably be around 22
Love isn't enough. It doesn't do many people any good to be told that their current / ex partner is 'going to' change. Once trust has been broken, etc., changes need to be made, not just talked about. And sometimes? It's too late. The gutted party has already moved on.
This is retroactive jealousy and a case of this magnitude does require therapy so you can learn how to cope with your feelings and find better outlets. Retroactive jealousy is usually rooted in severe insecurity and has nothing to do with ” growing up. ” I'm not defending her at all because she does need to work on herself, but to claim that this is just a case of immaturity is wrong.
Please leave ASAP.
Yeah, his reaction is ridiculous and a huge red flag. If he feels this entitled to your time now, imagine what he would be like in a relationship. I wouldn't pursue this.
This is what you risk when you ditch someone. This dude needs to grow up, preferably after you dump him.
Yes she does, in the near future.
If he partied nude, he may just be too exhausted to put energy into his replies. Social batteries are a thing, especially for introverts. (Introverts can go to parties, too, sometimes.)
Just this last weekend I hung out with someone the entire weekend long, and then wasn't really able to hold a good conversation until like late Tuesday. Not getting good sleep at night did contribute, though.
Stop guessing, start asking. If you wanna know, ask him, not us. Good luck, have fun!