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The first thing you need to do is get your bf to r/raisedbynarcissists and read the stories. There are also communities for entitled parents. He needs to start reading those right away. What his mother is doing is controlling and enmeshed and he needs to get out of her claws right away.
I think it's fine to not be your partner's “perfect type” as long as you guys talk it well through. I think a good relationship takes more than looks and yeah it's nice to be their type but I think she's attracted to you no matter what. You can try asking her if she'd like to change some small mundane things about you such as your style, your haircut etc etc but it's better than trying to be someone you're not. I used to always worry that I'm not my boyfriend's ideal type physically, but as of late I feel much more comfortable cause I know he loves me regardless, and I also changed my style which he loves now more than ever so like I said it's the small things
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“i don’t think i can live with this gnawing at me” – and there it is. you’re not going to give her closure. you’re going to give YOURSELF closure, because you’re a selfish asshole
Ewww seriously. Reading his comments on other posts I’m so grossed out. I honestly don’t even care that she cheated, I’m more concerned with your Reddit history over here. Tbh you probably deserved it. You’re gross OP.
Why would she get a paternity test?
Clear cut case of sexual assault, he was 100% sober and knew exactly what he was doing. You need to file a Police Report immediately and let them take care of this. If you let him get away with it he will feel emboldened and do it again, and again to other unsuspecting girls and each time he will take it a bit further ……
Only in some situations I think. If they’ve already talked about it and agreed to get married, she might be worried that he’s getting cold feet and doesn’t actually want to commit to her. That could be why she wants it so bad, she might be feeling insecure in her relationship if OP hasn’t talked to her about why he hasn’t proposed yet.
Personally I think it would drive me crazy if my SO told me he wanted to marry me and then he just didn’t propose and wouldn’t talk to me about why.
Ya, I don't see his possibly wanting to be with his ex as the biggest issue here.
You could say this about anyone, so why bother dating if they might get back together with an ex. Unless he talks about her a lot or has mentioned still having feelingd etc it's a weird reason not to want to pursue a relationship and be applied to just about any other possible future partner who has a past.
My biggest issues and what would stop me from dating someone like him is he wasnt upfront about having a child and other than paying child support he isn't an active part of his kid's life. I wouldn't want to put myself in the position of accidentally or even intentionally having a baby with a guy who I know can walk away like that.
Possible Cheating, gaslighting, manipulation, controlling, love bomber behaviour. Sounds like a catch.
He is working on it. I don’t have the best temper either so I’m trying to be understanding.
Basted eggs? I didn't know that was a thing. *off to check it out
And you can see through the glass, steam, and water to notice a stream of urine running down her leg, along with water? This post seems fake. But a lot of people pee in the shower and it’s fine.
You should go with yourself, your daughter and be single right now. Focus on your daughter and yourself. I would highly suggest counseling. Figure out why you are drawn to such men. Your current boyfriend was a red flag to start and should have never made it this far with you. You moved in to HELP him. A grown man who is not even the father of your child, nor your fiance. He hadn't earned that kind of treatment from you. You have a daughter you should be helping before anyone. That money would have been better spent on a future fund for her. You should NEVER be with someone who doesn't want anything to do with her. Now for your ex, I would never recommend moving for a man you aren't engaged/married to. No security there. Your ex just got out of a relationship. Yall should focus on co-parenting first. Both of you should heal from these last relationships. Neither of these relationships will go far with true happiness if you continue them at this moment. You have cheated on your boyfriend already and I didn't even need to dissect that to make a decision. Never, ever leave one person for another. It rarely goes well when you do. Leave them for what they have done and heal before moving on. When you are ok being alone, that's when you are truly ready to move on. Best of luck.
Every time I’ve heard of couples “taking breaks” it’s typically for one of two reasons; either one of the two is waiting for the other to get sober, or one of the two is taking the opportunity to sleep with other people.
My guess is that knowing you already “cheated”, she’s taking this opportunity to balance the scales one way or the other.
Don’t kiss people who aren’t your significant other. Alcohol is not an excuse.
My guess is that this relationship is toast.
If she wants to go, she’s going to go regardless of your feelings on the matter. It sucks that she’s planning on essentially abandoning her family, but you have to focus on how you and your daughter are going to cope with this. You can try asking your wife how she thinks this is going to effect her relationship with you and your daughter, but it sounds like her mind is already made up and she doesn’t care about the fallout. Personally, I would make it clear to your wife that if she chooses to walk out she may not have a family to come back to and then make plans accordingly. I’m sorry this is happening.
So if I would ask him to not talk to his ex I am crossing a line?
I don't think I can answer that for you. For me? Yes, 100% would be met with a “my friends are mine to pick, your welcome to ask but they are my friend and will continue to be”. Your partner and you might feel differently. I would ask this though, if he asked you to stop talking to your best friend for w/e reason, would you feel okay doing that right now? Even if the reason wasn't something you agreed with? Just introspect there a bit.
But I don’t see why he would still talk to her, they don’t have kids etc.
Could be any of a million reasons. Relationships to me are like friendships, at least at their foundational level. A relationship can end and I can still be their friend. I am friends with several of my exs. They are close to me, and they know me much better than most of my other friends.
I always hear: when a guys talks to his ex: red flag.
That statement is itself a red flag to me. Why are they generalizing? Why are they trying to assert control over a relationship that isn't theirs? Every situation is different, its really up to how him and you feel and what works for the two of you. If he agrees its not okay to talk to his ex, then awesome! You two are a good pair! But if he disagrees? Well, it's his life, not yours.
He did say that if it’s bothering me that he would stop contacting because he understands that it would make me uncomfortable.
If he offers, feel free to accept on that. I would suggest talking about it a lot, but it's healthy to work together on this!
I realized this now too. He wouldve done his thing. Maybe worse like actually record it or take pictures of her while she was unconscious.. fuck.. cant even write tht without wanting to throw up. Its gross.
And then jst gone about his life. If she mentioned pain the next day he wldve just told her
“oh well we had sex babe just got a bit excited dont u remember? U fell asleep afterwards”
And OP would've believed him. This man is a coward AH. Why didn't he rush after her in the first place and be apologetic then? Ur gf is crying in the bathroom and he probably just went to bed hoping she would forget about it.
You and your friends views of men with reasonable sexual boundaries sounds pretty toxic to me.
He said no. Never ask or bring it up again.
And you should dump your friends
when someone tells you the kind of person they are, believe them. he’s not really joking. and even if he is joking about them being physical, he’s not joking about being sexually attracted to her. and it’s evident because he gets mad/defensive when you bring it up.
??♀️ sis what!!!!! Cook vegetarian PERIOD. If he wants meat he can figure that out fir himself.
P.S. if you keep treating him like an incompetent child he will keep acting like one. GL
Thankyou.
Nope. Not overreacting at all.
I spent 4 years living with a guy with a “friend” like this when we were teenagers. Dude is 50 now (even got married to someone else for several years after me) and STILL romantically pining for his “friend”.
Trust your gut and trust your eyes. She might be your boyfriend’s “friend”, but she clearly is NOT YOURS.
You need your BF to decide who is his priority and act accordingly.
If you are NOT his priority, DTMFA and find someone who will put you first! Don’t waste 4 years wondering why you don’t matter to him like I did!!
So tell him no lol
No I havent met them yet, he wouldn't do that unless their mum was happy for it to happen
I think so ?. What do you suggest . Btw you are a great designer ?.
Lmao what’s funny is a person who actually has talent would never feel the need to say something like that. She’s putting you down because she knows she’ll never be good enough to be a ‘legitimate’ singer herself (like you said, she does ‘amateur’ musicals at 33 years old) and thus wants to create a concrete categorization of ‘good’ and ‘not good’ to make herself feel better.
It’s the same thing as the concept of a DUFF, someone shitty people can make fun of to elevate themselves. Except i’ve never seen an attractive and well-rounded person who says they have a ‘DUFF’, it’s always ugly people who want to feel less ugly by putting others down.
If your girlfriend was confident in her abilities, she’d never say this. She sucks enough that she’ll never make a mark with it or a legitimate career out of it, and she knows it deep down, so to offset that pain she puts you down and makes herself look ‘legitimate’ by comparison.
And just the secondhand embarrassment I feel at a 33 year old acting like she’s Freddie Mercury because she’s doing mf community theater is crazy
Does it matter why? She could have been there before the break up… she could have been over you before the break up… she could be going through a mistake phase to get over her broken heart. Both from you and her ex.
Different people take different time to recover. It could take her days and you years… or vice versa.
She's the past. Move on. Don't worry about someone who you aren't responsible for anymore. You'll never know why or what or how or who so don't give yourself ulcers over it.