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  1. You can demand that your daughter and her husband call you to tell you the time they actually will be arriving. Otherwise, no answering the door or gifts.

  2. I commented this elsewhere on another RA post, but I think it bears repeating.

    The best piece of relationship advice I ever got was not to focus only on how someone treats you when things are going well.

    Of course things are great when there is no pressure and you are having fun.

    The true character of a person is in how they treat you when they are mad or stressed.

    Do they argue with respect? Do you feel loved even when you don’t agree with each other? Does your partner make you feel secure, no matter what?

    That my dear is when you know you have found someone worth staying with.

    Good luck op.

  3. Well, my advice? Do NOT give in to his “request”. It is unreasonable and controlling. If that means you walk away from the relationship, that is something I would SERIOUSLY be considering in your shoes at this point.

    As another poster commented, if the behavior is controlling (and in this instance it is), it can (and likely will) get worse in the future.

  4. Then he should reconsider being in a relationship and definitely should not be getting married if his trauma as a result of that experience is so bad that he is exhibiting such toxic traits.

    Like is he even able to acknowledge how absurd what he is saying is? This isn't even just 'I worry about other men' but right into 'I actively believe you are wanting to cheat on me' and that is a much much scarier place to be. That he thinks this is all okay and rational shows how far away from being healthy he really is.

    This guy is a woodchipper and you are hopping in voluntarily. Just because you understand why he is a woodchipper doesn't make it a good idea to stick a hand in. If anything, all you can affirm from the idea this is trauma is that unless he actively tries to deal with it, which he doesn't seem to have done at all, then this will likely only get worse over time as he becomes more invested in you.

  5. If you feel like you need to hire a personal investigator to catch your husband cheating just leave because whether he’s cheating or not you don’t trust him

  6. Yeah. Sounds like he’s burning the candle at both ends and just konks out when he has a moment to rest.

    I am not a particularly romantic or emotional person. I’m an engineer. That might be a reason, it’s not an excuse. But seriously, I just don’t think about some of these things. I love my partner very much and he’s a wonderful human. But like when he called this morning? My first thought was “oh no, something is wrong!” Because in my mind, why would he call if there wasn’t a problem or he forgot some gear I need to bring up tomorrow. LOL I’m more of a functional/efficient communicator where I reach out when I need something, not “just because”.

    People are people-y. We are all different. In a healthy relationship though, we ask for what we want and we get to give what our partner needs. We are all works in progress!

    Good luck!

  7. My ex stepdad was attracted to children, and my mom didn't believe me when I told her. She stayed with him another nine years until I blackmailed her into kicking him out. I laugh at the idea of leaving her to rot in an abusive nursing home one day, and if I could kill or torture her and get away with it there's a good chance I would. Trust me, you don't want that kind of relationship with any child in your life. Stay away from him and contact the authorities asap. If you stay with him and he abuses a child, you are partially at fault. You are ALREADY partially at fault for not breaking up with him, because he now has plausible deniability (evidence that he is attracted to an adult) for the fact that he is consuming child porn. He is very likely actively funding the sex trafficking of children by watching his sick, disgusting CP, and now he has someone who knows about it but has not done anything.

  8. That’s what I was afraid of. I’ve done everything I could to be a good friend to her since it happened, but no matter what, anytime it flairs up and is painful she blames me for it. I’ve blamed myself for months over this.

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