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Not saying she cant change. Never stopped her and she shouldn’t stop me. Im happy if she enjoys clubs or whatever, but she has such a bright future and completely dropped it.
Can’t believe anyone has sympathy for this man child. This comment section is ridiculous. Stick to your guts OP. You know what the hell is ok and what is not.
Oof to me this is such a betrayal. Almost evil level. I wouldn’t be able to even look at her again let ALONE be in the same room as her. She sounds deeeeeeeeply messed up. And she does not love you.
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He's still your son, you're his dad. Bio doesn't mean shit apart from his medical history. Sorry you got bad news, but keep your relationship with him the same if you can, maybe see a lawyer about how to make that a legal thing.
Right? I’ve spent the last years getting to know him in all realms, sexual included, and to have him deny that interaction now frankly feels like shit.
You're a mess. And an asshole. I highly doubt this is the first incident that almost sent her running. She probably should have left a long time ago. Regardless, you can't fix this. She gets to make that determination.
And no matter what her decision, you need to sort yourself out. And stop drinking.
Flip the script on her. Go through with the divorce and work on yourself being happy and have more confidence. At the end the baby daddy will pay the child support or your wife. You can get away before the marriage turns 10 years.
What I mean if they get report about het mental health from someone who has records of abuse towards such person I doubt they will treat seriously. This also a point she could raise ti defend herself, that this is juzt continuation of their abuse.
I have pictures on Facebook of me with pretty much every guy I've ever dated, because they are my pictures and I want them. I'm not deleting them because of someone elses jealousy issues.
If you can't get over your boyfriend having a past before you met him, you should not be dating.
A year is a bit long to not be sure. Good that he is making plans though.
If a guy is interested in you you wont have to chase him. He will chase you.
If I was in your shoes I would start to distance myself. “We have been in a situationship for a year, I need more of a commitment and if you really wanted to be with me I would not have to chase you. I think we need to take some time apart.” Then move on, value yourself and your time.
I take things personal with my bf too. It's better to not though. I've been practicing not taking things personal and I feel better. People have their own problems and struggles and to take it personal when they don't always meet your needs or do things in ways you want is bad for your mental health. I adhere to the good enough boyfriend theory….if they are good enough and try I try to let the rest go. No one is perfect and life can be hot.
Thank you for this insight and taking the time to write a very thorough response? because of my current boyfriend anger issues I think he would absolutely be like we are done— if I wanted to see my ex. When it comes to my health, he is absolutely wonderful he does take very good care of me. It’s more of my emotional side with my mental illness, even though he has mental illness, he can’t quite like grasp the emotional need. And his mind if I am upset, he immediately just thinks “fix”. Not really the emotional touch or just kind of listening or being there. He just wants to fix everything.
As for my ex, he wants to come back to me like he wants to fly here where I am, and be with me and find a job where I am . But then that poses the whole thing of why we even broke up :/ But my ex, oh my God, the emotional intelligence, and the way that he knew how to be there for me emotionally was really really sweet and he also was an acts of service type of guy so I got the best of both worlds with him but what if he is still lazy? And I asked him that but he said it’s been years and I haven’t spoke to him, so how can I assume that it would still be that way? And yeah he’s right but like it’s getting to the point where we are too old to gamble with financial security. :/
Honestly, I feel very selfish and I feel like an asshole even for battling this right now .?
This is a stupid argument. As an American that sees racists use country of birth to determine who “belongs” here, I refuse to weigh in on which of you is more British.
Trust is the foundation of a relationship. You will never fully trust him. The “improvement” will be temporary, you will question everything.
So it's really all about if you want to live! like that. Best case is he has changed, and you still do not fully trust him. The worst case is he knows he can walk all over you and will keep cheating.
I totally get it, and I have thought exactly what you have thought. It gets harder when you're actually in the situation and I hate that I'm like this and even questioning what I should do. I feel very conflicted.
Your boyfriend is trying to be a relationship guru. I don't think it is about you. Basically, it sounds like he trying to be a relationship “influencer” without going through all that pesky education to become a relationship counselor. Your boyfriend isn't trying to send you subliminal hints about your relationship, he's trying to do something that he's not qualified to do.
Rejoice! He's still a dumbass, he just not being a dumbass about you.
I’d argue that having kids is even more of a reason to not stay with a serial cheater because you’re not only suffering yourself but you are teaching your kids that this is what normal relationships look like. One person being selfish and hurtful while the other person just lays down and takes it.
But your friend's wife was there, and your friend wasn't interested in the wife's friend. This guy is interested (according to you) in your gf and wants to be alone with her on a cruise. Do you see the difference?
How am I name calling? And what advice are you looking for? Tell me exactly what you want to hear, because you clearly don't want an objective outsider's opinion.
Gf did this exact same thing but with her email. Found out later that she was banging some guy from work. She would take 2 hr lunches go to some hot tub place and that's where they were having sex. Dumped her like a hot plate
so, he's so concerned about how you would judge him about larping that he hid it from you. i can totally understand why. let the guy have his fun for fuck's sake
Not saying she cant change. Never stopped her and she shouldn’t stop me. Im happy if she enjoys clubs or whatever, but she has such a bright future and completely dropped it.
If only it that was easy we both on-line in sandbanks she left cause I left for a month so now I need advice on what to do to get her back
Can’t believe anyone has sympathy for this man child. This comment section is ridiculous. Stick to your guts OP. You know what the hell is ok and what is not.
The world is a cruel and unjust place. But I have enough karma to be a happy man.
Oof to me this is such a betrayal. Almost evil level. I wouldn’t be able to even look at her again let ALONE be in the same room as her. She sounds deeeeeeeeply messed up. And she does not love you.
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He's still your son, you're his dad. Bio doesn't mean shit apart from his medical history. Sorry you got bad news, but keep your relationship with him the same if you can, maybe see a lawyer about how to make that a legal thing.
Right? I’ve spent the last years getting to know him in all realms, sexual included, and to have him deny that interaction now frankly feels like shit.
You're a mess. And an asshole. I highly doubt this is the first incident that almost sent her running. She probably should have left a long time ago. Regardless, you can't fix this. She gets to make that determination.
And no matter what her decision, you need to sort yourself out. And stop drinking.
Flip the script on her. Go through with the divorce and work on yourself being happy and have more confidence. At the end the baby daddy will pay the child support or your wife. You can get away before the marriage turns 10 years.
I mean, you basically described him as one of the worst boyfriends to have, and now you're wondering about his actions? 😛
Come one, you saw this one coming miles away… but you simply hoped for a better outcome so you tried anyway.
She feels as though he’s too old to be trained. Idk if this is true or not. He’s 8 years old.
How? It's OP's delusion so it's not sex noises.
That’s a good reason to say, “goodbye”.
Or you can suck it up and stay with him. But agonizing over it is just masochism.
What I mean if they get report about het mental health from someone who has records of abuse towards such person I doubt they will treat seriously. This also a point she could raise ti defend herself, that this is juzt continuation of their abuse.
I have pictures on Facebook of me with pretty much every guy I've ever dated, because they are my pictures and I want them. I'm not deleting them because of someone elses jealousy issues.
If you can't get over your boyfriend having a past before you met him, you should not be dating.
He told you to block your Facebook so you can’t get anymore info. He was wearing the same clothes as the video. You know what is going on .
Does he have some kind of trauma?
A year is a bit long to not be sure. Good that he is making plans though.
If a guy is interested in you you wont have to chase him. He will chase you.
If I was in your shoes I would start to distance myself. “We have been in a situationship for a year, I need more of a commitment and if you really wanted to be with me I would not have to chase you. I think we need to take some time apart.” Then move on, value yourself and your time.
I take things personal with my bf too. It's better to not though. I've been practicing not taking things personal and I feel better. People have their own problems and struggles and to take it personal when they don't always meet your needs or do things in ways you want is bad for your mental health. I adhere to the good enough boyfriend theory….if they are good enough and try I try to let the rest go. No one is perfect and life can be hot.
Thank you for this insight and taking the time to write a very thorough response? because of my current boyfriend anger issues I think he would absolutely be like we are done— if I wanted to see my ex. When it comes to my health, he is absolutely wonderful he does take very good care of me. It’s more of my emotional side with my mental illness, even though he has mental illness, he can’t quite like grasp the emotional need. And his mind if I am upset, he immediately just thinks “fix”. Not really the emotional touch or just kind of listening or being there. He just wants to fix everything.
As for my ex, he wants to come back to me like he wants to fly here where I am, and be with me and find a job where I am . But then that poses the whole thing of why we even broke up :/ But my ex, oh my God, the emotional intelligence, and the way that he knew how to be there for me emotionally was really really sweet and he also was an acts of service type of guy so I got the best of both worlds with him but what if he is still lazy? And I asked him that but he said it’s been years and I haven’t spoke to him, so how can I assume that it would still be that way? And yeah he’s right but like it’s getting to the point where we are too old to gamble with financial security. :/
Honestly, I feel very selfish and I feel like an asshole even for battling this right now .?
You focus on your happy marriage.
You can’t change the past but you can change the future.
Time to also work on migrating to different friends not connected to her.
No. If you asked and she didn’t answer, forget her.
This is a stupid argument. As an American that sees racists use country of birth to determine who “belongs” here, I refuse to weigh in on which of you is more British.
Trust is the foundation of a relationship. You will never fully trust him. The “improvement” will be temporary, you will question everything.
So it's really all about if you want to live! like that. Best case is he has changed, and you still do not fully trust him. The worst case is he knows he can walk all over you and will keep cheating.
Is he circumcise? If not, does he pull back his foreskin and clean under it?
I totally get it, and I have thought exactly what you have thought. It gets harder when you're actually in the situation and I hate that I'm like this and even questioning what I should do. I feel very conflicted.
Your boyfriend is trying to be a relationship guru. I don't think it is about you. Basically, it sounds like he trying to be a relationship “influencer” without going through all that pesky education to become a relationship counselor. Your boyfriend isn't trying to send you subliminal hints about your relationship, he's trying to do something that he's not qualified to do.
Rejoice! He's still a dumbass, he just not being a dumbass about you.
I’d argue that having kids is even more of a reason to not stay with a serial cheater because you’re not only suffering yourself but you are teaching your kids that this is what normal relationships look like. One person being selfish and hurtful while the other person just lays down and takes it.
But your friend's wife was there, and your friend wasn't interested in the wife's friend. This guy is interested (according to you) in your gf and wants to be alone with her on a cruise. Do you see the difference?
How am I name calling? And what advice are you looking for? Tell me exactly what you want to hear, because you clearly don't want an objective outsider's opinion.
Gf did this exact same thing but with her email. Found out later that she was banging some guy from work. She would take 2 hr lunches go to some hot tub place and that's where they were having sex. Dumped her like a hot plate
so, he's so concerned about how you would judge him about larping that he hid it from you. i can totally understand why. let the guy have his fun for fuck's sake