LMAO. We literally trade phones every other day. ? We're in our 30s, we live together, we have a toddler, and I'm 5 months pregnant. We laugh together every day and communicate properly, like adults! Just because you're a miserable turd doesn't mean everyone is. We genuinely love one another.
1.) it was his sister not mines learn how to read. 2.) we had been dating for 2 years and it was out of the blue and out of character, you’d be lying if you say you wouldn’t have done the same. I wanted answers and I was going to get them. End of story
Info: what caused you to be hospitalized for 5 days? Appendix? Kidney? As a few people have said I think it depends on the serious me of your reason to br hospitalized.
Also I'm sure he did have stuff to do at home. Maybe dishes, or picking up the house so you could come home and be relaxed and comfortable.
I just wanna say, having a grower and not a shower is the ideal. Not that I have one at all, but I would imagine it would be super annoying to have your full length dick just slapping everywhere all day lol. It's smaller when it's not being used, and extends to an appropriate size when required. Sounds perfect. I feel like a lot of girls with big boobs wish this was a thing for boobs too, cos trying to run with big boobs is super annoying and distracting.
Also, six inches is not small. I'm not sure how long you think a vagina is, but any more than that usually starts to get painful and uncomfortable for women. A lot of women who get punched in the cervix by an erect penis during sex will react similarly to how men do when they get hit in the balls. Not fun, and not sexy. Learn to appreciate what you have, cos you literally have the perfect length. Also, guys with huge dicks can be terrible at sex cos they think their giant wonder cock is all is required. Women need a lot more than some dude hammering away at them to really enjoy sex.
I think your gf was in a bad mood, and took it out on you. She used an insecurity of yours which is not cool, and you should probably talk to her about this being an inappropriate way to talk to you. Her being on a diet does not mean she gets to be nasty to you.
If she really wanted, she could give you oral, and anal for penetrative sex. Lots of women with vaginismus offer those alternatives, there is a whole reddit dedicated to anal only relationships. There is absolutely no reason to reduce your sexuality to handjobs, she should step up.
Sex is a foundational pillar of every relationship, IDK how you lasted this long with her.
Most people want to just see that you care for something. Good with cats, love his collection of art, talks to people in a mutual way. Caring for your body is a good and apparent way of showing you're trying.
Your boyfriend is insecure and that’s his problem.
You are an adult with free will. Your boyfriend doesn’t have the right to tell you what you can and can’t do. If you’re ever in a relationship where your partner tells you that you aren’t allowed to do something, you need to get out.
You said you’re never allowed to do anything social because your boyfriend gets annoyed. If you keep blowing off your friends, they will eventually take it as you don’t want to be friends. This is alienation and it’s a control tactic done by abusers.
F if’s your friends, then it’s work colleagues and then it’s your family. Eventually, you’ll only have your boyfriend and when the abuse escalates, you’ll feel you have nowhere to go so you’ll stay and it will continue. It’s time to get out of this relationship. You can lie to Reddit and to yourself that you’re not going because you don’t want too, but in reality, you aren’t going because you don’t want to argue with your emotionally immature controlling boyfriend who should be your ex.
Need way more context than they don’t want to date you because you have a guy “best friend “.
However a lot of men have lost their SO to a male best friend, male coworker etc. before. SOs were told there’s nothing to worry about, just friends, purely plutonic, like a brother to me etc only to find out they had a dating/sexual past or went out on “not dates” together, told the guy best friend everything including intimate details of theirs sex lives & more. Or the guy friend didn’t want to commit to a relationship w her so they were just friends that also had benefits.
So when guys hear a woman has a male best friend they don’t want anything to do w her because either they’ve been burned by the guy best friend or he’s had a friend get burned in a relationship from a guy best friend.
A lot of people, me included, believe people in committed relationships should not have “best friends “ of the opposite sex. Not saying you can’t have a friend who is a guy but the best friend part is the problem. Because best friends do a lot together. They go so different things together, talk about relationships, often spend a ton of time together etc. So men don’t want to try and compete for your time w another guy regardless if he’s a best friends or not.
Some times guy best friends would really like to have a dating relationship w the woman but won’t tell her and she’s oblivious about it. So the guy friend will tell her the guy she’s dating isn’t good enough for her or he’ll point out things that’s wrong w him so she won’t date him so he can still have her to himself even if they aren’t dating. The best friend role works good.
There have been men to test to get the girl to call her male best friend and ask if he would date her or hook up w her. These women are oblivious to the fact most male friends are there waiting for the chance to be w her. But she doesn’t believe her friend would do that.
So they make the call and ask to which almost all of the make best friends say something along the lines of “I didn’t think you’d ever ask of course I’ll date you or hook up w you etc. which leaves them speechless because they thought the friendship was just friends.
So there are some reasons men don’t want to date a woman w male best friends.
One woman I read about only had male friends. Not a single female friend. The guy didn’t want to date her because of all the guy friends she had. They went bar hopping together, drank together, danced together etc
Men don’t want to be in competition w other men for your time.
Why are you still friends with her? You aren’t going to change her by complaining to her about this and making it a big deal. Just decide whether you want to continue being friends and if not, keep your distance in the future. You don’t have to stay with people who frustrate you.
Also George S. Kaufman and his wife Beatrice after she had their child. He sneaked around with Mary Astor, who famously kept a diary that became Exhibit A in a very torrid court case.
Shes on her upper classman bachelors years sad shes not getting freshman scholarships. Shes already past the getting hit on in a bar, finding a lasting relationship for a few years and seemingly closing in on marriage or a deeper connection leading to it. (Not that you have to follow that path, Im just projecting over here).
The guys that would hit on her and buy her shots while in a committed relationship are not the mind of guys you want to be with
she blatantly told u to leave her alone. in both words and actions.
and u are here contemplating what u should do.
this tells me u don't respect her or her decision. why do u think she is incapable of make final decisions for herself or is it that ur opinion is just above hers? u know better than her?
do u have a savior complex that makes it where u think u are justified in ignoring her telling u to leave her alone?
Brother you need to start growing a spine and respect yourself. Dump the bitch ASAP and figure out what more you need to do to start having self respect.
He's looking for a romantic partner/SO and not just friends. There's no point asking for feedback since he's not interested and it will only make you seem desperate.
Yes that is definitely odd most definitely LOL maybe if you were 12 or 15 years old but 27 years old now no definitely not don't do that that is definitely odd
In the meantime, he’s stacking away a ton of money into his savings/ retirement plans.
Does it ever make you wonder whether he stays in the relationship for the enormous financial benefits?
He should be getting arrested right this moment. This whole thing is disgusting.
Does you boyfriend have a functioning heart?
LMAO. We literally trade phones every other day. ? We're in our 30s, we live together, we have a toddler, and I'm 5 months pregnant. We laugh together every day and communicate properly, like adults! Just because you're a miserable turd doesn't mean everyone is. We genuinely love one another.
1.) it was his sister not mines learn how to read. 2.) we had been dating for 2 years and it was out of the blue and out of character, you’d be lying if you say you wouldn’t have done the same. I wanted answers and I was going to get them. End of story
It sounds like he's trying to dim your shine.
Info: what caused you to be hospitalized for 5 days? Appendix? Kidney? As a few people have said I think it depends on the serious me of your reason to br hospitalized.
Also I'm sure he did have stuff to do at home. Maybe dishes, or picking up the house so you could come home and be relaxed and comfortable.
I just wanna say, having a grower and not a shower is the ideal. Not that I have one at all, but I would imagine it would be super annoying to have your full length dick just slapping everywhere all day lol. It's smaller when it's not being used, and extends to an appropriate size when required. Sounds perfect. I feel like a lot of girls with big boobs wish this was a thing for boobs too, cos trying to run with big boobs is super annoying and distracting.
Also, six inches is not small. I'm not sure how long you think a vagina is, but any more than that usually starts to get painful and uncomfortable for women. A lot of women who get punched in the cervix by an erect penis during sex will react similarly to how men do when they get hit in the balls. Not fun, and not sexy. Learn to appreciate what you have, cos you literally have the perfect length. Also, guys with huge dicks can be terrible at sex cos they think their giant wonder cock is all is required. Women need a lot more than some dude hammering away at them to really enjoy sex.
I think your gf was in a bad mood, and took it out on you. She used an insecurity of yours which is not cool, and you should probably talk to her about this being an inappropriate way to talk to you. Her being on a diet does not mean she gets to be nasty to you.
A lot of assumptions here.
If she really wanted, she could give you oral, and anal for penetrative sex. Lots of women with vaginismus offer those alternatives, there is a whole reddit dedicated to anal only relationships. There is absolutely no reason to reduce your sexuality to handjobs, she should step up.
Sex is a foundational pillar of every relationship, IDK how you lasted this long with her.
It literally is about mutual pleasure. How is that not a “favor?”
Hell yeah – blow that shit up.
Most people want to just see that you care for something. Good with cats, love his collection of art, talks to people in a mutual way. Caring for your body is a good and apparent way of showing you're trying.
Wait you’re still with this guy? WTF lady? What. The. Fuck.
Your boyfriend is insecure and that’s his problem.
You are an adult with free will. Your boyfriend doesn’t have the right to tell you what you can and can’t do. If you’re ever in a relationship where your partner tells you that you aren’t allowed to do something, you need to get out.
You said you’re never allowed to do anything social because your boyfriend gets annoyed. If you keep blowing off your friends, they will eventually take it as you don’t want to be friends. This is alienation and it’s a control tactic done by abusers.
F if’s your friends, then it’s work colleagues and then it’s your family. Eventually, you’ll only have your boyfriend and when the abuse escalates, you’ll feel you have nowhere to go so you’ll stay and it will continue. It’s time to get out of this relationship. You can lie to Reddit and to yourself that you’re not going because you don’t want too, but in reality, you aren’t going because you don’t want to argue with your emotionally immature controlling boyfriend who should be your ex.
This is why teenagers shouldn’t get married.
most people irl, men or women, don't want their SO to have a “best friend” of the opposite sex.
This is true of kids. Not adults. Well adjusted adults just… don't care.
Need way more context than they don’t want to date you because you have a guy “best friend “.
However a lot of men have lost their SO to a male best friend, male coworker etc. before. SOs were told there’s nothing to worry about, just friends, purely plutonic, like a brother to me etc only to find out they had a dating/sexual past or went out on “not dates” together, told the guy best friend everything including intimate details of theirs sex lives & more. Or the guy friend didn’t want to commit to a relationship w her so they were just friends that also had benefits.
So when guys hear a woman has a male best friend they don’t want anything to do w her because either they’ve been burned by the guy best friend or he’s had a friend get burned in a relationship from a guy best friend.
A lot of people, me included, believe people in committed relationships should not have “best friends “ of the opposite sex. Not saying you can’t have a friend who is a guy but the best friend part is the problem. Because best friends do a lot together. They go so different things together, talk about relationships, often spend a ton of time together etc. So men don’t want to try and compete for your time w another guy regardless if he’s a best friends or not.
Some times guy best friends would really like to have a dating relationship w the woman but won’t tell her and she’s oblivious about it. So the guy friend will tell her the guy she’s dating isn’t good enough for her or he’ll point out things that’s wrong w him so she won’t date him so he can still have her to himself even if they aren’t dating. The best friend role works good.
There have been men to test to get the girl to call her male best friend and ask if he would date her or hook up w her. These women are oblivious to the fact most male friends are there waiting for the chance to be w her. But she doesn’t believe her friend would do that.
So they make the call and ask to which almost all of the make best friends say something along the lines of “I didn’t think you’d ever ask of course I’ll date you or hook up w you etc. which leaves them speechless because they thought the friendship was just friends.
So there are some reasons men don’t want to date a woman w male best friends.
One woman I read about only had male friends. Not a single female friend. The guy didn’t want to date her because of all the guy friends she had. They went bar hopping together, drank together, danced together etc
Men don’t want to be in competition w other men for your time.
If you're going to have this man in the future, you have to be honest.
Is he strong enough not to talk about your past?
you should think hot
I hope it will be fine
Sometimes it’s easier to write things down rather than say them out loud
Why are you still friends with her? You aren’t going to change her by complaining to her about this and making it a big deal. Just decide whether you want to continue being friends and if not, keep your distance in the future. You don’t have to stay with people who frustrate you.
Also George S. Kaufman and his wife Beatrice after she had their child. He sneaked around with Mary Astor, who famously kept a diary that became Exhibit A in a very torrid court case.
You say “hey babe that was hot let me join in next time”
why the hell did you do that? stop it immediately. Only deposit what's needed for the household.
– if your salary goes directly to the joint account – inform your company HR & finance of your new account number (go get one)
you are being financially abused.
Scrooge McDuck or not its a f*ckup situation when financial abuse happened as its crippling.
I would rather be single than financially crippled.
Understandably, we are very young tho, I hope that with time they will accept that we are growing up (if we stick together).
Hope you get your things together and find happiness with or without him
Yeah, that is a red flag. Your partner should not be placing doubts in your head.
I asked ChatGPT to write a love letter for my boyfriend in the style of Jordan Peterson and I had to try real hot not to send it
Idk if that’s supposed to be a reference, but you’re not very funny.
Shes on her upper classman bachelors years sad shes not getting freshman scholarships. Shes already past the getting hit on in a bar, finding a lasting relationship for a few years and seemingly closing in on marriage or a deeper connection leading to it. (Not that you have to follow that path, Im just projecting over here).
The guys that would hit on her and buy her shots while in a committed relationship are not the mind of guys you want to be with
ACTUALLY OP, i want u to look at it another way.
she blatantly told u to leave her alone. in both words and actions.
and u are here contemplating what u should do.
this tells me u don't respect her or her decision. why do u think she is incapable of make final decisions for herself or is it that ur opinion is just above hers? u know better than her?
do u have a savior complex that makes it where u think u are justified in ignoring her telling u to leave her alone?
that's what u should be looking into.
…is she ok?
I think by now we’ve all seen the laughing mom with in-utero baby gif that’s going around?
Pretty sure I just gave my unborn child shaken baby syndrome.
Brother you need to start growing a spine and respect yourself. Dump the bitch ASAP and figure out what more you need to do to start having self respect.
I think he sounds like a narcissist himself ?
He's looking for a romantic partner/SO and not just friends. There's no point asking for feedback since he's not interested and it will only make you seem desperate.
Be confident in yourself!
You’re not being unreasonable. This guy is showing you who he is. Believe him! This will be your life if you stay with him.
Oh so you’re using your girlfriend’s depression as an excuse to keep cheating on her?
How about you man up and tell her the truth instead of sneaking around behind her back?
Yes that is definitely odd most definitely LOL maybe if you were 12 or 15 years old but 27 years old now no definitely not don't do that that is definitely odd