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Make me vibrate with my lush…
That’s a really specific troll
No you are not toxic. She crossed a nude line for you. Sexual orientation of the stripper is irrelevant.
You sound a bit desperate and also seem to lack confidence in a general sense. You don't really mention anything about your personality, it's just that you expect to get someone to love you if you're successful and workout. Meet people, take your chances because the worst thing that can happen is rejection and if you make your intentions clear early it's not gonna sting as much.
I thought I was infertile for a whileeeee, turn out I am not, but it is harder for me to get pregnant than most women, it sucks, but a lot of women don't even realize how often women who've been told they can't get pregnant…do. To any woman reading these comments, no matter if you got your tubes tied, no matter if he has a vasectomy, no matter if he's wearing condoms, or if you've been told you're infertile, and even no matter if you're using birth control, there is still ALWAYS going to be a chance. You should always vocalize to your s/o the chance of you becoming pregnant (though if you're a dude reading this, it all goes for you too, no matter the situation she could still get pregnant, doesn't make if you got a vasectomy, wear a condom, and shes on birth control, it can STILL happen.) it's a good idea to get together with your s/o at least once or twice a year to speak about the what ifs so you have a back up plan and can make sure you're still seeing eye to eye, if you don't see eye to eye on how it should work out then LEAVE THEM, before the situation actually happens and you end up with a kid you never wanted or without a kid you did want.
That’s the thing, though. Even if you have good good times together, that doesn’t mean the relationship will last long-term. The good doesn’t erase the bad, and the bad doesn’t erase the good. It’s easy to have fun and get along with people when they’re happy. But if he’s not willing to stick with you through your bad times, he doesn’t know you nor deserve you at all. Don’t waste your time on someone like that. I know it’s nude to let go because you might be scared of letting go, or scared that you won’t find another lover, but I promise that you will. You have to let go to move on to better things, to find better people who will support you through good and bad.
A couple of thoughts, can't promise they'll be useful though.
One is ADHD specific ways to teach you, rather than giving you feedback such as something is not helpful. So if she wants you to do a certain chore, with attention to detail, ask her to write up a checklist you can go down to make sure the important parts are done. Then your job is to stick with it until finished, then go over the steps one more time just to be sure. Voila, you accomplished something and she's content with the way it was done.
Second thought is your lifelong experience of being told, and feeling, you weren't good enough is a trauma that will be nude to overcome. This is best done in individual therapy, not couples counseling, if you can accurately convey to your individual therapist how you feel defensive when receiving feedback.
I have to admit that after 22 years of marriage to a guy with (undiagnosed but probable) ADHD and hypersensitivity to criticism, I was very done. So I can sympathize with where your wife is. Be really nice to her and you might save the relationship.
Coming from a person who has a father who treats her mother terribly, I wish more than anything that my mom would get a divorce. When I was younger, I didn't know how bad things were. Now, every time I learn about something else he has done or is doing, I am just more and more disgusted by him. More than that, I am just sad for my mom. It is eating away at her, and it is terrible to watch.
No one should have to stay in a situation like this. He isn't a partner to you. He is an abuser. Just because he doesn't hit you, it doesn't make what he is doing not abuse. Eventually, if she hasn't already, your daughter will see this. It will affect her. The longer you stay in this situation, the worse it will be for the both of you.
Girl… Stop playing dumb and naive you used him for your emotional needs without having to risk being Vulnerable.
just accept that what ever you had is over and maybe next time don't do things like you did in this “relationship”
Due to your brutal lack of paragraphs I can't read all of that.
That being said, it should of ended with you first sentence.
Perhaps followed by something about no contact.
I was thinking about it but I feel like in person would be better. Also I don’t wanna pay to much for one, I still have my college and etc
Maybe take a short break, given how low your self esteem is, it might be beneficial for you to go out and test the waters a little. A lot of guys (including myself) are into women who don't look like an advert for a cosmetic surgery clinic.
Another thing you can try is maybe discuss some new things to do in the bedroom, it can be that maybe its been so vanilla in the bedroom that he just doesn't feel like doing it anymore?
I think he should stop inhaling his own farts. This guy sounds like Ash from 90day fiancé. Like how DF does this sound good. Is he a neckbeard?
You can't fix it. Let her go and grow up. Don't get into another relationship until you've learned to be less of a POS
On one hand, the: “yeah everyone has video of her cheating, but I will not show it to you, even though I have literally told you on her” is the just load of bullcrap.
On the other, hand she has lost her memory? She means she has lost her memory when she was with her friends and that guy, but is somehow sure she hasn't cheated on you? Not to mention, she would have heard what happened from her friends after that. What I mean is that if her cheating is true, her not being aware of it is a lie.
I know it's impossible for both of them to be false. Does her brother have this supposed video. I mean as the number of people having it increases it should be easier for you to obtain it. Assuming it exists and you are in good relations with her brother even if he does not have currently he should ask some of her friends (except the snitch) about it subtly. He either gets confirmation or video, or indecisive statements that is the same as confirmation or firm denials from all sides.
Ah I see. My sister is like that. Asks you repeatedly for advice but never actually considers it. I finally got to a point where I just said I’m not wasting my time giving you advice you never seem to listen to.
Please leave, you have two kids and one of those is a lazy, entitled a$$.
Do you two online together?
What did she spend it on?
Was the account a joint savings account?
Yeah I've thought about that, I just can't imagine how awkward it could be. I've never made a move before so I'm feeling quite anxious about it.
In my opinion a SO comes before friends.
If your son was in this didn't want to see his gf's friend how would like her to act?
We broke up:/
how is he a cheater when they weren't in a relationship
Where did he neg?
While it's fair for her to not want to lower her standards or pay more than what she already is, it either means that you two need to broaden your horizons in regards to location or prepare to spend a long time searching for the right place that you might never find if you are to move in together.
However, if she makes more than you then it's unreasonable to expect you to pay more than her. Unless you both like the idea of her essentially being your maid in exchange for significantly lower rent, then it sounds like this relationship isn't going to go anywhere.
Facepalm, after seeing your comments and post, are you even sure you did the deed with her? You are looking quite easy to trick. Leave your ex alone, she is deserving better
What outcome are you looking for here?
This is just so sad. He did everything you wanted and it's not good enough. Maybe find the guy who is already what you want instead of forcing him to pretend to be that guy for fear of losing you.
He has said things like he wants to just put the tip in her, wants to include her in our bedroom, says hes already slept with her ,and if they both really did sleep together he wouldn't tell me and neither would her.
Girl how many red flags do you need????
I definitely plan on having a conversation with him at some point tomorrow. The reason I say stuck is because I was just laid off from work this month (convenient timing I know). I do have my savings to get me by for some months so it’s not like I’m just relying on his income, I guess I’m just concerned about how soon I’d be able to get a replacement job in this economy so now it seems like I’d be jumping out of the plane with no parachute.
Im sorry but at 38 your chances of having a miscarriage and problems with pregnancy are already more than triple fold than 10 years ago. Do you want to keep gambling with a man who keeps saying 'not now, stop pushing me, I dont know when, you should just keep waiting'?
Your expectations are not too much.
Also, this isn't because he's introverted. I'm as introverted as they come but I remember things that are important to those I care about.
Tell her that you need some breathing space.
Don't talk to her or see her for two weeks. (If you online with her then find somewhere to stay for two whole weeks. You can rent a hotel room cheaply for a longterm rental. Friends will often help in a tight situation like this.)
I would bet money that after two weeks without her toxic presence you will realize that you can do a helluva lot better!
She literally said she is only with you because she is running short on childbearing years and you're the only likely candidshe has in the stable.
Don't get stuck with this piece of trash human for 18 years. She doesn't even love you. You're convenient.
Missions are a waste of time, focus on your storyline quests, even if they're in another city.
Please don't blame yourself. Abuse is so convoluted and abusers make an effort to confuse you and lower your trust in your own intuition. You've done the right thing in listening to your gut and reaching out for validation. Now you are making a get out plan. You are amazing for leaving, focus on that!
Please think about yourself and the kids. I know it's scary to think of managing without a partner, but you deserve something better than that. What he did is terrifying and violent. No middle ground. Is this the first time he has ever done this? What does your mom think?
I would suggest going to al anon. There's even a subreddit you could check out that might help. You can't love him out of this he has to do the work and he doesn't seem to want to right now. It doesn't matter what he's been through or the mental health issues he has. This relationship is hurting you.
OP make sure bf’s credit is locked. This cc stuff is shady. If this company goes under bf credit going with it.
thank you. i appreciate your appreciation. wish there were more people like you. I think of myself as a zoo keeper of monsters.
Because if she sees a future with this guy, this is the kind of secret that will destroy an otherwise perfectly happy marriage in 10 years. Don't keep secrets like this from the person you claim to love.
On the other hand, if he is an anti-choice misogynist, she needs to know asap.
She's going to say something very normal: we're not ready to have kids, I'm going to terminate.
He's going to react to that very normal thing, and this reaction will tell her everything she needs to know about this guy. Either he reacts like a well adjusted person and supports her, or he outs himself as someone who shouldn't be dated.
Either way, telling him is the best thing to do, to figure out which future they potentially have together, if any.