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2-3 x a night is not a sustainable frequency in the majority of relationships, so that was going to change eventually regardless. And if she works overnight shifts, then it's not at all surprising that she's tired. That sh't messes with your circadian rhythm, and the impact builds up over time.
Turning her location off could be suspicious, or could be the result of her only choosing to temporarily share it with you whenever she gets your requests (there are options to share for an hour or share for a day, for example).
Frankly, I'll never understand why anyone lets other people have constant access to their location. That's just asking for a whole new source of unnecessary drama with no reward in exchange. And it's not really emotionally healthy to constantly be checking someone else's location. Regardless, if you've observed something that is making you uncomfortable, just ask her about it
How long did she stay single after a 5 year relationship before getting into one.
If you ask her not to bring him you have just created a dynamic where you ask her not to do something because you are worried she will do something, this will now underpin your relationship for the future.
Did you discuss any of this and your boundaries before you went from a Hookup/Date to a relationship?
She made out, never told you, friend had it on video, she proceeded to never tell you and possibly continue lying to you by omission of it weren't for her friend. Yea that's as trashy as it gets. Pretty much she's ok lying to you if it might jeopardize your relationship. Should tell you everything you need to know
This is possibly one of the best responses I could've gotten. Had a good chuckle, whilst also being true. Will sit her down and suggest a bidet tonight. Otherwise I'll let her know that it's something I don't think I can continue to deal with.
Yeah, it's most likely something weird, but breaking things off without knowing is bad advice. Even if he is guilty, confirm it by his reactions and then break up with relief.
I get it now. It's still beyond frustrating, but you're all right. I can't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do. It hurts me to watch her destroying herself but I don't think I can handle this on top of my own stuff.
I was married for 16 years to someone who stopped going with me to anything. Not for the same reason (we’re talking restaurants, weddings, family bbqs, out with friends, etc) and it was extremely lonely. Don’t recommend.
Don’t waste the rest of your 20s with someone who won’t compromise with you.
It sounds like she is gaslighting you into thinking she isn't actually responsible for her cheating. She absolutely is. The reason she did it is because she wanted to have sex with that guy. Now she is guilting you and making you feel bad for being upset about it. You're the victim here, not her. You might not be ready to face this right now, but eventually you're going to be mad at yourself for letting her do this to you.
That's one of those things that you need consent for. There's plenty of people who take candid photos of their partner without necessarily asking first, including naked.
However, if you express a discomfort, your partner should be willing to delete them and reassure you. The red flag is honestly his response, not what he did imo.
If my bf took pictures of me and I asked why and he said “because you just looked so beautiful and I wanted to save the moment” It would be flattering and I'd feel loved.
Get real, woman. Neither of you can look at other people of the opposite sex? Maybe someday when you both reach adulthood you will realize how silly this is.
Yes, that is what I meant. That it would be okay if he's demi, but that it's a bigger issue if he's not, because of comparing to other women and feeling like you are the problem.
Also I say just “okay” because he still said he wasn't sexually attracted to her, not that he is, but that it's tied with their connection, or only happened after they got emotionally and romantically close.
2-3 x a night is not a sustainable frequency in the majority of relationships, so that was going to change eventually regardless. And if she works overnight shifts, then it's not at all surprising that she's tired. That sh't messes with your circadian rhythm, and the impact builds up over time.
Turning her location off could be suspicious, or could be the result of her only choosing to temporarily share it with you whenever she gets your requests (there are options to share for an hour or share for a day, for example).
Frankly, I'll never understand why anyone lets other people have constant access to their location. That's just asking for a whole new source of unnecessary drama with no reward in exchange. And it's not really emotionally healthy to constantly be checking someone else's location. Regardless, if you've observed something that is making you uncomfortable, just ask her about it
Sounds like he used you. I’m sorry.
Some things to think about:
How long did she stay single after a 5 year relationship before getting into one.
If you ask her not to bring him you have just created a dynamic where you ask her not to do something because you are worried she will do something, this will now underpin your relationship for the future.
Did you discuss any of this and your boundaries before you went from a Hookup/Date to a relationship?
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NTA
You are overreacting
She made out, never told you, friend had it on video, she proceeded to never tell you and possibly continue lying to you by omission of it weren't for her friend. Yea that's as trashy as it gets. Pretty much she's ok lying to you if it might jeopardize your relationship. Should tell you everything you need to know
She doesn;t care about you. That is just that. Break up with her and find yourself someone with basic decency.
This is possibly one of the best responses I could've gotten. Had a good chuckle, whilst also being true. Will sit her down and suggest a bidet tonight. Otherwise I'll let her know that it's something I don't think I can continue to deal with.
Yeah, it's most likely something weird, but breaking things off without knowing is bad advice. Even if he is guilty, confirm it by his reactions and then break up with relief.
A relationship wouldn't be the smartest option at all but that's what I'm hoping for. Hooking up would be okay too.
Whatever reasons she has for not getting married are valid. It's something that people take way to lightly.
Yeah, this will never work. Those are really big differences.
Thank you for answering.
I get it now. It's still beyond frustrating, but you're all right. I can't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do. It hurts me to watch her destroying herself but I don't think I can handle this on top of my own stuff.
It’s not just texts, and it’s absolutely inappropriate.
Why else would he be saved under another name? Why else would the conversation history be deleted?
I was married for 16 years to someone who stopped going with me to anything. Not for the same reason (we’re talking restaurants, weddings, family bbqs, out with friends, etc) and it was extremely lonely. Don’t recommend.
Don’t waste the rest of your 20s with someone who won’t compromise with you.
It sounds like she is gaslighting you into thinking she isn't actually responsible for her cheating. She absolutely is. The reason she did it is because she wanted to have sex with that guy. Now she is guilting you and making you feel bad for being upset about it. You're the victim here, not her. You might not be ready to face this right now, but eventually you're going to be mad at yourself for letting her do this to you.
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You are attempting to self sabotage right now. Stop it. You did nothing wrong!
Just enjoy what you have.
That's one of those things that you need consent for. There's plenty of people who take candid photos of their partner without necessarily asking first, including naked.
However, if you express a discomfort, your partner should be willing to delete them and reassure you. The red flag is honestly his response, not what he did imo.
If my bf took pictures of me and I asked why and he said “because you just looked so beautiful and I wanted to save the moment” It would be flattering and I'd feel loved.
Him invalidating you is a huge problem.
At least he cleaned up by taking the trash out. Let him go and find happiness.
It's giving creepy “I waited til she was legal” vibes tbh.
Cheating is a reflection of the cheater not of the one cheated on.
This post makes me worried that it's going to be 4 times
Get real, woman. Neither of you can look at other people of the opposite sex? Maybe someday when you both reach adulthood you will realize how silly this is.
Yes, that is what I meant. That it would be okay if he's demi, but that it's a bigger issue if he's not, because of comparing to other women and feeling like you are the problem.
Also I say just “okay” because he still said he wasn't sexually attracted to her, not that he is, but that it's tied with their connection, or only happened after they got emotionally and romantically close.