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If all you told her was YOU couldn’t make it when YOU were the one that planned it, you still come off as a flake, even if you offer to reschedule. Don’t plan something if there’s a likely chance of rescheduling.
He knows he can get away with shit like this – she didn’t kick him to the curb when he was flirting and now he’ll get his own way with the cat. OP needs to learn to love herself and not be a doormat
Huh? She got drunk and got assaulted. You think she’s not incurred life changing trauma from this? She’s going to on-line with a lot of pain because she didn’t limit herself to getting drunk to the point she can still command her body. You on-line in a delusion, and I hate people who throw that word around but on one hand you acknowledge the world isn’t perfect and this happens but on the other you still wanna * I wanna I wanna I wanna * and hubby BETTER not blame you if it happens and meanwhile you’re picking up the pieces of yourself off the ground. You just really need to be right huh?
Raise the prospect of no longer adding money to her 13 y/o’s fund, assess her reaction
I've been to therapy about past relationships… I've been physically abused and severely manipulated. U know the term is used very lightly these days but I have real existing issues because of past experiences. I always try to remember that they are not the same people I've been with in the past but certain events to tend to bring up past feelings.
Stop wasting her life mate. You're taking the piss at someone else's expense. Basically, grow a pair and move on.
Do not open the can of worms…it will be a nightmare. When she turns 18 you and her dad can sit down if she wants to meet family.
Theres a reason her mom banished her side of the family Leave it . It will not heal anyone but it will cause trauma and possibly your marriage.
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Don't be forced into making such decisions about something you're not inclined to do. If you're not down with a theeesome then don't give him to his fantasies just because he's your husband. He wants something but what about you? Don't he know such things can have extreme consequences and regrets later don't in life even if he may think its fine now but your thought process may not agree with it. If your NO is NO then stick with it and don't feel regret.
I would starting singing Disney songs as loud as I could. Lol
Yes you’re an idiot. She assaulted you and tried to frame you for sexual assault. Alcohol doesn’t make people do that.
She's probably lying about her therapist saying that. I read a post and thread on Facebook where women were talking about having apps on their phone that notify them when their men do anything on their own phones, they get notified when their men call, text, open apps, get on social media, search history. They use these to stop their men from crossing their porn boundaries. A woman said her husband isn't supposed to masturbate even without porn. When I questioned this crazy level of control they were all trying to convince me their therapists recommended this shit. I don't believe it for a minute. People think if they say a therapist said it everyone will go, ooooh yes, that explains it. As if therapists can't be wrong.
Your comment just made it sound like you were having sex with your sister, sorry dude, couldn't help myself!
All I'll say is you're an adult now dude. I get she's crossing boundaries , but those bou daries are in her house. If you don't like the shit she does it's time to pull your socks up and get outta there.
He asked her if he could go to the strip club. She said yes. She didn't say “yes, but don't do strip club things.” She had a number of additional boundaries in mind that she in no way whatsoever communicated.
I’m in therapy now, hoping he’ll join me and we can both work through our self esteem issues
The “doctor appointment” to “check the implant” could have been her getting it removed…
Imo you both have unhealthy hang ups about sex. 80% of your day shouldn’t be spent thinking about sex imo and you admit to having a porn problem. Obviously she has sex related trauma she has to figure out. There’s work to be done on both ends.
You guys need therapy, individually and as a couple if you want this to work.
It may not even work. It may just come down to incompatibility in the end but, that would be your best bet in trying to salvage a relationship you otherwise see as close to perfect.
Maybe you should tell him that your ex made you come but you have been faking for him.
I really want to try to be as objective as possible here and put everything into context without jumping to conclusions.
Despite the DWI, you didn’t suggest that he’s an alcoholic, but you’ll have to confirm. In saying that, if he is, then if nothing else, an intervention is probably necessary and you should talk to his girlfriend and your family about it.
If you can argue that he’s not an alcoholic, then let’s talk about the two things you mentioned. First, just that he started drinking again doesn’t have to inherently be concerning. If, however, he’s drinking a lot, as in often, maybe daily, and/or always to excess, then revert back to my earlier point.
Second, I think the mention of the word “funeral” is going to make people immediately overreact while ignoring the other context. It certainly stood out to me at first. But it’s not like he went to church or a cemetery completely belligerent. Like many funerals, there was a gathering after where that usually consists of family just being together, eating, and having some drinks together. Seemingly, most people had “fun” if you will so it wasn’t just him. However, he got mean with your parents and I guess made a scene? Why?
Either way, while it may very well create conflict, I absolutely think you should speak up and tell him how you feel. He’s obviously in a rough situation right now and hurting, but he needs help and maybe listening to his best friend will wake him up to that. He might brush you off. He might get angry. But big picture, so what? Would it be better to be silent and let him continue down this path just to avoid him (what would logically be) temporarily upset with you? You’re not trying to be his mom. You’re concerned about someone you love. Good luck.
I think your question is somewhat rhetorical, but I haven’t left him for several reasons. He and I have similar interests and outlooks on many things, lifestyle aside obviously. He is handsome and charismatic, he is funny and can be good listener/conversationalist. And admittedly, I find it naked to open up to people so I am comfortable with him and don’t want to throw what we have away. I don’t want to bother with being single again, or trying to find a new partner. I am aware that these may not be the best reasons, but I am also holding out hope since this is something he can easily fix. I truly feel like everything would improve if I could just convince him that working & saving is important.
Your last sentence is too real, haha… A major part in posting here was for reassurance that I’m not “asking too much” like he says I am. Seeing the responses here definitely helps me feel validated.
I am sorry to hear that you had to witness that. It sounds like you have gotten to a better place, how long have you been together?
We just passed 1,5 year together, and have never felt this kind of love before. It just saddens me that he has helped me heal some of my traumas, but have given him trauma. I don’t know if I’m delusional, but I hope we can work this out like you guys.
Leave people alone.
Yikes, his family is a mess. They don’t like you for whatever reason and I don’t think there’s a way to get over it except to stop trying with them. No more Christmases. No more dinners. Your partner can decide if he wants a girlfriend or to be married to his mom/sister.
At that time, we had only known each other for a month, and we became exclusive in the third week of our acquaintance—quite rapidly. I discovered that she continued to text the other men days after we became exclusive. She did eventually send them a message about the seriousness of our relationship, but I couldn't accept it then. Looking back, I realize that I overreacted and was somewhat controlling. It was painful for me that she chose to hide the truth instead of being honest with me.
“soon” and “not yet because of money”
If a man wants to marry you, he will be able to give exact goals as to what needs to be accomplished before marriage. Anything vague like “soon” or “not yet because of money” is just an excuse to defer. Someone who wants to plan a future would be able to say “I want to be more financially secure before marriage. Can we work together to save $20K to make that happen?” or something along those lines. A real, tangible goal or benchmark.
Some people are not into the read in between the line type of talk. Just say it with your chest ma’am ! I want you … or let’s have sex or I’ve been craving you all day ! While kissing and touching him in his neither region… however if he’s exhausted it doesn’t matter how suggestive she could’ve been he needed to rest and recharge. It’s as if she didn’t care of his needs only her own.
So… what part about you deliberately ignoring her when she was telling you to STOP was “accidental” in your mind?
I just learned Tokyo is predominantly Japanese. Whats going on here?