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He’s probably annoyed by your crying bc it can feel as if your tears are being weaponized. Like imagine someone hurting your feelings, then when you tell them how they’ve hurt you, they cry. Now you start to feel bad & want to console them. Then your feelings are being pushed to the side in order to tend to the needs of the person who hurt you. While that may not be your intention, it can come off as manipulative or even just insensitive.
That is the typical abuser's playbook. They will shower you with love and gifts and treat you like royalty until you let you guards down. Then they start taking control over your life, and then they abuse you. It only gets worse from here.
Also remember that he used to see other girls while you were dating. If you come back to him, there is no guarantee he won't do it again.
Precisely. This proves he should be nowhere near students again. Losing his academic career is exactly what should happen here, otherwise how many other people's children could he do this to?
There's a difference between accepting a person as they are and having entirely different values.
People's relationship with food is important to who they are, and you're unlikely to change that for him. He has to take responsibility for his health, you can't do it for him.
If he hates the gym he'll never go. Simple as that. If a person isn't intrinsically (self-motivated) to workout they never will. Not for longer than a month or two when they buy a gym membership that they inevitably stop using.
You and him have different values and that's ok. Go find someone who more closely matches your values.
I used to work in a porn store and men SUCK at picking out lingerie for their partners. It doesn’t matter if they know your size men can just forget that shit easier than they can learn it. So I hope it is just this.
Do not understand all the hate? Yeah he’s 42, maybe he’s got a passion for poetry, maybe he’s trying to get in touch with his feminine side, is struggling and this poem spoke to him.
I don’t know that a 5 yr old is ready to understand your poly dynamic nor do I see any reason to lay that on her at all at this time. IMH “uncle” is such a generic title that it doesn’t really matter what the actual relationship is. Why is this important to you? From the little that I have to go on I’m sensing that this situation may be bothering you more than you let on or maybe even realize and this is how that discomfort is expressing itself. Do you feel he’s cowboying your wife?
Don't stay with someone on the hope that they will change, if you break up you can find a man you don't have to act like a mom to and he could find a woman who isn't against his “hobby.”
There's nothing wrong with moving on, you're still young and he is 7 years older than you, he had that much more time alive to have had his shit together and he doesn't.
She is acting like 28 going on 13. Very insecure. Not cute.
I don’t know what you can do since this is a her problem all the way. You can be supportive without her dictating how you live your life. Once you get to that, she is letting her insecurities dictate the relationship and it’s over.
He is probably stressed or nervous, when he initates its because he is ready, his mind and body are prepared and that is why he chose to start.
When you initiate he might not be ready, he might feel pressured to “perform well” and please you so his mind is preventing him from just enjoying it.
My suggestion is that when you initiate try taking it slower, give him time to “get in the mood” mentally, dont jump straight into it, men need seducing too!
I need internet to use the Bolt app to hail a ride. Yes, my phone still works fine but my internet connection was that bad that the app just wouldn’t connect. It kept saying something along the lines of “no internet connection”.
He’s probably annoyed by your crying bc it can feel as if your tears are being weaponized. Like imagine someone hurting your feelings, then when you tell them how they’ve hurt you, they cry. Now you start to feel bad & want to console them. Then your feelings are being pushed to the side in order to tend to the needs of the person who hurt you. While that may not be your intention, it can come off as manipulative or even just insensitive.
That is the typical abuser's playbook. They will shower you with love and gifts and treat you like royalty until you let you guards down. Then they start taking control over your life, and then they abuse you. It only gets worse from here.
Also remember that he used to see other girls while you were dating. If you come back to him, there is no guarantee he won't do it again.
Either dump him and move on or stop giving a shit what he thinks about your body.
You need to get to the bottom of this resentment issue before you commit to an international move.
He's not required to just automatically give up his beloved pet just because you don't want to bother trying to introduce his dog to your cat.
Precisely. This proves he should be nowhere near students again. Losing his academic career is exactly what should happen here, otherwise how many other people's children could he do this to?
There's a difference between accepting a person as they are and having entirely different values.
People's relationship with food is important to who they are, and you're unlikely to change that for him. He has to take responsibility for his health, you can't do it for him.
If he hates the gym he'll never go. Simple as that. If a person isn't intrinsically (self-motivated) to workout they never will. Not for longer than a month or two when they buy a gym membership that they inevitably stop using.
You and him have different values and that's ok. Go find someone who more closely matches your values.
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Sure! Go fot it. But it is not a be-all-end-all. It will likely not completely resolve your feelings.
I'd suggest both counseling and open if you're sure. Does this mean she gets to fuck around too? You ok with that?
I used to work in a porn store and men SUCK at picking out lingerie for their partners. It doesn’t matter if they know your size men can just forget that shit easier than they can learn it. So I hope it is just this.
Do not understand all the hate? Yeah he’s 42, maybe he’s got a passion for poetry, maybe he’s trying to get in touch with his feminine side, is struggling and this poem spoke to him.
Please read I updated post with the prior fight for context
I don’t know that a 5 yr old is ready to understand your poly dynamic nor do I see any reason to lay that on her at all at this time. IMH “uncle” is such a generic title that it doesn’t really matter what the actual relationship is. Why is this important to you? From the little that I have to go on I’m sensing that this situation may be bothering you more than you let on or maybe even realize and this is how that discomfort is expressing itself. Do you feel he’s cowboying your wife?
You don't. Your boyfriend is planning his own future, not one for both of you.
He can get that house, you get one you can afford.
Don't stay with someone on the hope that they will change, if you break up you can find a man you don't have to act like a mom to and he could find a woman who isn't against his “hobby.”
There's nothing wrong with moving on, you're still young and he is 7 years older than you, he had that much more time alive to have had his shit together and he doesn't.
Right? It’s amazing how the answer to many “what should I do” posts is “have a mature conversation about what happened.”
Talk to him and ask him to compromise. It is great practice for being married.
This sucks! I wasn't aware that telling my wife I was going to stay up for another movie after she went to bed meant a free sex pass. /s
She is acting like 28 going on 13. Very insecure. Not cute.
I don’t know what you can do since this is a her problem all the way. You can be supportive without her dictating how you live your life. Once you get to that, she is letting her insecurities dictate the relationship and it’s over.
He is probably stressed or nervous, when he initates its because he is ready, his mind and body are prepared and that is why he chose to start.
When you initiate he might not be ready, he might feel pressured to “perform well” and please you so his mind is preventing him from just enjoying it.
My suggestion is that when you initiate try taking it slower, give him time to “get in the mood” mentally, dont jump straight into it, men need seducing too!
I need internet to use the Bolt app to hail a ride. Yes, my phone still works fine but my internet connection was that bad that the app just wouldn’t connect. It kept saying something along the lines of “no internet connection”.