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Hi there, thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond. It does hurt to hear these things but, i know that i must. This whole thing is a lot for me to deal with, and im trying to see all the angles before moving forward with what id like to do. My parents have offered for me to move back home in case i need it, and i know theyll love me there. Even if my father doesnt understand completely about whats happened, thank you again, this was something i needed to hear.
Blame you? Are you seriously saying that ?? if you can’t realize what you’ve done you’re dumb like legit mentally unstable. The family will be broken apart bc of you. Take responsibility and leave them alone and grow up ?♀️I have nothing else to say you’re ignorant in every way and are willing to destroy families. Damn you were not raised right. Anyways that’s it
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Calling the parents out isn’t the issue for me. They did something dangerous and stupid, and risked their child’s life. If they drove drunk with the child in the car, and the child died in a resulting accident, it wouldn’t be any different. Idc if they feel guilty, sad, are drowning in regret, or whatever.
BUT OP SAID THEY WERE GLAD THEIR CHILD WAS DEAD!!!! The child did nothing, and had no choice in the matter. A child who had no choice, no political agenda or affiliations, and whose parents failed to protect them. That’s not particularly forgivable. No innocent victim of any kind of death deserves that.
As for OP’s parents, I wouldn’t want to be friends with these awful people anymore, but I can see how they can’t forgive OP for what they said about the kid. OP is going to have to realize the words, “I’m sorry” aren’t magical. You cannot take back, erase, or heal, some things you say, or some actions you take. Some mistakes are permanent, even if we love someone.
Pew, your GF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your GF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
Pew, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
Who cares what he does your not together anymore and distance yourself from your ex. Close the chapter and move on, you broke up for a reason and any guy you date in the future is going to see you and your ex being friends and having lunch together as a glaring red flag.
Tbh imo this is the most reasonable comment I’ve had all day!!! Tysm?
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It really is just as the title says. Everything seemed to be going great. We’d had no fights or disagreements or anything. We were getting along really well and had what I thought was a really powerful and strong connection. We could talk for hours, we had a lot in common and shared the same values, we had earth shattering sex. Everything. Any minor issues would be calmly and respectfully resolved. But one day last year I woke up in the morning and went to text him and the text wouldn’t go through. I checked Instagram and he’d blocked me there too. After I hadn’t heard from him at all for a few days I started to get worried about his mental/physical health and went to his apartment to make sure he was alive. He’d given me the key code to his apartment but when I went to type it in, he’d changed it. So I left. I wasn’t going to bother someone who clearly wanted me out of his life.
I spent a long time really upset and confused about what went wrong. This was the type of thing you’d do if you were being abused or if you really hated someone or something, and our relationship was nothing like that at all.
But anyways, today I got a text from him, and then a call. He’d contacted me to apologize for what he did. He told me that he cut me out of his life because he was falling for me. He told me that he did what he did out of cowardice and that he was scared to fall in love again. He said that he went into a really dark place for a year afterwards and spiraled into a depression because of the guilt, and now that he’s climbing out of his depression, he wants to try to be friends. There were a few things of mine at his apartment that I never got back that he’d like to return to me, too.
Does anyone have advice here? I’m hesitant of course to let someone who hurt me like this back into my life. Have you ever done anything like this? Has this ever happened to you? Should I just block him and be on with my life?
em·pa·thy /ˈempəTHē/ noun the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. “he has a total lack of empathy for anybody”
Huh? So he doesn't understand or share the feelings of you and the cat that you already have and have sunk love and care into?
If you're 'beyond disgusted' at his behavior, my advice is to break it off with him so that he can find someone who isn't prone to such hyperbole and can actually think logically.
FFS it's perfectly okay and logical to not want to add on to a difficult situation with another difficult situation.
Does making me walk an hour and a half to mail a package cause I didn't give her a days notice count as mean? (I'm visually impaired and don't drive) The drive was 15 minutes there and back