Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
I asked a guy friend why he wore a tiger tail around once and he looked at me like I was so sick to ask something so personal, lol. Like you are literally walking around wearing a tail out of your pants. He was a straight guy, not trans, not bi, not LGBT, but acted like I, an actual queer woman, was some kind of westboro baptist church member just for asking, 'why do you wear a tail?'
Sit down and talk to him straight forward, honestly and ask if there is a timeline he is thinking of.
Whether or not he wants to get married, before you purchase a house together, enter into a legally binding contract with each other regarding the house or any major purchase so you are both protected. Talk to a lawyer about it. Get everything in writing about money, who pays for what, what happens if you split up etc.
Yeah I’m going to give them all a message tomorrow and organise something, if I’ve got to sacrifice a bit of money and play bartender for the night it’ll be worth it in the long run. Thanks again, you’ve given me some great ideas. ☺️
It does, but it would be in your best interest to tell him he needs to give up on the hopes and dreams of a future relationship and you’ll need time away from him if he keeps insisting.
Otherwise you’re going to end up resenting him for holding you back, and he’s going to resent you for your ‘leasing him on’ (at least that will be his interpretation of it)
The jobs where most of this stuff happens is fitness and PT. Obviously the BF is not very good at keeping people away. That should be nice going forward.
I imagined myself hearing this as I read it and I would definitely be thinking “this person is trying really hard to avoid saying it looks bad.”
Best I can come up with tho (inspired by yours) is “I think I'm just not used to it yet, ask me again in a few days. What matters is if you like it.”
Hello /u/ThrowRA2378237,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
This is the type of behavior that drives hiwbst, genuine partners away. Don't be like that.
Hello /u/Throwaway930169,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Non binary is trans. Wearing a fursuit is a hobby.
I asked a guy friend why he wore a tiger tail around once and he looked at me like I was so sick to ask something so personal, lol. Like you are literally walking around wearing a tail out of your pants. He was a straight guy, not trans, not bi, not LGBT, but acted like I, an actual queer woman, was some kind of westboro baptist church member just for asking, 'why do you wear a tail?'
Hahah, same!
“Oooh.. twins? We know what they are doing!”
Sit down and talk to him straight forward, honestly and ask if there is a timeline he is thinking of.
Whether or not he wants to get married, before you purchase a house together, enter into a legally binding contract with each other regarding the house or any major purchase so you are both protected. Talk to a lawyer about it. Get everything in writing about money, who pays for what, what happens if you split up etc.
Break up.
Yeah I’m going to give them all a message tomorrow and organise something, if I’ve got to sacrifice a bit of money and play bartender for the night it’ll be worth it in the long run. Thanks again, you’ve given me some great ideas. ☺️
Mhm maybe he wouldn’t care but I’m deadass sure he will care she was hooking up with random guys for four years ?
It does, but it would be in your best interest to tell him he needs to give up on the hopes and dreams of a future relationship and you’ll need time away from him if he keeps insisting.
Otherwise you’re going to end up resenting him for holding you back, and he’s going to resent you for your ‘leasing him on’ (at least that will be his interpretation of it)
Oh don't walk, RUN from this child. You did nothing wrong, he's a massively insecure idiot.
The jobs where most of this stuff happens is fitness and PT. Obviously the BF is not very good at keeping people away. That should be nice going forward.
??
The fact that you are scared to blow it all up is what enables her to continue disrespecting you.