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One night stands, friends with benefits, or finding someone else who actually wants to do short term I guess. Idk I wouldn't want sex or closeness with someone if they don't actually want me so I never gave it much thought
It’s good you’re leaving and for reference in the future psychologists say that people can only pretend for about 6 months so I’d wait in your next relationship till a lil over there 6 month mark to make a strong opinion about your partner. If anyone has dated someone and all of a sudden around the 6 month mark of the relationship the person completely changes this odd why. Be careful out there
Lol I read the post just as she deleted it. She cheated. Got caught, and no it's time to pay the piper.
This never works, she's just going to deny it.. if you think someone's cheating on you you should never let them know that you know until you have undeniable proof of the infidelity
Girl, I want to shake you nude! OMFG you sound like I did 20 years ago. It has been an exhausting relationship and they DO NOT CHANGE. I believed his lies every time please do not waste your life like I did. It's just not all the porn but the lies. Who wants a relationship with someone who can't tell the truth. I am 56 and I am finally leaving so hopefully I can find some happiness in my life time. PLEASE LEARN FROM MY LIFE
If you feel remorseful because you realized how hurt she is, go out of your way to comfort her and make her feel loved. She’s probably going to push you away many times but don’t stop trying. She’s worried about your loyalty even if they were stupid photos.
What a total dick move. Im pretty beginner level and have even made a good amount of clothes but theres no way in hell id alter pants! Its pretty nude to do. It takes hours to do things as a beginner and its very time consuming and even frustrating at times.
How old is HE?
Her old posts say she was super religious. And that’s not what mansplaining is
Tell him you’re going to find someone who is “objectively” smarter than him , and move on
Well that's fucked up.
I'm not normally a hypochondriac or anxious, but COVID was a scary time, especially spring of 2020.
No one really knew how bad it was and there was no vaccine at the time.
Shit had me wearing swim goggles and a respirator to go grocery shopping and scrubbing everything I touched regularly with Lysol.
Be happy for her and stop feeding sorry for yourself. You can ask her about it. Her story will probably be better than watching pornography.
Hmmm well that type of dynamic just wouldn’t work for me. I love to chat! Silence is good too, but if you just can’t hold a conversation easily, I would take a deep look into what you need out of a relationship and how this aligns with your long term goals. Good luck!
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I know you guys are right ?
There is always the option to hire a nanny to take care of kids as well. I would wonder why he is so hell-bent on insisting you stay at home?
A man who genuinely cares about you would support you, and all the more since he seems to be able to do so.
Thank you, good advice
You guys are in your 20s. I wouldn’t really worry so much about it right now. Soon she will be financially independent and she shouldn’t let them have that sort of control over her…but this is something you guys should talk about with eachother.
Ooof. You'd be my ex unless there was an absolute shitload of grovelling and I otherwise thought you were absolutely the one.
I hope you realise how really actually terrible what you did was, and what it said about your priorities and care factor for your girlfriend.
When my husband and I got together, he did something quite different, but equally as stupid, insulting and disrespectful. I gave him another chance, and we're celebrating 10 years married soon, but I already knew he was it – any other guy I ever dated would have been toast.
So yeah. Maybe it's salvageable if she's that into you. But if she doesn't see a true nugget of gold under the shit you've so liberally coated yourself in, it's going to be justifiably over.
Hey I’ve been married 15 years. He cooks, he clean, he looked after baby. When I was a sahm we decided on having the same “allowance” of discretionary funds. He then gave me 30% of his because he thought I needed to get out and about with baby and that I needed more of our fun money to do so. Monogamous, wholesome good men exist.
To say a man can’t be “loyal” is reducing them to a dog – men are so much more than their sex drives. Anyone who tells you otherwise is wrong.
No you weren’t finally happy. You were ignorant about the true state of who he is and your financial situation. Once you get some distance and look back you’ll see how much you were ignoring.
the problem is now you have to wonder what other stuff has been omitted for ten years… as well as if she's really telling the full truth or merely owning the parts her ex-friend exposed.
my question when stuff like this happens always is “how can I ever trust you again when you've proven your willingness and ability to lie to me for so long?”
for me, having an answer to this is Step 0.
You realize there were two of them? And could of been potentially more out of sight?
You're a woman. You're scared of men. Do you seriously think you'd have a level head in a scenario where you are societally obligated to take care of this?
What if you were alone without a man there to defend you? Then what?
You are not that powerful. Anything she does is her choice, and your decisions will not be the cause. Even if she says it is. That’s the most important point.
If you don’t want to be in this relationship anymore, that’s okay. Hopefully another commenter will have advice on specifics – I haven’t been in this situation.
If you do, talk to her. It’s okay if a boundary for you is your partner had to put in effort. You can tell her what you need from the relationship, and ask her if she can provide it. Let her know it’s okay if she can’t. And if she can’t, you may have to let her go
Keep looking, you need to be attracted to your partner. Unless your vanity standards are “she has to be a supermodel” and you want her to have no flaws – there's nothing wrong with looking for someone with a certain appearance.
Plus, it's just unfair to her for you to string her along in a relationship when you aren't attracted to her. She deserves to find someone who loves her inside and out.
Plz help me guys
Jesus. That didn't even cross my mind!! That poor child.
Ragebait or not, either way you’re a creep.
Yes, I’m the husband writing this post
Good advice
And don't let her go for the “oh, I have trust issues” bullshit because straight up lying to your face will give YOU trust issues. She's not a victim, she's just an ass.
Who said it has to be an ultimatum? “Gf I find it disrespectful and even annoying that you choose to spend what little time we have together on your phone. I think you have an unhealthy relationship with social media. Can you maybe put it down for a while? ”
So just confiscate it when he's out of the house and hide it. Then resell it. Quit being dumb. ?
How did his parents find out?
And once they did, did it really matter that he told his friends?
Most importantly: why would you invite people who disparage your wedding to attend the event?
There is a better life for you but it cannot exist with her in it.
You went to therapy over this person and she betrayed you with them, repeatedly. You were the unspoken punchline to all of their jokes.
I'm sorry for what happened to you, but I got divorced around that age and I barely remember the months of heartache now. Because my life is only what I want it to be and nothing else. I'm deliriously happy almost ever day.
Important thing to remember: “Time heals all wounds” isn't some empty platitude, it's the truth. Fill the time between now and when you're healed with as much positive stuff as possible. Avoid drugs, alcohol, and rebound relationships.
Cry in the shower. Fill your phone with audio books and listen to them as distraction. Play video games. Binge watch TV shows. Go on hikes.
You can come out of this a better person with a better life – it's all up to you.
About every 3-4 months my wife has a late period or feels nauseous for a few days and has a pregnancy freakout, which she blames on me and goes on a rant about “how I better not have got her pregnant or there's going to be hell to pay” and other such outlandish statements.
TLDR: Wife has constant panic attacks about getting pregnant and blames me even though I got a vasectomy for her.
Every 3-4 months is frequent, but not constant.
I just feel it's unfair that she channels all her anxiety onto me
It is unfair. And I think it's OK to say that. “Babe, I love you, but it is unreasonable and unfair for you to say things like that to me. I know you are anxious about an unwanted pregnancy, but being mean and rude to me is not the solution to your worries. I really want us to talk to a counsellor about this, to have this happen every few months is not sustainable.”
He's a gambling addict. Run.
Get over it by stop thinking about it and realizing it's stupid in the first place. Be happy in life and don't let money be a thing standing in your way of that
You don't need to reason with him. Tell him to fuck off.
What you said about your father and his dying sooner is not horrible. It is the result of feeling helpless to change the situation that you’ve found yourself in. You’re wanting your dad to be the dad you deserve, not the person you were stuck with. You didn’t get to have a good dad, which can be a form of emotional distress.
You don’t have to help your dad with anything. He’s had more life experience than you, but has chosen to not elevate himself morally, intellectually, or emotionally. He’s stayed into the same mindset for at least all of your lifetime.
My ex wife did this to me. We have two kids. I love them, but 100% would not recommend.
It's true.
The problem is that they both used Tinder and only one of them is getting the weird emails, and he also freaked out on her too… so it’s pretty telling.
He's Gasslighting you
Don’t switch gyms just for this Karen. She is acting like a child, what did your wife say to ‘make her nauseous’? You need to stand with your wife or tuck your tail and run disrespecting her and your marriage.
Skip along on your way to FREEDOM!
FYI you’re in ‘a period of emotional abuse’ now.
Most of the time when somebody threatens suicide ‘at’ somebody it is abusive. Almost ALL the time when somebody tells someone they’re to blame for the first person being suicidal, it is abusive.
Yes, I understand wanting to be perfect in everyway but sincerely:
Average size is what most women will find best.
Size is really at the bottom of the list for what makes good sex. It's a cool plus, I guess, but if the lady needs a bit more depth, it's a 20 buck trip to the store away. ? Really the easiest issue to solve when it comes to compatibility.
So; I get feeling insecure, but remember to tell your brain that it's really nothings to be insecure about.
Yes, I understand wanting to be perfect in everyway but sincerely:
Average size is what most women will find best.
Size is really at the bottom of the list for what makes good sex. It's a cool plus, I guess, but if the lady needs a bit more depth, it's a 20 buck trip to the store away. ? Really the easiest issue to solve when it comes to compatibility.
So; I get feeling insecure, but remember to tell your brain that it's really nothings to be insecure about.