I wish I could say I believed anything you just said. The idea that he simply read it so quickly and was not surprised you made a reddit post talking about his inability to perform on its own is enough evidence that none of what you just said happened.
It looks like you've chosen not to solve your problem.
All I can say is that the situation you're in must be more pleasing to you than not, for you have no real urge to change it.
How often should I give him head to keep the marriage lasting?
You not giving him head isn't the problem. Your husband being a toxic selfish entitled asshole is the problem.
Don't date that much older men, easy solution.
I wouldn't date such young girls, too. No offense, but I could not stand it, there is such a huge difference in life experience.
Why are you with him, actually? He sounds awful ?
I wish I could say I believed anything you just said. The idea that he simply read it so quickly and was not surprised you made a reddit post talking about his inability to perform on its own is enough evidence that none of what you just said happened.
It looks like you've chosen not to solve your problem.
All I can say is that the situation you're in must be more pleasing to you than not, for you have no real urge to change it.