Your husband and your friend are together. They've obv tried to make you look like the bad one and end the marriage and since that didn't work your husband is ending your marriage whilst using your being tainted in his eyes as an excuse and it's a very lame one.
Gather proof seek legal advice get all your ducks in a row and ensure you walk away from your cheating lying disgusting ex with everything you deserve.
How can it possible sound like he doesn’t know when I literally included our conversation of me saying to him “how could you leave your pregnant fiancé at home alone to have this done while you go on holiday”
She has a right to listen to unlicensed people and you have a right to not have an assault on your senses. If she came over and you shone a flashlight in her face, she would not like that and probably demand you stop. Smelling is just the same.
Okay so I read your comments confessing how you and your mutual friends used to bully him (that's right: BULLY him. Because that's exactly what y'all did. Jokes at someone's expense is bullying.) And everyone seems to be ripping you a new one for that (Jesus Christ, you deserve it), so I'm gonna leave that to everyone else for now.
You said in some of your comments that you just need his old personality back and then y'all will be good again. Well, here's my question: If his misogynistic personality came about before he had his glow up, would you still be sitting here so desperately wanting to stay with him? Would you still be here on Reddit making excuses for him in order to stay with him?
Spoiler alert: No, you wouldn't.
You're giving him a free pass because you know he's super attractive now, and other girls-i mean, everyone else sees it. You know he's desirable now. And you love knowing you are the one he's with. So you're doing what you can to defend him despite coming to Reddit for advice and help.
He's a POS. You're a POS. Maybe y'all do deserve each other.
Your mom has put this guy ahead of every single family member and relationship she's ever had. She's put him ahead of the safety of her children, ruined her marriage, having a future with her grandchildren, her own health and wellbeing, and her career.
She's chosen him as her priority for as long as she's known him. Your mom is gone. Maybe one day things will change. Please, make your family and child YOUR priority and keep them away from her.
As bad as Chris is, he wouldn't be a problem if she had kept him out of your lives. She's just as big of a problem for keeping him around and lying to everyone. Be safe.
I’m sorry. You may be right. I don’t have any more advice for you. Make sure he knows it’s not his fault.
I am so sorry this happened to you too.
Respect. Thank you. I edited the text to give more context. You are right.
No This is all victim blaming abuse apogist nonsense.
Your husband and your friend are together. They've obv tried to make you look like the bad one and end the marriage and since that didn't work your husband is ending your marriage whilst using your being tainted in his eyes as an excuse and it's a very lame one.
Gather proof seek legal advice get all your ducks in a row and ensure you walk away from your cheating lying disgusting ex with everything you deserve.
Very good ? ?
How can it possible sound like he doesn’t know when I literally included our conversation of me saying to him “how could you leave your pregnant fiancé at home alone to have this done while you go on holiday”
She has a right to listen to unlicensed people and you have a right to not have an assault on your senses. If she came over and you shone a flashlight in her face, she would not like that and probably demand you stop. Smelling is just the same.
Focusing on your jealousy instead of his mental health isn’t a good look, ngl.
he only goes on to read the pol channel
Literally the most racist part lmao
????????????
What a ludicrous fight.
You could have been more polite to a gues in your house.
Your wife could have just come out after talking to you and said “sorry, he isn't feeling well.”
You guys are too old for this shit.
Okay so I read your comments confessing how you and your mutual friends used to bully him (that's right: BULLY him. Because that's exactly what y'all did. Jokes at someone's expense is bullying.) And everyone seems to be ripping you a new one for that (Jesus Christ, you deserve it), so I'm gonna leave that to everyone else for now.
You said in some of your comments that you just need his old personality back and then y'all will be good again. Well, here's my question: If his misogynistic personality came about before he had his glow up, would you still be sitting here so desperately wanting to stay with him? Would you still be here on Reddit making excuses for him in order to stay with him?
Spoiler alert: No, you wouldn't.
You're giving him a free pass because you know he's super attractive now, and other girls-i mean, everyone else sees it. You know he's desirable now. And you love knowing you are the one he's with. So you're doing what you can to defend him despite coming to Reddit for advice and help.
He's a POS. You're a POS. Maybe y'all do deserve each other.
Your mom has put this guy ahead of every single family member and relationship she's ever had. She's put him ahead of the safety of her children, ruined her marriage, having a future with her grandchildren, her own health and wellbeing, and her career.
She's chosen him as her priority for as long as she's known him. Your mom is gone. Maybe one day things will change. Please, make your family and child YOUR priority and keep them away from her.
As bad as Chris is, he wouldn't be a problem if she had kept him out of your lives. She's just as big of a problem for keeping him around and lying to everyone. Be safe.
Don't do it man, it's not worth it.
Grieve the relationship and move on is my advice.