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It doesn’t matter. You sending money to her is going to be nothing more than a band aid on a bullet wound. I love her. She’s my first love. I’ve spoiled her, I’ve compromised so much for her. I would like if she could understand where I’m coming from especially since she expects me to pay for everything. I would like her to do the same at times too
Making changes is easy for 3 weeks that's the truth. If expectations have been spoken about then when the ring comes back should have been 8ncluded in that conversation.
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So he had been going on about how he had charcuterie and movie night with his ex (who was his ex when we dated the first time) when we were broken up for a year… She had also been in contact with him while we were dating the first time, not this time around though even though she wanted to stay “friends.” I got annoyed and asked him to stop talking about it/her and he got defensive…. so then I asked if he had slept with her when we were apart. He's asked me a similar question before…. but when I asked him he was all over the place. Then settled on the “I don't recall” response…. The whole thing is petty but it's just the fact that he's always lying about something
Has Noone taken into consideration that maybe the boyfriend did something to warrant the best friend's feelings? It could have been something as simple as a smile in her direction, messages between them, or full-out cheating with her best friend. Why would OP want to give them an opportunity to discuss this with eachother? OP needs to sit down with her SO and BF and talk to them separately and ferret out all aspects of the situation. I hope this works out for you OP and you find out it was unrequited love (or infatuation) and not something more sinister.
You’re not the side chick..he has had you meet his parents and some siblings. Unless they’re all morally fucked, I don’t see many people being okay with this. You don’t have a Chester but you do have a man child as a bf. Having a girlfriend comes with responsibilities like picking up the tab and paying for things. Seems like he likes you keep you inside and keep his money for things HE wants to do.
Babe he’s 31, turning cameras off to his parents house. Dump him and find someone on the same as you.
If you're in a sexually monogamous relationship with him, then I think you're being very reasonable to insist that he not text sexual messages to other women.
Problem is she will be smart enough to figure it out on her own even if I don’t tell her. Because I told her just a few months ago (because I’m an idiot and didn’t know she’d do this shit) that I want to spend my life with her. It wouldn’t take a genius to put 2 and 2 together. So I can’t not say it, because then she may go after him to break the answer out of him.
I won’t bring up the reason to the friend group. I’d like to just say “lets pretend we broke up on good terms and try to move on and be friends”. But I’m worried she will bring it up. The fact she was willing to do this in the first place makes me hesitant she would take this well and be willing to just pretend around them that it was a natural breakup. And that she will go after him for “lying”.
And if she does make it drama. I’m worried that there may be a few people who may defend her even when shown evidence (since some of them are far closer with her than me. One friend is basically a sister to her that she’s know almost her entire life).
I’m just unsure there’s a way to go about this that doesn’t lead to the friend group at least partially fracturing.
I've been wanting to move out of my parents house for a while anyway just for my own reasons and he's also in a position where he has to move, he doesn't have enough money to just move on his own so me moving with him would be helping both of us out.
That is very odd. Obviously something is going on. Best course of action is to wait for him to tell you what it is. Obviously, don't brush over it. It seems like he's working through something mentally.
Also, this may not be as important, but from the way you worded it, it seems like this may be the first time you guys talked / decided about kids. He asked you “will you want to have kids with me when we get married?” Wouldn't he already know the answer to that question? After 5 years, haven't you talked about the big important stuff like kids already? If not, it seems to me that there could be many other things beneath the surface that you do not know about concerning him.
what on earth kind of DM is your boyfriend if he hasn't already simply killed your dad's character? sheesh!!
you are probably going to have to talk with him, head-on. having a ready list of examples as you've presented here can only help. letting him know how those things make you and the other players feel might help.
a useful strategy might be to ask your father if he's even still enjoying the game, the next time you catch him on his phone during a game, etc. I can say that sort of thing would be frowned upon during any of the games I've ever been a part of, and that goes back to… what, 1990 or so? (holy shit…)
you may have to let him know that his behaviour makes the other players feel like they are wasting their time, especially if people have to catch him up because he zoned out. that's quite rude, actually– it sucks to plan out a campaign as a DM, only for someone to shit all over your effort.
at the end of the day, he is indeed your dad but that doesn't mean he's automatically welcome at your table. there's still a general standard of courtesy for your companion players, and he's making zero effort to meet it.
do remember, though, that your DM can always take advantage of the time-honoured tradition of simply killing off dad's character… i might recommend “pissed-off Drow elves”.
A person doesn't have to do something wrong for you to have the right to break up. You're not happy. That's enough. It's not a good match, and that's not a failure on anyone's part. He's not the person you want to be with. Simply sit him down and say “I'm breaking up with you. I will be moving out on x date.” He does not need to agree with you, and you are not required to present a case.
fuck. you're right. I do have to rip the band-aid off. but now the timing is weird.
her birthday is tomorrow, so I don't want to ask now..I still want to call her and wish her a happy birthday…and then maybe invite her out for coffee? or ask on text a few days later?
When we were talking a few months back she had asked me what my feelings are towards dating (in general) and I felt uncomfortable. So I said we can talk about that in person.
I love him but I feel like no matter what I do, there’s always gonna be a criticism.
It doesn't matter whether he's controlling or you are insecure.
You shouldn't be in a relationship that makes you feel this way. If it's you, you need to work on yourself before getting into a relationship. If it's him, well – you know what you need to do.
Vaping is just as bad for you as smoking. There are so many documentaries and scientific studies that say so. Second hand vape fumes are also terrible for you. I don't care if they do smell better it's still shit you are breathing in as well.
That being said, you told him it wasn't a deal breaker. Are you prepared to break up with him over this? You are the only person who can decide if it is a deal breaker.
Lying for 4 months is a deal breaker for me. I would not have made it to a year.
Oh lord. Don't tell her about the 6 week trip europe, the 4 week trip to Europe, or the 2 weeks hiking alone in NZ I went on without my then partner now husband ? trust is so important in relationships and she sounds like she has zero.
Please dump this financially abusive awful person ASAP.
He stole from you. He wiped out your money.
Please secure your bank details so he can’t pull this stunt ever again. You might even want to change banks completely so he can’t regain access to your account.
A friend of mine was in a very similar situation and by the time she got out her credit rating was destroyed and she is tied to her AH for life because they have two children together. She is a shell of a person.
You are 21 and starting out. Leave him far behind. You have a long life ahead of you, don’t waste it on him.
It doesn’t matter. You sending money to her is going to be nothing more than a band aid on a bullet wound. I love her. She’s my first love. I’ve spoiled her, I’ve compromised so much for her. I would like if she could understand where I’m coming from especially since she expects me to pay for everything. I would like her to do the same at times too
I dont know but I love the plot twist.
Making changes is easy for 3 weeks that's the truth. If expectations have been spoken about then when the ring comes back should have been 8ncluded in that conversation.
Good luck
Talking doesn’t solve the issue, she won’t get the truth out of him
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Jeez, no amount of therapy will fix the amount of crazy you’ve got.
“Your man” is much better off without you. Suck it up.
Spot on
oh sorry, you just stupid. “before ejaculation” lol what a moron.
So if he is the one you wants to carry this to your grave? It won't get easier?
So he had been going on about how he had charcuterie and movie night with his ex (who was his ex when we dated the first time) when we were broken up for a year… She had also been in contact with him while we were dating the first time, not this time around though even though she wanted to stay “friends.” I got annoyed and asked him to stop talking about it/her and he got defensive…. so then I asked if he had slept with her when we were apart. He's asked me a similar question before…. but when I asked him he was all over the place. Then settled on the “I don't recall” response…. The whole thing is petty but it's just the fact that he's always lying about something
Has Noone taken into consideration that maybe the boyfriend did something to warrant the best friend's feelings? It could have been something as simple as a smile in her direction, messages between them, or full-out cheating with her best friend. Why would OP want to give them an opportunity to discuss this with eachother? OP needs to sit down with her SO and BF and talk to them separately and ferret out all aspects of the situation. I hope this works out for you OP and you find out it was unrequited love (or infatuation) and not something more sinister.
You’re not the side chick..he has had you meet his parents and some siblings. Unless they’re all morally fucked, I don’t see many people being okay with this. You don’t have a Chester but you do have a man child as a bf. Having a girlfriend comes with responsibilities like picking up the tab and paying for things. Seems like he likes you keep you inside and keep his money for things HE wants to do.
Babe he’s 31, turning cameras off to his parents house. Dump him and find someone on the same as you.
“i wish i could f*ck you”
If you're in a sexually monogamous relationship with him, then I think you're being very reasonable to insist that he not text sexual messages to other women.
Everyone sucks here honestly. That is if it's real which I kinda doubt.
The Homie already sent me screenshots.
Problem is she will be smart enough to figure it out on her own even if I don’t tell her. Because I told her just a few months ago (because I’m an idiot and didn’t know she’d do this shit) that I want to spend my life with her. It wouldn’t take a genius to put 2 and 2 together. So I can’t not say it, because then she may go after him to break the answer out of him.
I won’t bring up the reason to the friend group. I’d like to just say “lets pretend we broke up on good terms and try to move on and be friends”. But I’m worried she will bring it up. The fact she was willing to do this in the first place makes me hesitant she would take this well and be willing to just pretend around them that it was a natural breakup. And that she will go after him for “lying”.
And if she does make it drama. I’m worried that there may be a few people who may defend her even when shown evidence (since some of them are far closer with her than me. One friend is basically a sister to her that she’s know almost her entire life).
I’m just unsure there’s a way to go about this that doesn’t lead to the friend group at least partially fracturing.
I've been wanting to move out of my parents house for a while anyway just for my own reasons and he's also in a position where he has to move, he doesn't have enough money to just move on his own so me moving with him would be helping both of us out.
That is very odd. Obviously something is going on. Best course of action is to wait for him to tell you what it is. Obviously, don't brush over it. It seems like he's working through something mentally.
Also, this may not be as important, but from the way you worded it, it seems like this may be the first time you guys talked / decided about kids. He asked you “will you want to have kids with me when we get married?” Wouldn't he already know the answer to that question? After 5 years, haven't you talked about the big important stuff like kids already? If not, it seems to me that there could be many other things beneath the surface that you do not know about concerning him.
what on earth kind of DM is your boyfriend if he hasn't already simply killed your dad's character? sheesh!!
you are probably going to have to talk with him, head-on. having a ready list of examples as you've presented here can only help. letting him know how those things make you and the other players feel might help.
a useful strategy might be to ask your father if he's even still enjoying the game, the next time you catch him on his phone during a game, etc. I can say that sort of thing would be frowned upon during any of the games I've ever been a part of, and that goes back to… what, 1990 or so? (holy shit…)
you may have to let him know that his behaviour makes the other players feel like they are wasting their time, especially if people have to catch him up because he zoned out. that's quite rude, actually– it sucks to plan out a campaign as a DM, only for someone to shit all over your effort.
at the end of the day, he is indeed your dad but that doesn't mean he's automatically welcome at your table. there's still a general standard of courtesy for your companion players, and he's making zero effort to meet it.
do remember, though, that your DM can always take advantage of the time-honoured tradition of simply killing off dad's character… i might recommend “pissed-off Drow elves”.
I want to, just a bit scared things could get awkward if she doesnt feel the same 🙁
A person doesn't have to do something wrong for you to have the right to break up. You're not happy. That's enough. It's not a good match, and that's not a failure on anyone's part. He's not the person you want to be with. Simply sit him down and say “I'm breaking up with you. I will be moving out on x date.” He does not need to agree with you, and you are not required to present a case.
If it looks like a creep, and it quacks like a creep… Imagine if she actually was a virgin and married this dude. A life of misery.
fuck. you're right. I do have to rip the band-aid off. but now the timing is weird.
her birthday is tomorrow, so I don't want to ask now..I still want to call her and wish her a happy birthday…and then maybe invite her out for coffee? or ask on text a few days later?
When we were talking a few months back she had asked me what my feelings are towards dating (in general) and I felt uncomfortable. So I said we can talk about that in person.
I love him but I feel like no matter what I do, there’s always gonna be a criticism.
It doesn't matter whether he's controlling or you are insecure.
You shouldn't be in a relationship that makes you feel this way. If it's you, you need to work on yourself before getting into a relationship. If it's him, well – you know what you need to do.
You had Badger chipped, right?
Take “Badger” to the vet to confirm his identity by getting his chip scanned.
The difference is that one is socially acceptable and the other isn't
Vaping is just as bad for you as smoking. There are so many documentaries and scientific studies that say so. Second hand vape fumes are also terrible for you. I don't care if they do smell better it's still shit you are breathing in as well.
That being said, you told him it wasn't a deal breaker. Are you prepared to break up with him over this? You are the only person who can decide if it is a deal breaker.
Lying for 4 months is a deal breaker for me. I would not have made it to a year.
Oh lord. Don't tell her about the 6 week trip europe, the 4 week trip to Europe, or the 2 weeks hiking alone in NZ I went on without my then partner now husband ? trust is so important in relationships and she sounds like she has zero.
Please dump this financially abusive awful person ASAP.
He stole from you. He wiped out your money.
Please secure your bank details so he can’t pull this stunt ever again. You might even want to change banks completely so he can’t regain access to your account.
A friend of mine was in a very similar situation and by the time she got out her credit rating was destroyed and she is tied to her AH for life because they have two children together. She is a shell of a person.
You are 21 and starting out. Leave him far behind. You have a long life ahead of you, don’t waste it on him.