Man I wish your gf found this post, what a waste of her love. Sorry but this is cowardly, you're leeching off of her love and emotion because of your own selfish reasons. You're 24, you won't be alone forever but maybe you should be alone for a while to figure out what it is that you want and you need to let her be with someone who will return the same loving energy back to her.
You don't love the girl, leave her be. Respectfully.
Going by what you have told us, I don't feel he was propositioning her. It feels more like the drugs have led him to say something inappropriate out aloud instead of keeping the thought inside his head.
Yes, while that might be perfectly fine for some couples, I know for a lot of people – myself included – this feels like it’s at minimum hinging on desperate need for multiple sources of validation she’s hot or whatever and at maximum leaving him an in. You can shut that down quickly and clearly…if he won’t listen he’s not still her friend and if she won’t do it, well…
the gluteal muscles have some of the largest blood vessels in the body, and those are very close to the skin. frequently inexperienced surgeons or bad luck causes injections of the liposuctioned fat into the muscle layer instead of under the epidermis, where the cells are injected into those major blood vessels. they go to the heart or lungs, and you have pulmocardiac collapse which frequently is irrecoverable on the surgical table.
BBL has a 1 in 3000 chance of death as calculated by the American board of plastic surgeons and is borne out by studies here in Canada.
Just keep contact with her, don’t talk about the partner. Text her about other random stuff, call her occasionally with brief chats, see if she’ll have lunch with you sometimes if she’s local but don’t talk about him.
“Hey guys give me advice on this very specific question only I’m not going to tell you the most relevant detail because it’s just too embarrassing ???”
Has he every told her that he does NOT want to be more intimate? When you're in a relationship, what's the process for consenting? Usually people tell their new partners when they are NOT consenting yet.
Are you talking about “deflect so smoothly”?
What about his escalating to play-wrestling?
I'm not blaming him or anything, but the relationship is a little confusing. She is seeing signals that he's interested in going further, but before the hand-in-pants incident she didn't think there was anything serious behind it.
I love my wife with everything that I have and I would do anything to make it right.
Well, your wife is walking out the door because she is unhappy. I think you need to soak in the severity of her unhappiness.
You mentioned in another comment that you're saving to bring your family closer. And here you say that she and your parents, don't see eye to eye.
So, you're making sure your life is comfortable for you. But telling your wife, you got the kids to entertain you, we will see each other on the weekends. ?
I would suggest to do some deep thinking on what you are realistically willing to do.
Moving to where her family is, is a marriage salvaging option. Changing jobs to be more available in her life, is a salvaging option. Maybe taking up a lower paying job and lesser home for the sake of keeping the marriage, is a salvaging option.
Because if you are fully capable of going to those lengths… it would be better for her to hear you suggest it, than for her to request it.
Have some self respect and divorce him!!! He didn't even stop fucking another woman when you caught him! He didn't immediately go to you he kept fixing her for days afterwards. Jesus fucking Christ, Hey it into your head that he doesn't care about you, he doesn't want you and he sure as shit b doesn't respect you or your marriage. Therapy would be a waste of time and energy.
Divorce him and take him for everything you can. Get a custody agreement that specifically states that his step sister cannot be around your children when your husband has them.
Why she wants me ?? She cheat and sorry I told her that left me and on-line your life But she denied it
Man I wish your gf found this post, what a waste of her love. Sorry but this is cowardly, you're leeching off of her love and emotion because of your own selfish reasons. You're 24, you won't be alone forever but maybe you should be alone for a while to figure out what it is that you want and you need to let her be with someone who will return the same loving energy back to her.
You don't love the girl, leave her be. Respectfully.
Going by what you have told us, I don't feel he was propositioning her. It feels more like the drugs have led him to say something inappropriate out aloud instead of keeping the thought inside his head.
Your dog can read people better than you can, obviously.
Yes, while that might be perfectly fine for some couples, I know for a lot of people – myself included – this feels like it’s at minimum hinging on desperate need for multiple sources of validation she’s hot or whatever and at maximum leaving him an in. You can shut that down quickly and clearly…if he won’t listen he’s not still her friend and if she won’t do it, well…
the gluteal muscles have some of the largest blood vessels in the body, and those are very close to the skin. frequently inexperienced surgeons or bad luck causes injections of the liposuctioned fat into the muscle layer instead of under the epidermis, where the cells are injected into those major blood vessels. they go to the heart or lungs, and you have pulmocardiac collapse which frequently is irrecoverable on the surgical table.
BBL has a 1 in 3000 chance of death as calculated by the American board of plastic surgeons and is borne out by studies here in Canada.
OMfG
Just keep contact with her, don’t talk about the partner. Text her about other random stuff, call her occasionally with brief chats, see if she’ll have lunch with you sometimes if she’s local but don’t talk about him.
“Hey guys give me advice on this very specific question only I’m not going to tell you the most relevant detail because it’s just too embarrassing ???”
Has he every told her that he does NOT want to be more intimate? When you're in a relationship, what's the process for consenting? Usually people tell their new partners when they are NOT consenting yet.
Are you talking about “deflect so smoothly”?
What about his escalating to play-wrestling?
I'm not blaming him or anything, but the relationship is a little confusing. She is seeing signals that he's interested in going further, but before the hand-in-pants incident she didn't think there was anything serious behind it.
I love my wife with everything that I have and I would do anything to make it right.
Well, your wife is walking out the door because she is unhappy. I think you need to soak in the severity of her unhappiness.
You mentioned in another comment that you're saving to bring your family closer. And here you say that she and your parents, don't see eye to eye.
So, you're making sure your life is comfortable for you. But telling your wife, you got the kids to entertain you, we will see each other on the weekends. ?
I would suggest to do some deep thinking on what you are realistically willing to do.
Moving to where her family is, is a marriage salvaging option. Changing jobs to be more available in her life, is a salvaging option. Maybe taking up a lower paying job and lesser home for the sake of keeping the marriage, is a salvaging option.
Because if you are fully capable of going to those lengths… it would be better for her to hear you suggest it, than for her to request it.
Have some self respect and divorce him!!! He didn't even stop fucking another woman when you caught him! He didn't immediately go to you he kept fixing her for days afterwards. Jesus fucking Christ, Hey it into your head that he doesn't care about you, he doesn't want you and he sure as shit b doesn't respect you or your marriage. Therapy would be a waste of time and energy.
Divorce him and take him for everything you can. Get a custody agreement that specifically states that his step sister cannot be around your children when your husband has them.
Get mad and get even
Exactly. Let your friend reach out to you, if they want to continue the friendship. Otherwise, let it go and focus on your own life.